why won't he belive me?

Question

my "bf"says that i am cheating on him with another guy because thats what his friends are telling him..... now he will not listen to what i have to say about it.... crys.......but i never did that to him
will some one help me out on what to say so we can get back together?

Answer 1

Stop cheating on him for a start, then he cant say it anymore.

Answer 2

MAN I hate the jealousy games!! If you truely haven't cheated on your bf, then I would watch him for signs of cheating. I was married to a man who always believed rumors over me. I never cheated on him EVER! AFter 3 years, I found out that he was cheating on me the entire time, and was using the Jealousy trip as a way to make himself feel better about things. If he is doing this ALREADY in your relationship, I wouldn't even bother with the guy. His behavior will only get worse, and you will be miserable. Don't become a hermit to prove yourself to him. It won't make a BIT of difference, and you will be emotionally and mentally scarred as a result. This damage can last for years, and on into other relationships. Get out of this relationship NOW.

Answer 3

It comes down to something called trust. If you haven't given him reason to believe you have been cheating on him, then you've done all you can, and need to quit blaming yourself.

Reverse the situation for a minute. If your friends were telling you he was cheating on you, and he said that was not true, who would you believe and why? If he hasn't been unfaithful to you up to this point, and your answer is him, then he has no right to think this of you, and it is apparent that your trust and respect for him goes deeper then his for you. If you would say your friends, then ask yourself why you would, and what could he do to convince you otherwise, then do so to reestablish your credibility with him.

Answer 4

it takes 2 to make a relationsup work. i would try to talk to the friedn that was sating all of the stuff to him and ask him why he did that. then try to talk to your boyfriend again and say you've always been faithful to him adn that you still are. say things liek you "i would never do anything to hurt you"

but if yourt alking and he doesnt listen than thats his loss, and maybe his frend will come aroun don day and be liek "oh by the way your ex never cheated on you" maybe the friend was jealous that he was spending oo much time with you? and not enogh time with him? sont know

just really try talking to him, text message him if he wont answer the phone. he will most liekly read them and hopefully reconsider your relationship

but sommunication is the key to a healthy relatioship. you need to talk and he needs to listen
but definatley talk to the friend who is being the jerk first...

hope things get better =)

Answer 5

I know how much you want to get back with him, but why won't he listen to you? There has to be trust between the both of you, if there is no trust, I don't think you can make it. Why don't you just try not talking to him, for a few days. If he cares about you, he will contact you. Please don't go begging him to get back with you, if he don't contact you, then I guess, he doesn't care. Just go about your everyday routine, and wait to see if you hear from him. If you go back to him, and he has no trust in you, he will not treat you like a lady, that you are..Just wait..good luck..

Answer 6

If your boyfriend chooses to believe his friends over you, then he has no sense of trust in your relationship with him. Immaturity is also another factor. True, it is unfair and I am sure you feel trapped and hurt, however you are probably better off without him. Someone who won't give you a chance does not deserve your time either.

Answer 7

The word couple means two. Your relationship should be between just the two of you. When you involve other people you are setting the relationship up for failure. I think you need to tell him that either he is in a relationship with you and not his friends and to start trusting you or you just need to walk away and leave it alone and that means alone.

Answer 8

You must clear any rumours out by contradicting what his friends said. If his friends said they saw you on a certain date and time with another guy, you can tell him where you really were and get your colleagues to back you. Im sorry for the trouble and hurt you are going through and my sympathies are with you. Take care dear...

Answer 9

Love is the answer to everything. All you ever need is love,
communication and understanding. That's what I figured out so
far. If you are down, you need to get up and start doing something with
your life. Don't need to be shy, be straight forward and allways say what
you want and expect from the others.

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Answer 10

Look u can't have a relationship without trust & tahat's what his lacked. Another thing is that u can't do anything 2 get someone back without their free will. the only thing u need 2 do is get over him & find yourself someone who can trust u & not believe everything their buddies say.

Answer 11

If you really like him I know this really hurts. But What he doesn't understand is his friends are jealous of what your bf has in you. They just want him to be with them and not you. "Misery Loves company" syndrome. They don't have a woman, so they want him to lose his. But my suggestion to you is, stay confident in yourself. If he is going to believe them over you then he isn't the one for you. You break up with him first. That way it won't be unfinished business for you. Your confidence will still be intact.