What do you do when your boyfriend say he "loves" you but told his friend that he doesn't?
2006-10-05 10:17:49 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
realize that he is like all men- we can say we love a woman and not mean it. It is a skill we have.
2006-10-05 10:19:10 · answer #1 · answered by Trip S 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself if you think he is telling you the truth. He is either lying to you or his friend. He may be trying to safe face with his friend because his friend is giving him a hard time about him loving you. Or he maybe just tying to win you over to get what he wants from you. Trust your gut! Open your eyes the things that he is doing is going to give you more perspective than what he is saying.
2006-10-05 10:21:58 · answer #2 · answered by texaschick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to me that L word is like the worst swear there is.
When the woman you love looks you straight in the eyes and says "I love him". Then some skinny guy walks past. You wonder, what the hell was that. Who did she mean. ME? SOmebody else? Should I do or say something? SHould she? What was that? Who is she? Why? Wierd, confusing, crazy, at best>
2006-10-05 10:22:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must decide if you want a boyfriend who is either a coward or a liar (or both). This is disrespectful. People aren't gonna change. Unless his friend is lying you must get rid of that one dear, it only get's worse. You are much more valueable that that.
2006-10-05 10:21:28 · answer #4 · answered by Suzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your gut. If you feel he loves you and he shows it trust your feelings...us women generally don't go wrong with this kind of thing.
Maybe his friend would start teasing him and in order not to appear vulnerable he said he didn't love you.
What do you think is true?
2006-10-05 10:20:53 · answer #5 · answered by White 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just a wus and is afraid to let his friends see that he has feelings. It's a stupid guy macho thing. Especially for younger men.
whether or not you want to make a stink out of it is up to you.
2006-10-05 10:20:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him really quick! Why do you need to worry yourself about BS like that it is obvious he is about "how do I say it"? Not a damn thing! Give him the boot, tell him to kick mud and go about your way! Who needs games and why wait till it is too late to find out he was really telling the truth!
2006-10-05 10:22:57 · answer #7 · answered by "M" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't do nothing about it... he's just trying to act like a player in front of his friends... but the only thing that matters is that he told YOU that he loves you and dont worry about everyone else.
2006-10-05 10:20:56 · answer #8 · answered by hotchickhazeleyed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he realy luves u and told his freindhat m that he did not he is eather lying 2 u or lying 2 him and teens he is 2 embarest 2 show that he luves u so srry 2 say but i think u should dump him.
2006-10-05 10:20:30 · answer #9 · answered by ray-lyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say you love him back. If you DO, that is. If you don't, I don't know what to tell you. Every situation is different and only you know how best to handle that.
2006-10-05 10:21:04 · answer #10 · answered by mommyofmegaboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋