My only relationship ever lasted like 2 weeks. I've only made out with a woman twice. I just feel like it's all pointless and unfulfilling. I just have no desire to go out and meet women. If I'm still a virgin at 40 I'll be happy.
2006-10-05 10:20:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, I'm not a homosexual. I didn't say anything about men in here.
2006-10-05 10:24:49 · update #1
I truly feel like I have nothing to offer a woman anyway.
2006-10-05 10:31:41 · update #2
Well then what are your goals in life? do you want to meet someone or are you just saying that you don't care because you don't know how?
most relationships are pointless i do agree but I found this guy and he is wonderful! and he is so fulfilling to my needs i mean i still my very own life where i can do what i want to do with whom i want to do it with (not sex) and he is there as this big bonus in my life!
up until i met him i was just like you! didn't care to be alone didn't care to have a partner... just wasn't my idea of a good time!
and then i met him!
wow!
but i was also down on my luck about 6 months before i met him! then i started to make goals in my life and want things! still never really wanted that!
well one day i was sitting alone and i thought wow if i keep this up will i have children will i be able to pass on my name! do i want to? i'm so selfish and independnt that if i do have kids will i let my partner have any say so or will it be like my cousins relationship where she hasthe upper hand and her poor husband...
i had that thought! well i forgot all about that! and continued to focused on my goals! and stayed back with my single life!
then this guy comes around and just flips my life upside down! in all the good ways!
i was changing for the good and he just understood and now we are going on our 1 anniversary! not married but one day when the time is right!
Mad luv
2006-10-05 10:29:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From society's rules, no it isn't normal. But it's really all about you and when you are ready. No one would probably believe you because everyone is having sex early and frequently. That's a whole mannerism about guys is sex, so when there is someone like yourself that comes along and says, hey I haven't had sex, then everyone is like whoa! Then again people would think you are gay. But to hell with what everyone thinks. You know when you are ready to make that move, and it's genuine that you chose to be a virgin. But why don't you have a desire to be with women? There's something else that you are keeping back, but like I said you are ready when you are ready, as long as you are content.
2006-10-05 10:27:10 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. PHILlis (in training) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Bible talks about people who have no sex drive and says they are better off than those who do. Also the world has messed up what God intended sex to be. The world makes it out to be something else entirely and I would not be surprised if more and more people don't become totally turned off by the thought of it. Just don't let media and other people push you into doing something you don't really want to do. Sometimes that can turn people into freaks.
2006-10-05 10:28:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suspect that there is either something in your past that is troubling you that relates to relationships or affection OR you have an extremely low libido which could be a sign of a hormonal imbalance.
Part of being human is having a sex drive. I don't want to say something crass like you're not normal or anything. I think you need to seriously examine the cause whether it be psychological or physical.
2006-10-05 10:26:04 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's normal for a man OR a woman to be happy never having sex. But...I think it's just a manifestation of your frustration with love and dating, personally. And if your hormones aren't going bonkers yet they probably will.
2006-10-05 10:33:52 · answer #5 · answered by ixi26c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is how you feel, i guess nothing is wrong. It's your body,emotions and etc;don't say you don't have anything to offer,after all your thought may change. I've met a few women at your age who are also,virgin's.
2006-10-05 10:46:59 · answer #6 · answered by joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well me personally i think its okay for a man or a woman not to want to have sex me im not a virgin but i wish i wouldve waited and im glad that youre waiting that makes me want to save the rest that i have left but anywho great job One Love Taye
2006-10-05 10:27:27 · answer #7 · answered by Taye 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is the best.
2006-10-05 10:22:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You never miss what you never experience.
2006-10-05 10:23:38 · answer #9 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dude, yer gay...not that there's anything wrong with that.
2006-10-05 10:23:00 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋