Singles & Dating - 4 October 2006

i met this very average looking girl two months back. she recently broke up with her boyfriend as instructed by me as he was a real asshole. now she says she doesnt trust any guy.
but we are the best friends and we chat for hours and even overnight sometime on phone now and dont even feel the time. i just cant afford to loose her as i find her the most compatible and best understanding girl ever. i cant see her sad even for a second and we care for each other a lot. i just become so happy when see her smiling face and sad when she s sad. we must accept that we are so good together. i dont find any reason why i should not tell her that i am falling for her . but o dont know if she will say a yes after her break up . should i tell her

2006-10-04 18:14:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-04 18:12:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

So i know this girl. We've been to dinner twice now, and nothing physical has happened. She's mentioned still being a bit hung up on her ex, and last weekend, i sort of caught her in a lie when i 'bumped' into them at the movies. but she still asks me to have dinner with her, like shes interested in me, and i still dont make moves because im weary of her situation with her ex. Should i go for it and try to make a move, or should i ask her where things stand with her and him and where i might fit into it all, or what? I like her personality, her flaws, her appearance, etc., but im a man and i have my limits. I also dont think i should have to "put up" with the run-around. So what do i do?

2006-10-04 18:08:37 · 15 answers · asked by man_hands542 2

i get alot of attention from both sexes just for being tall, plus i hear that being tall gives you many advantages in the work place also, what do you think?

2006-10-04 18:05:50 · 15 answers · asked by amomg2 1

my ex is named chandler and my friend rachel asked him "did u break up with marie b/c u found out about her and justin?" (nothing happened btw. us we just wanted to see if he would get jealous) and he kept asking her "who is justin? & What did they do?" Would u say he is jealous??

2006-10-04 18:05:41 · 6 answers · asked by Marie G 1

I just when out on a "set up" date with this guy. We went out for coffee and then to play some pool and video games. When he drove me home he went the seenic way by the ocean. Then he walked me to the door and gave me a hug. We have been talking on the phone for the past few days and we seem to have a lot in common. Do you think he likes me and he just wants to take is slow or could it be that he's not attracted to me and he just wants to be friends?

2006-10-04 18:05:22 · 6 answers · asked by Fuzzybunny95531 4

Hope some nice people out there have some really good advice?? My best friend for the last five years told me he was in love with me 2 years ago. We were sort of 'together' without being official. I thought that I loved him, but now I'm not sure. I've got a lot of things to worry about at the moment: uni and the start of a potentially fantasic career. I told him about my unsurety, and sometimes he's alright with it, and other times, he just gets really super angry, sad, depressed, and tries to sort of 'force' me back into the relationship. I really want to keep his friendship, tho...

2006-10-04 18:01:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

well my b/f and i r going out but i dont feel n e thing n e more. i dont wanna break up but im not really happy. what should i do?

2006-10-04 18:00:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-04 17:59:56 · 11 answers · asked by Celi 2

Okay, so I just got advice to ask this guy point blank if he has a girlfriend. I want to do that, but am not sure how. I am not supposed to see him until next Thursday, but I really want to know now. I am not super comfortable just calling him up, but I really want to know. How to best create a situation where I can get the information I need without sticking my head out too much?

2006-10-04 17:59:22 · 13 answers · asked by calliope 1

ok so my ex girlfriend broke up with me to date this butthead and he just broke her heart and i have always been there for her and she still likes me but i dont know what to do so can you help me please

2006-10-04 17:59:10 · 20 answers · asked by Chris B 1

what is the one thing a woman can say to you that will make you want to have her right then and there?

2006-10-04 17:58:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

What has been the sexiest thing that a man has ever said to you that made you see him in a totally different way?

2006-10-04 17:57:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-04 17:55:57 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

DO YOU HAVE TO TAKE A CRAP???????????
I DON'T!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL

2006-10-04 17:54:17 · 13 answers · asked by Wolf Apple 3

I dated a hopless mommas boy ....yes you you know who you are

2006-10-04 17:52:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-04 17:51:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

A guy that I have a crush on, (who also happens to be a friend) asked me to come watch a movie last night with him. A couple of days before that he asked me to invite my friend over too. I thought he had a thing for her. Then she couldn't make it and I told him and he was ok with it. Later on he told me that if I wanted I could invite any friend. Like did he have a problem just being the two of us or what?

2006-10-04 17:51:01 · 17 answers · asked by Puffgurl 1

I know it's a weird question, but I need honest answers. Please and thank you. : )

2006-10-04 17:49:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I also work with this guy he's in a different part of the building but a few times during the day will come downstairs just for some face time to say hello, will shoot me emails or will want to go to lunch. this definitely doesn't sound like a friend with benefits but I've had the heart to heart talk with him in regards to maybe possibly taking this to a bf level but he keeps claiming that he doesn't want anything serious but continues to call three to six times a day to check in and he just called me a little while ago to say goodnight. We don't actually get together for sex more than once a week but he will come over to watch movies, eat dinner or just hangout and relax.........I swear that sounds more like a bf than a fwb(in denial???)

2006-10-04 17:48:36 · 7 answers · asked by Lady L 1

does a girl really feel shy of the person they love or do they actually feel comfortable in his presence.How do they show their love for the guy they love.

2006-10-04 17:48:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

i know not to try untill they are 18

2006-10-04 17:48:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my boyfriend have been dating for nearly 3 years, i am 20 (turning 21 in august) he is 19 (turning 20 in march), we have known each other since year 8 approx 14 years of age. we started going out in year 12 (2004). we now currently live togetther (and have been for the past year) we had a child (but miscarried) and i think i may be pregnant again (but thats a different story) he has proposed to me 3 or 4 times and he has taken it back. He says he loves me and wants to marry me one day. whats he scared of? commitmant? why? im not understanding. is there anything i can do to get him to do it a little quicker?

2006-10-04 17:46:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been seeing this guy for a while we dated when i was 18. he is now 35 and I am 21. He cheated on me in the past and i can see a definate change. But there is the age thing. It doesn't bother me. I have no clue y. Should it? Do you think we should try agian? He says he loves me and wants to marry me? He has never said that before. He also had a 9 yr old kid who loves me to dealth and i love him too.

2006-10-04 17:45:27 · 13 answers · asked by LIZZY 2

2006-10-04 17:45:14 · 4 answers · asked by princess 2

I met this guy I am now playing music with. The moment I met him, I knew I really was going to like him, and he seemed to feel the same way. A lot of things have happened, including him quitting an orchestra he was in to play more music with me. However, in the 3 months we have known each other, there has been an undercurrent of mutual interest. We both seem so much of the time pretty much at the cusp of asking each other out, but have been gradually becoming more open and comfortable.
I heard from another source that at least 3 mos ago, he had a serious girlfriend. Things have gone far beyond the point when he should have brought this up, but he never has. He is opening up, generally speaking, but to get him to open up more, I asked him recently if there was some reason why there might be some unspoken boundary between us, and he was very reassuring and kind, and said he would try and do better. Do you think he does still have a serious girlfriend? How can I find out?

2006-10-04 17:44:13 · 5 answers · asked by calliope 1

2006-10-04 17:43:10 · 3 answers · asked by holymonx 4

theres this really cute guy who asked me out today and i havent answer yet but a lot of people keep telling me that his a player that he cheated in his ex by having sex with some other girl and that all he wants is to get in my pants. he told me that he really, really likes me but i truly dont know what to think because around me his very sweet and respectfull, but some people keep telling me that i deserve better. what should i do?

2006-10-04 17:41:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dated someone long distance, and because of the way it ended, decided not to talk to him to try to get over it. However, I am still afraid to get close to other people since I am still hurt and angry with the ex. I have not talked to him, and I think if I did, it may prove to be more upsetting than helpful. What should I do to resolve this within myself and move on?

2006-10-04 17:41:04 · 5 answers · asked by waterbaby 1

First of all, you should know he's very confused. He thinks he's too young to possibly know what he wants. It's not that he "doesn't want to be with me", but more that he "doesn't know if he wants to be with anybody at this age". He's too afraid that 4 years down the road he WON'T want to date me anymore, but that by then,he'll be to attached. I love him so much, that love doesn't begin to explain my feelings for him. We have alot in common, but it seems like i'm always having to defend why I feel, the way I feel.

How do I know if it's me or him who has to change? Better yet, how do I deal with him breaking up with me, if he literally means the world to me? That's more pain than anyone can humanly handle!

2006-10-04 17:40:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous