theres this really cute guy who asked me out today and i havent answer yet but a lot of people keep telling me that his a player that he cheated in his ex by having sex with some other girl and that all he wants is to get in my pants. he told me that he really, really likes me but i truly dont know what to think because around me his very sweet and respectfull, but some people keep telling me that i deserve better. what should i do?
2006-10-04 17:41:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course he tells you that he really, really likes you. Of course he is sweet and respectful around you now because he has not conquered you yet. You are interested in him because he is cute. So are other women. Some cute guys are players and some are not. My guess is that since he has a reputation for being a player then why risk getting hurt?
There must be one guy that maybe is not so cute but will not hurt you, right? There must be one guy that does not have the gift of gab to say that he really, really likes you but deep down inside, he sincerely likes/loves you, right? There must be one guy that does not have the charm to be so sweet and respectful but that really would act respectful and not cheat on you, right? So why take a chance with this charming, cute alleged lothario?
2006-10-05 00:04:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know him because you can't always believe what people say, but just in case, keep your guard up. Don't let him in your pants too soon! You can tell if a guy wants you for one thing if; he is all over you most of the time. Go out with him but observe the way he acts when he is around only you, and when you both are around other people. Pay a close attention to things he says; most of the time you can tell if he is full of BS.
2006-10-05 00:54:04 · answer #2 · answered by charmed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be a player, but maybe you can do something about that if you really like him. Take people's advice, but assure yourself that they're just trying to protect you, but they don't really know how this guy is like. To really find out, be with him for awhile and see his habits. If he attempts to try to have sex with you, reject it. It doesn't matter how hott or how sweet he is, if he tries to seduce you, he's testing you to see if you're different, or just a regular ho-bag. Don't give him the chance to call you a w=h-o-r-e when you're not, and reject any attempts. If he respectfully backs away, he really likes you. If he doesn't, he really is a player.
2006-10-05 00:47:19 · answer #3 · answered by forest_without_sounds 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to the other people!!! they are haters! go out w/ him if you like him and see for yourself. guys will tell u he is a player because they wanna get w/ you . and girls will tell u he is a player because they want him. when i was in high school this really cute guy liked me and everyone tried to tell me he was gay because he dressed so well and color coordinated his clothes...lmao. isn't that crazy? people are hata'sssss dont let outsiders make your decision by telling you bullsh**! go find out for yourself, and you know when to say no....right???
2006-10-05 00:50:50 · answer #4 · answered by apple martini 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with him and dont let him make a fool out of you...dont have sex with him, if he leaves you soon you'll know why is he with you...just give him a chance, maybe the rumors are not true, people might be jealous of his good looks..
2006-10-05 00:47:31 · answer #5 · answered by Mila 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait for few months before starting with him , you will be able to make it out about his sincerity , you must have patience .
2006-10-05 00:48:11 · answer #6 · answered by your noon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Better observe first and find out more about him before you make any commitments.
2006-10-05 00:45:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, this one's easy. Date him. If his sex drive seems to be a constant theme in your relationship with him, dump him. If not, I wish you the best.
2006-10-05 00:47:04 · answer #8 · answered by Odindmar 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just have your guard up....if u want to see for yourself...go on a date w/ him...and if he tries to do sumthin...then u'll kno..he just wants in ur pants..and walk out on him.
2006-10-05 00:47:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he might or might not be. if you trust your friends pass on him but you can consider giving him a cautious try.
2006-10-05 00:49:01 · answer #10 · answered by pbuilder_novis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋