just like you ask any girl out.... just ask her.
Now if you were a jerk, dated her before and cheated on her, or done something really stupid like either one of the two i listed... I would first try to repair the damage...
if you don't want to do that, at least wear an athletic cup and shin guards... you might need it.
2006-10-04 17:56:43
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answered by mommakaye 5
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Life is a gamble. People may change - and that includes the girl who hates u. Here's how YOU should ask.
1. Apologise SINCERELY for whatever that made her angry. Remember it isn't you who angered her, it's YOUR action and behaviour that did.
2. Always ask for a date with a DATE, LOCATION, DRESS CODE and ACTIVITY. Is it for a picnic and funfair? Or a movie and then chill out at some music lounge? Be as detailed as possible.
3. Send an invitation card and call her a few days later. So your date should at least be a week ahead. Girls appreciate guys who are considerate enough to plan something nice, even if it is a simple date.
If you don't try, the girl may continue hating you. If you try, you have 50% chance of dating her. The other 50% is of course, a rejection from her.
That said, GOOD LUCK!
2006-10-05 00:58:10
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answered by MyQute 3
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Maddy for Matthew or something. Dont matter, its Maddy.
Ok, some shy people give the impression they hate you.
And then theres those 'opposite attract' things which are true.
If you think she hates you and you can handle the rejection just ask her in private.
If she .....seeems.....to hate you, ask her in private.
No loss, no gain or vice versa.
Its very hard for the shy to show they might like someone, but shy people are very likable, so give it a try. Yes, or no. Thats all you wanto to know. No harm in that.
And oh yeah, suddenly a person that shows interest in another seems very attractive. Nature, huh. Go for it.
And by the way, tell her truthfully up front what it is about her that attracts you. Shy people will even laugh about that so dont be put off.
If she gets mean, thank GOD you asked in private! (And deny if she says you did)
2006-10-05 01:03:42
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answered by baghmom 4
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Alright! A challenge! Ok man, here's what you gotta do.
First off, just go up to her and ask her in a mean way. Something like, "I'm probably too good for you, but... you wanna get some coffee next Friday?" Trust me, girls don't ever expect it, but when you play the same cards they do, they just drop their defenses all over the place. Do not be the nice guy. Mean girls like mean guys who know what they want. Every other guy will suck up to her and be a complete push over and that's just what she's used to. But you're not the "other guy". You're not gonna take her crap.
Being the alpha male and taking what is yours is quite attractive to women. Try it out.The worst thing that could happen is she says no. Hope this helps and best of luck to ya!
~D.
ps- Man, I'm telling you, the guy before me is a slave to his gf, that is if he even has one. Please do yourself a favor and do not follow his advice. Never apologize for being cheeky! Have fun!
2006-10-05 00:58:21
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answered by conservative_rocker1 2
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dont do it. Dont set yourself up for rejection. Why would you want to date a girl that hates you? Find someone that likes you and ask her out. Good luck
2006-10-05 00:53:35
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answered by Michelle : 5
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There is a fine line between love and hate so just ask I think you'll be sastified with the answer.
2006-10-05 01:48:23
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answered by hank 1
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Poor Guys
2006-10-05 06:14:04
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answered by pari 3
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go up to her and ask her for a date. wht sinside a womens heart is that a man should come up first to win the lady and if they do you have got full marks.YOU HAVE TO HAVE GUTS. AND TOTAL FEARLESSNESS OF REJECTION.10/10.
2006-10-06 10:24:01
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answered by golaicecream 2
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hey no gal wud hate u if u r polite n well behaved. manners matter to gals more than looks somtimes. so u can win her friendship wid ur kind attitude n then ask her out.
2006-10-05 01:17:24
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answered by Chandni B 1
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if i knew that i wouldnt be wasting my life on yahoo answers! jk, but i guess it depends why she hates you. and you pretty much have to make up for it. do something sweet, girls like that fruity crap.. like give her fake flowers and tell her they represent your everlasting love for her.. just make sure no one else is around so you dont feel so stupid..
2006-10-05 00:57:04
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answered by Anonymous
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