ok so my ex girlfriend broke up with me to date this butthead and he just broke her heart and i have always been there for her and she still likes me but i dont know what to do so can you help me please
2006-10-04 17:59:10 · 20 answers · asked by Chris B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is what she looks like
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=29107814&MyToken=7d410dbc-cf16-434c-9100-f2c1e21020e8
2006-10-04 18:25:14 · update #1
Be available. If she is hurting she will want someone there. Be the friend right now. The butthead just showed her what she lost. Now its your turn to make sure she notices. Dont rub her nose in it. Be thoughtful. Ask her to do friend things. Call to ask how she is doing, but dont bring up the other guy unless she does then prepare for the wet shoulder.
2006-10-04 18:02:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say, let her know how you feel. If you can't do it face to face do it in a letter or an email.
If you really want her back just put yourself out there and see where it leads, cause if you don't you will never know.
If she doesn't want to come back at least you know that the wait is over and that you really need to begin investing your time and efforts on another female and just be her friend.
But if she does get back to you and dumps you again for another butthead you should move on and show her what she gave up by giving your heart to another girl.
2006-10-04 18:07:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
May I suggest that you just be there for her. She is probably aching and may not be responsive, but many relationships grow from being friends. If you believe she is mature enough to know her mind and appreciate your efforts, give it a try. If not, nothing is lost on your part...You will learn to be loving and supportive, and if she is not meant to be your partner, you will certainly find someone else that can value you for what you are. Good luck!
2006-10-04 18:12:37 · answer #3 · answered by starbright84us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT!
she traded you in once, she will trade you in again. As long as you are always going to be a carpet, she will walk on you until she finds what she is looking for. sad, but true.
I have been there.
Just move on, and there is more than one person that completes us. In a world of Billions, you can surely find at least 10,000 that will love you for who you are. 1 of them will be just around the corner, but you wont find them while holding on to a lost cause.
2006-10-04 18:02:57 · answer #4 · answered by SAINT G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to date her best gf, then she will come running back to you, if she hears how well you are treating her best friend.
By that time, you will be over her, I just bet her best friend will be a hole lot better to you, then she ever was.
Plus you need to remember that she left you, so what would keep her with you this time? Nothing.
2006-10-04 18:03:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think! Think! Think my friend! And do your self a big favour do nothing else for a while. After that, if indeed you have thought seriously about it, I'm sure you won't need any of our "expert" answers.
2006-10-04 18:08:42 · answer #6 · answered by voborko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date a mutual aquiantance and make her jeleous. Be careful though, this can be dangerous. You might even find that your date is a better fit for you.
2006-10-04 18:03:00 · answer #7 · answered by JT F 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just continue to be there for her, you will no when she is ready for a relationship again, just let her go to you, just show her that your still interested both as a friend and maybe a current b/f again, good luck
2006-10-04 18:02:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep being there for her and hopefully she will realize what a mistake she made. You cannot force someone to be in love it has to be there naturally or it will not work.
2006-10-04 18:03:51 · answer #9 · answered by twysty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WRITE A REALLY LONG LETTER SPILL YOUR HEART OUT, To your lost love.
2006-10-04 18:02:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋