Singles & Dating - 4 October 2006

i have known this boy for about 4 years now and we are real good friends, but i really like him a lot but still our friendship means a lot to me and i would want to mess that up.B ut at the same time i want to be with him as more than friends, what should i do????? please be serious because my friendship and my heart is at risk

2006-10-04 05:16:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My bf always tells me he's busy, he calls and texts rarely, sometimes no calls or text for a whole day, and his excuse is always that he's overwhelmed with work. I don't believe being busy stops you from sending a text message( it takes only 2mn ) .

I have talked to him and tried to explain the way I felt but he seemed like he never understood why it is so upsetting to me

I stopped contacting him for a couple of days he freaked out. He swears to God he loves me and says that it's all in his heart and that there's no use to keep on showing love every single day..

2006-10-04 05:15:07 · 19 answers · asked by leave me alone 1

ok there is this guy in my school who said he has this huge crush on me but i just don't feel the hots for him and it completely freaks me out!!!how do i tell him that i don't like him?

2006-10-04 05:14:48 · 9 answers · asked by MAGENTA 1

What is the best way for someone to get over another person?

2006-10-04 05:14:38 · 10 answers · asked by Plus Size Panther! 3

2006-10-04 05:12:40 · 27 answers · asked by mike o 1

5 reasons you need a solider

1. We well always stand at attention at your demand.

2. We take orders well.

3. We well eat what ever lying around.

4. We never quit until the mission is complete.

5. We are all ways looking for an opportunity to workout.

Any takers?

2006-10-04 05:11:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

P.S. I'm not a perv!

2006-10-04 05:11:45 · 10 answers · asked by woo hoo 2

ok, so I'm a 22 year old woman, I'm not ugly.. by any means, seriously check me out http://www.chevrofreak.com/ashley it's rated G, I'm in college for nursing, I have a job, I have alot of drive in my life. I have many friends, and have no problem attracting guys. But they all seem to just want to be "friends". I dont understand it. do i give off too much of a desparate vibe? I try not to, I'm fine with just being friends, but it kinda gets old after a while. I dont just wanna be some guys sex toy for the rest of my life. what am I doing wrong? if anything plz help

2006-10-04 05:11:14 · 15 answers · asked by lil_brighteyes 2

last night was the first time we and my new girlfriend having sex, i dont want to ask here about what she thinks about it, however i really like to know that without asking, ..........how? please note that she does not answer my call yesterday

2006-10-04 05:10:12 · 13 answers · asked by repentant 1

About 2 or 3 days after u know what. I start cramping and then if we u know what again it stops. For about 2 or 3 more days what is happening?

2006-10-04 05:09:59 · 10 answers · asked by for_runner0 2

Jealousy in a relationship? As a sign of love, or as a sign of possesiveness?

2006-10-04 05:08:49 · 17 answers · asked by LibraT 4

but i am really in love.

2006-10-04 05:06:18 · 17 answers · asked by Rakiya Mommy 3

I dated my boyfriend for two years. We had a very good relationship, but we fell away from each other. We broke up in June and remained in contact with each other. We never really had a huge fight at the end, and there was no cheating. We recently got back together (about 2.5 weeks ago) and he told me that he had dated (and slept with) someone while we were broken up. Clearly I have no right to be upset about ( and I am really not). He said that he had no feelings for her and currently has no contact with her. We have been spending a lot of time together, and having a really great time doing so. I am frustrated because he won't tell me how he feels about me, if he sees this as something long term, etc. He told me that he loves me, but is not in love with me. He also does not tell me that he loves me. He says that if I pressure him that it will just make this whole thing harder to get back on track. Does he just need time? Or should I be concernced that he does not love me

2006-10-04 05:04:59 · 10 answers · asked by e2004 1

Mine is the Poodle,they are supposed to be the smartest,but sometimes i often wonder lol,she doesn't seem to be the most brilliant sometimes,but she is very smart.Just curiouse,because i know this is not the right catagory for this type of question,but i figured it may help the manotiny of some peoples love life problems including my own.

2006-10-04 05:01:58 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dating this guy for 3 months, the day I met him, I got that weird feeling that I met the man I was going to marry. Things are going great, he is everything I have ever wanted. I have had bad relationships in the past, been cheated on and left. I am scared and nervous that something is going to go wrong and he will leave. I always worry I am going to say or do something to make him lose interest in me. How can I get over this feeling and let myself enjoy the relationship? I have never smiled or laughed or felt so natural with someone before. I just want it to work.

2006-10-04 05:00:07 · 11 answers · asked by Belize 1

My guy and I work in the same organisation. Different departments so no one is the other's direct supervisor. Even though there's speculation and whispering, we haven't made our relationship known to our co-workers and keep our interaction at work very professional. So far so good....but, there's an event comin up and he's been invited to attend w/ a guest. I told him to take his mum or his best friend (guy). He doesn't want to. He asked who I think he should take out of his two other best friends (women) who I know. I know there's gonna be whispering that he brought "another woman" but I'm prepared to deal w/ it. We've been through worse. The thing is, I'm still kinda bummed b/c I know if the roles were reversed, he'd sulk and pout. He however, sees it as not a big deal and even more so that he told me up-front what the situation is. How do I let him know whow I feel w/out coming across as being too "psycho" girlfriend or jealous and needy?

2006-10-04 04:59:39 · 11 answers · asked by Carefree 1

just trying to see how you woman feel

2006-10-04 04:58:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm sorry, but I just don't get it...at least I don't think I do. I have a guess, but I'm not sure if I'm right. You know the song...my milkshake brings all the boys to th yard, and damn right, its better than yours..." I swear I'm not a conservative or naive girl, but I just don't get this song. Last time I asked this question, I got different answers, so maybe you guys can tell me what it really means! Please tell me what the hell this milkshake business is all about!

2006-10-04 04:58:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can you be hetero - a guy attracted to girls for example, but at the same time, for some reason, not be attractive to them. Yet, you are atractive to people of your same sex even though you don't feel attracted to them?

2006-10-04 04:58:28 · 5 answers · asked by Pete 1

I live with my boyfriend of almost 4 years. I think he is hiding online relationships from me. I have asked him about them and he keeps telling me he isn't. I know he is talking to many women and he has presented himself as single. Now I have just found out he had cheated on me a while back (although for me it wasn't that long ago since I just found out). We have been working through that situation and I had got into his messenger and went through the archives and seen that he is talking with many other women not to far from home. He tells me they all know about me and that they just chat, but he won't chat with them with me around and I feel he is just not being honest with me. He tells me he hasn't been talking to them much anymore, but I know he has. If he's not doing anything wrong why won't he include me. I am not sure if it is just me being paranoid. I don't believe he is currently still cheating on me, but am worried about the future. I want to share everything with him.

2006-10-04 04:57:24 · 14 answers · asked by Me 1

what are some good conversation starters that me and my gf can talk about for a long time?

2006-10-04 04:57:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was going out with this guy, who i think i love, untill about a month ago when we split up but we stayed friends the problem is he now has a new girlfriend and all the time when we are hanging out he tells me he loves me but im not too sure if he is just having a laugh about it or if he is being serious. how should i find out if he is telling the truth and does love me?

2006-10-04 04:55:49 · 13 answers · asked by dirty_little_secrets2000 1

I have been dating a guy for 6 months. We have been taking it REALLY slow and getting to know each other. We've become really close and have definitely fallen for each other. I know he cares about me a lot and that I am really special to him.

The major setback is that he is incredibly busy with college. I told him that I understand that he is busy, but I can't help but want more from him. I know he feels bad that he doesn't have more time for me.

My question is do I wait until his semester is over and be patient, or look for finding someone new?

My guy isn't the most verbal about his feelings, but he is a great listener, very affectionate, and really interested in me as a person. I've known him for almost two years now. We were friends first, and have been seriously dating for the last 6 months. We have an incredible time when we are together - we laugh and genuinely care about each other.

I'm just worried about wasting my time.

2006-10-04 04:53:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

see last question

2006-10-04 04:53:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you let it pass without doing anything?
Do you think of the past encounter?
Do you question people around you if any?

What do you do?

2006-10-04 04:53:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-04 04:53:03 · 5 answers · asked by Samantha E 1

Since middle school i had a crush my bestfriend's brother, he knew that i liked him but he wouldn't pay attention to me. I would cry for him and would always be there for him, even when his stupid girlfriend cheated on him. I had three years i hadn't seen him but now he works where i work. When i saw him at work i was what the heck is he doing here. I was trying to hide from him but he saw me. He started talking to me and we were talking about our lifes, He asked me if i had a boyfriend and told him yes i do and i will probably get marry with him next year. Everytime i work i see him he comes up to me and he starts talking to me, helps me on my department, and "flirts" around with me a lot and he also ask me if i wanted to go out to the movies with him for my birthday. He told his friends that in the future we were going to get marry and he's always looking at me. I really really love my boyfriend and i don't know what to do because i think my feelings are coming back for him.

2006-10-04 04:52:19 · 10 answers · asked by Jess 1

If another girl is prettier than you, has a hotter body, and you know you both like the same guy, will you back off knowing you will lose or will you not give up?

2006-10-04 04:52:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-04 04:52:01 · 8 answers · asked by coolguy 2

Me and my boyfriend know PLENTY, but running out of kinky one's!

2006-10-04 04:50:40 · 15 answers · asked by Tamika 1