Singles & Dating - 4 October 2006

My boyfriend has almost no libido. He's an ex addict and a diabetic so it is chemical but it drives me mad. He enjoys having sex but never really pursues it, or really cares if we do or don't. I know that he enjoys having sex with me, and that he finds me attractive because he tells me this, and goes into details about what he does like about us.
It's too rare for me, and not having a man pursue makes me sometimes feel undesirable.
He's only 21 and yet would be just fine if he never had sex again - he probably actually only thinks about having sex seriously.. once every 2 weeks maybe.

What can I do? I am aggressive with him, we occasionally try new things, and as i said i know that he enjoys it. I've never been turned down but i honestly want to be pursued a little.

Please don't just tell me to leave him, i get sex and it is good, or that he's gay or lying to me he's had this problem with his ex too.

2006-10-04 06:22:55 · 13 answers · asked by attila 6

This really good looking man asked me If I wanted to have fun.
But I think he is gay. He doesn't look gay but he is really upbeat and happy all the time, and he likes to go to the mall. He's to good to be true.

2006-10-04 06:22:54 · 9 answers · asked by Canswer 1

By trophy wife, I mean a beautiful, kindhearted "9" out of 10 or above, with average or above-average intelligence, and let us assume that the man is somewhat intelligent, kindhearted, average-looking and of average height. Also, do beautiful foreign women (such as from Siberia) care less about looks in their mate?

2006-10-04 06:21:29 · 14 answers · asked by parthenophilast 2

ok, I had been seeing this girl and then her ex came back into the picture and she started acting wierd...so Sunday I told her I didn't want to be constantly ditched for him and have her believe all the lies he was feeding her about me(as I've never met this guy, and apparently he has it out for me) so told her that I just couldn't do it anymore even if I did like her. As much as I didn't like giving her the boot that was just the start, monday went by and I didn't hear from her...tuesday she called me at work(which in the 2 months we had been seeing each other she has never done) near the end of the day just to see how I was and talk about her day, I was too dumbstruck to make much conversation...then today she called again today to let me know she was on thhe pill(in a seductive kind of voice)
My question is can anyone make sense of these little phone calls? cause the two I've gotten have pretty much thrown me into a state of confusion for the rest of the day

2006-10-04 06:21:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

If there was proof that a man's body produced chemicals that made him horny (not adulterous), would you let him off the hook for wanting it all the time?

2006-10-04 06:19:10 · 4 answers · asked by thebuffettour 2

this guy i like him we always talk and im gonna ask him out but how do i no if he likes me i also wanna no if hes sexually atracted

2006-10-04 06:18:02 · 8 answers · asked by Lola 1

I've always wanted to do this...it would be sooo HOT!!! I wanna roll around the beach just like in Chris Isacc's music video for "Wicked Games". Which beach or island can I go to, to make this happen? I want to rent a portion of the beach for a while, so I can have some privacy. Any suggestions???

2006-10-04 06:17:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-04 06:15:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

any 1?

2006-10-04 06:13:58 · 2 answers · asked by itz all bout me ya betta belive 1

2006-10-04 06:11:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

He's a prep, nice, not into drugs, alcohol, or anything like that and he's super cute

2006-10-04 06:11:26 · 5 answers · asked by Baby girl 2

2006-10-04 06:08:56 · 15 answers · asked by ashleyfrey94 1

I've noticed that guys in their 30's have horrible skin damage from not using sunscreen when they were younger. This concerns me since I'm in my late 20's and am terrified of what my dating pool will look like when I hit my 30's. I've resorted to dating men between the ages of 25 and 30, but I won't be able to do that forever. Why don't men take better care of themselves?

2006-10-04 06:08:39 · 26 answers · asked by Brianna 3

i recentlly got out of a serious 5 year relationship and quickly moved into another witch i soon discovered was the man of my dreams. with in 1 month I was madly in love. we began talking about marrige, and moved in together. right now its only been 3 months and i feel like ive known him forever and i know i want to spend the rest of my life with him. but people keep telling me its too soon, and i need to take some time to get over my past relationship, and spend more time getting to know my new love. Im going to do what i feel in my heart but i wanted to know what others veiw the situation!

2006-10-04 06:07:58 · 12 answers · asked by Colleen A 1

and i dont mean sting

2006-10-04 06:06:07 · 30 answers · asked by richard b 1

2006-10-04 06:03:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-04 06:03:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

just wanna giver her a little gift to know im thinking of her. any ideas ?

2006-10-04 06:02:53 · 14 answers · asked by Phil P 2

2006-10-04 06:02:45 · 20 answers · asked by Alisha 2

2006-10-04 06:02:44 · 22 answers · asked by novembr 5

Why is the first kiss so weird

2006-10-04 06:02:41 · 2 answers · asked by Anya Rainey 1

Its dating for busy professionals over lunch or cocktails.

have you tried it? what was the outcome? how expensive is it?

2006-10-04 06:01:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

A guy and his manager go down to the docks. The manager is betting every docker he sees that his guy can make love to 100 women in a row, without pausing, and satisfy them all.
Bets are made, and they agree that they'll meet the next day. The next day, 100 women are lined up along the dock . The guy drops his pants and starts.
True to his word, he moves from one to the next, satisfying each one without pausing: 1.. 2.. 3.. on and on he goes: 49.. 50.. 51.. He slows down somewhat: 83.... 84.... 85.... but he is still moving from one to the next, and the women are still satisfied: 97............ 98............. 99.............
...and before he can get to the last woman, he has a heart attack and dies.
The manager scratches his head in puzzlement and says, "I don't understand it! It went perfectly well at practice this morning!"

2006-10-04 06:01:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-04 06:00:16 · 14 answers · asked by ashleyfrey94 1

ok here's the thng my ex and i broke up 4 years ago..but we started chating again...so he's telling me he wanted to see me, which i was kool with but here's where things get tricky! he keeps on asking me if i see you can i kiss you caus ei know i would want to? i'm like it all depends on the mood and if we still have the spark...he's like what if i want to do more sexualy? i'm like like what? he goes hugging holding hands and grabbing my ***! i'm like you are so full of **** that's not sexual and you're tunring me off from seeing you...thne his tune changes that he is a good man and blah blah blah the thing is i still have some feelings for you i'm not still in love with you but i still have a thing! he asked me for my number and he said he will call me...that was 2 weeks ago! any suggestions about my situation? i till have feelings for him, even tho it was a long time ago, our relationhip back then was so great that i cant beleive he turned into a jerk. just need objective opinions!

2006-10-04 05:58:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My gf has been usually very possesive, but lately she has been kinda indifferent. I was getting bored of that, so I planned not to visit her yesterday (I have a demanding job so i can only see her on weekends and tuesdays)
She called me to ask if i was going to visit her. She has been complaining that I go out too late and I stay only a couple of hours, so i said, that i wouldnt see her.
My job ended earlier so i called her but her sister told me she had gone to the mall, so i decided to go home. She called me like 30 minutes after that, asking if i would go, so i did. I had dinner there but after that she said that she had to visit her cousin cause she's really sick.
I asked whys is that if she was planning to visit her, later she complains that we see just a couple of hours
I went home, and in the phone that night, she says that she needs some space!!! She complains that we dont see enough and now she says that she needs some space...Whats her problem.?? Hell, ILL GIVE HER SPACE!

2006-10-04 05:57:58 · 18 answers · asked by Mr. E 3

I dated this guy for 5 years, i recentlly broke up with him because i found someone else and now im madly in love. my ex keeps calling me and leaving evil messages on my phone like he wishes i would die and im a evil person. i want to hate him but i cant i still love him. for some reason i cant get him off of my mind, i cant help but wonder if what i did was the right thing. Even when we were dating i supported him, and he took atvantage of me, and made me feel like ****. How can he hate me so much, and why cant i hate him? I just want to get on with my life.

2006-10-04 05:57:52 · 20 answers · asked by Colleen A 1

I mean a long kiss, like a french kiss. After 3 yrs of relationship i can see that now more than ever. Sex? Well, if he doesnt has to pay 4 a hotel, its okey, but his incomes r good, more than mine, and when i ask him he just said that i only think of that, and that he doesnt go to those places cause he doesnt like how they keep it in the cleaning factors, but its not that i only think in that topyc, its just that i know its important between two, and if i like him and love him, why would i?

2006-10-04 05:57:34 · 10 answers · asked by jalina 2

???????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

2006-10-04 05:57:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 42 and my man of 4 months is 48. How do I introduce him? Partner is too formal and boyfriend sounds silly

2006-10-04 05:56:03 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous