ok, I had been seeing this girl and then her ex came back into the picture and she started acting wierd...so Sunday I told her I didn't want to be constantly ditched for him and have her believe all the lies he was feeding her about me(as I've never met this guy, and apparently he has it out for me) so told her that I just couldn't do it anymore even if I did like her. As much as I didn't like giving her the boot that was just the start, monday went by and I didn't hear from her...tuesday she called me at work(which in the 2 months we had been seeing each other she has never done) near the end of the day just to see how I was and talk about her day, I was too dumbstruck to make much conversation...then today she called again today to let me know she was on thhe pill(in a seductive kind of voice)
My question is can anyone make sense of these little phone calls? cause the two I've gotten have pretty much thrown me into a state of confusion for the rest of the day
2006-10-04 06:21:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, she is testing you. She is trying to find out weather or not you truely love her. Tell her to stop playing these so called games, and ask her who do you want to be with, him or me. If you want to be with him you need to tell her to stop calling you and let you move on with your life. ANd if she wants you back, than you need to let her know that she needs to let her "ex" know to stop calling her, asking her our, etc.. She has to make a decission and fast. Don't put up with these childish games. Ask her she needs to let you know onw way or another, and if you don't want her any more you need to tell her to stop calling you.
2006-10-04 06:35:34 · answer #1 · answered by danielle m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, let me tell you this. She is not over her ex. A LOT of girls find a guy they like and fail to mention this to them. (I have told a guy I like that, that's where I'm at now) and they appreciate it for this fact. That if he does come back, they already know that I would give it a second chance. She probably likes you a lot and doesn't want to lose you or have you lose interest in her and thats why she is calling. She probably knows that her ex and her aren't gonna work, but she wants to keep him there and not lose you. I suggest you be friends with her, because you did the right thing because you don't want to be put behind him. Be friends with her, she will see what you have to offer and when she is over her ex (it will eventually happen) then she'll be ready to talk to you like that. Make sure she is over him, before you start anything. Good luck and just be a friend to her and go from there.
2006-10-04 06:28:43 · answer #2 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing by giving her the "boot." If she is interested in her "ex" then why is she calling you and talking to you about "the pill?" She seems very confused herself and its probably best if you go with how you felt the first time. You had obvious reasons of pulling out of the relationship and it will only get worse if she is still talking to this other guy. You shouldnt place yourself in that situation because if you ever do develop strong feelings for her then you will hate yourself for giving into someone that cant share the same feelings for you.
Its not worth the time or the heartache. Goodluck!!! :)
2006-10-04 06:27:56 · answer #3 · answered by jzbebegyrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dumped her for a good reason. Some people can't handle that. It looks like she's one of those that you won't even be able to stay friends with because she'll still try to alternately get in your pants and then ditch you. If that's what you want, fine. Tell her that's all she's getting. A lot of people want to have an entourage of lovers to choose from at any moment. Not healthy. Good luck.
2006-10-04 06:25:25 · answer #4 · answered by Raven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By you taking "control" and telling her it was over, it definately made her take a step back. She misses you, clearly because of the phone calls and furthermore, the nature of the phone calls. She may be regretting treating you the way she did, in regards to the EX situation, or she may be trying to "have her cake and eat it too." Don't get caught up because she wants to get laid, you ended your relationship for a reason and that reason needs to be addressed and resolved if you continue to pursue a relationship with her.
2006-10-04 06:27:32 · answer #5 · answered by coolguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL hassle-free there chief i think of a few females & women people for that rely will resent the technology & complete WTF is incorrect bit. Too your question she sounds like she may be shy and affraid you dont like her that way. females tend to be shy. Get use to it no longer something incorrect with it. break the ice as her for help on some difficulty you to have mutually. Or say hi as quickly as you break the ice i think of this is going to alter & she wont be so afraid.
2016-10-18 11:47:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants what she can't have and has probably realized that
her ex is still her ex and hasn't change since their first break-up.
If you really care then see where this is going...if she is a player
then don't let yourself be duped...
2006-10-04 06:31:35 · answer #7 · answered by RiverRat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude USE a CONDOM!!!!!
I don't know what's up but I gotta tell you this sounds messed up. next thing she'll be telling you she's pregnant.
If she really likes you she'll pass on the right signals, and if it doesn't bother you that she's messin with that guy the fine.
but use a CONDOM please man don't be stupid.
She might not be messin with him but , he is definately messing with her. so whatch your A22
man.
And decide if you want her , with him still around- if not tell her I don't want you with that other guy. point blank.
tell her whats up.
GL Dude!
2006-10-04 06:28:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she made a decision
2006-10-04 06:24:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is doing what women do best, playing games with you. Ignore her and she will get even more desperate for attention.
2006-10-04 06:25:22 · answer #10 · answered by ©ubs Fan™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋