ok, so I'm a 22 year old woman, I'm not ugly.. by any means, seriously check me out http://www.chevrofreak.com/ashley it's rated G, I'm in college for nursing, I have a job, I have alot of drive in my life. I have many friends, and have no problem attracting guys. But they all seem to just want to be "friends". I dont understand it. do i give off too much of a desparate vibe? I try not to, I'm fine with just being friends, but it kinda gets old after a while. I dont just wanna be some guys sex toy for the rest of my life. what am I doing wrong? if anything plz help
2006-10-04 05:11:14 · 15 answers · asked by lil_brighteyes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, that's a good question. I agree you are cute... and it does sound like you have a lot going on in your life.
The sex toy part, well that maybe a problem because even though it's an old saying the whole "you don't buy the cow if you can get the milk for free" still applies even today.
I would suggest be patient, it may have NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU or the way you are. It could just be all the BOYS around you have not taste when it comes to women. They could also just be intimidated that you have so much going on and they don't.
Be patient, eventually a real MAN, right guy for you will walk into your life and then you will see it was worth the wait. Good luck
2006-10-04 05:27:55 · answer #1 · answered by crazy_monkey_jr010 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U R not doing anything wrong 4 a start.
UR beautiful.
The men U've come across must need their heads examined!
Only advice I can give is, B patient and wait, 1 day outta the blue a nice man will by UR side.
Never know might B a hunky Doctor!
Good luck with UR career, concentrate on that 4 a while & make the most of UR independent life.
Would U really need a demanding time-consuming man right now?
It'll happen in it's own good time.
2006-10-04 12:20:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
hi ashley. i think you are pretty. but you would be prettier with eyebrows that are just a little thicker.
i dont know why guys just wanna be friends... you are not ugly, but i guess you havent met the right guy yet?? and maybe its good to have friends anyways.
you are 22. you should be in at least 1 relationship by now.
but i am warning you. heartbreaks are horrible!!
2006-10-04 12:16:14 · answer #3 · answered by bluepuddle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the first thing you're doing wrong is not dating me. That would solve your problem and mine which is the same but in reverse. Girls only want to be "friends" with me--- and forget about the 'benefits'. Don't even know what that is anymore! LOL
Since I have the same problem I can only wish you luck and watch the answers you get which might clue me in too.
Have a great day!!!
NURSE!
2006-10-04 12:16:52 · answer #4 · answered by Coo coo achoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try looking the guys u want dead in the eye this will usually get thier attention and them wondering about how they feel about u also try not to say the type of things a friend would say like how r u and stuff like that. u should just come off like whats ur name where ru from u know the usual "i like u " conversation hope i healped.
2006-10-04 12:34:50 · answer #5 · answered by indiadeknowitall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just from you questions it seems like you mind is going a mile a minute. Has anyone ever told you you talk to much? I am not trying to be mean here. Also if you have all these things going on in your life, mabye any guy you meet just feels you wont have much time for him.
2006-10-04 12:14:22 · answer #6 · answered by skinnywayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry.......like you said being friends is ok. But think of it this way...Do you want to start a relationship with a guy who just wants to be friends and get your heart broke down the line?? of coarse not. Just wait the right man will come. Dont rush it
2006-10-04 12:20:38 · answer #7 · answered by lefty_miller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best advice I can offer is to practice subtle flirting. Men like to chase and pursue women. How do you behave around men? Do you like to talk about sports, drink beer? Maybe you set yourself up as 'one of the guys'.
Also, you have to look for men in the right places. A lot of male nurses are gay.
2006-10-04 12:19:37 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may just be the guys you are dating. A lot of guys your age aren't ready for a serious relationship. You are very pretty. When you meet a guy you like and is ready to get serious I don't think you will have any problem.
2006-10-04 12:17:51 · answer #9 · answered by lucy02 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry the right guy will come along. Count it as a blessing when a guy is honest enough to tell you that they want to be friends....They could've just used you and then say they want to be friends
2006-10-04 12:15:14 · answer #10 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋