i was going out with this guy, who i think i love, untill about a month ago when we split up but we stayed friends the problem is he now has a new girlfriend and all the time when we are hanging out he tells me he loves me but im not too sure if he is just having a laugh about it or if he is being serious. how should i find out if he is telling the truth and does love me?
2006-10-04 04:55:49 · 13 answers · asked by dirty_little_secrets2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we split up because i went abroad for a while and was unsure of how long it would be till i came back and it was more of a shared decision
2006-10-04 05:02:38 · update #1
ask him infront of his new girlfriend.
2006-10-04 04:59:16 · answer #1 · answered by lila 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should forget him to be your steady boyfriend, especially he now has a new girl friend and he's behaving like
a boastful cockerel with bad intentions about love and showing off.
Instead you should look forward to other things, like study, work or career etc. and maybe take a small break - a weekend visit
to a new place of interest. There you may find better people
and may interact well with others. Give yourself space and
time to sort things out. Don't rush into any intimacy yet. Make
more friends all round you for support and understanding.
After that you'll be alright and thinking good.
Best of luck with your encounters!
2006-10-04 05:16:04 · answer #2 · answered by steplow33 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to forget about him. If he wanted a girlfriend and really loved you then he should have stayed with you first before looking elsewhere! Maybe he would just enjoy keeping you as a lover or for later but you deserve better then being second choice!!! Go out with your good old friends and get outside to do something else to change your mind!
2006-10-04 04:59:38 · answer #3 · answered by Mel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We never stop loving people for the reason we loved them, but when we learn of too many negative things that out weigh the positives in a relationship, our love only seems to be lost for that person. Thus he still loves you, but the question you need to ask yourself is; do I really want that type of guy in my life?
I mean, think about it... Do you want the type of guy that will tell you how much he loves you, but then cheats on you by telling it to someone else also? If he loves her, and tells you he loves you, that is the type of guy he is proving himself to be. You deserve better than a two timing type of boyfriend.
2006-10-04 05:04:48 · answer #4 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a hard question to answer....maybe if you could tell me why you two split to begin with..im sure he means it when he tells you he stil loves you...you need to step it up and tell him if he loves you so much that he needs to leave the girl hes with and that you two should work on your problems
2006-10-04 04:59:55 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up. I'm rating your question as a bad one. Read your question "he now has a new girlfriend"
looks like you're prepared to be his second fiddle, if you know what I mean.
2006-10-04 05:03:17 · answer #6 · answered by ang-pogi-ko 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he still loved you he would be trying to get you back instead of having a girlfriend,be careful he will have you and his girlfriend.
2006-10-04 05:00:13 · answer #7 · answered by cool mom32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might love what you do for him but not you or he wouldn't have another girlfriend. Tell him you love him to (love him to quit f*cking with you)
2006-10-04 04:58:59 · answer #8 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just trying to get back at you for the hurt that you gave him a bit sad if you ask me!!
2006-10-04 04:58:52 · answer #9 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live him he is not worth it, if he loves you he wouldn't have a girlfriend.
2006-10-04 05:01:40 · answer #10 · answered by helen m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He don't love you he is trying to get in your pants when his new girl aint around
2006-10-04 04:58:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋