ok there is this guy in my school who said he has this huge crush on me but i just don't feel the hots for him and it completely freaks me out!!!how do i tell him that i don't like him?
2006-10-04 05:14:48 · 9 answers · asked by MAGENTA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
here's something you likely won't here from others on here....
Instead of just telling this guy that you don't like him, tell him that you aren't sure you're intersted in him in the same way he's interested in you, BUT you can give him a chance to change your mind. Let him take you out on a date, his expense, and just give him a chance to show you more of who he is.
There is a lot to be said for a guy who is REALLY into you. Most girls chase or want guys that they are into, and end up being mistreated or unappreciated. if you would step beyond his looks or his social group and get to know who HE IS, then you might just find that there's something to this guy. Obviously he thinks there's something great about you, so there's already one thing you have in common :)
At least give him a chance.....
2006-10-04 06:08:21 · answer #1 · answered by brookebjpl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be mean in any way because you know what its like to have a crush on somone im sure. Its sad if they dont like you back. But just tell him your not really looking to date anyone right now that usualy works.
2006-10-04 05:17:24 · answer #2 · answered by puff_coco_shimmy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your not looking for a relationship right now but would like to be friends. That spells out "I hate you" in the language of females.
2006-10-04 05:24:02 · answer #3 · answered by Nicolette G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you are not interested in him. Simple as that. Just say that you dont like him the same way he likes you, cos you both have nothing in common, and that he scares the living daylights out of you! haha. Just joking.
2006-10-04 05:18:00 · answer #4 · answered by LIlhetty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with the person but, don't crush his spirit. explain to him that you just don't have the same feeling for him that he has for you and that you would like to be friends with him but you just don't want anything more than that with him.
2006-10-04 05:18:43 · answer #5 · answered by navymilitarybrat76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he askes you out on a date, say sure and then stand him up. He'll get the hint
2006-10-04 05:19:38 · answer #6 · answered by TheAnwserer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that all you can do is be his friend, you're not ready for bein in a relationship or you already have a bf...
2006-10-04 05:27:59 · answer #7 · answered by Wanlaya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heres an idea.
You take him aside...
And you say...
I don't like you.
OMG I KNOW THATS CRAZY!!!
2006-10-04 05:16:13 · answer #8 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just tell him? what are you afraid of.
2006-10-04 05:16:17 · answer #9 · answered by Melia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋