but i am really in love.
2006-10-04 05:06:18 · 17 answers · asked by Rakiya Mommy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My boyfriend (now husband) was the BIGGEST trouble maker in the world. I never hardly got to see him because he was either in jail or on the streets dealing drugs and such. I stuck by him...(bailed him out of jail a few times) and always loved him. I finally got him to stop doing what he was doing and made him realize there is another way to live. He had to decide to change on his own ....i was just there with and for him when he decided it was time. I say don't give up on him if you love him...see if he'll come around. I also say DON'T LET HIM GET YOU IN TROUBLE....then i would say you need to leave him if your life was in jeopardy.
good luck
2006-10-04 05:10:40 · answer #1 · answered by CMA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how much you love him and want a relationship with him to work and you would like for him to stay out of trouble so that it could work. If he really cares about you and loves you he should be able to do this one thing for you and not for nothing he should love himself enough to wanna do it for him as well as you.
2006-10-04 05:12:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to leave then you have your answer -- put up with him being unavailable.
LOVE doesn't hold a relationship together. There are other things that life throws at you and you have to able to maintain a quality of living. Why stay with someone who seems to be going nowhere and brings you down. Seek someone who you can build a positive life with and move forward.
2006-10-04 05:10:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little advise that was given to me that helped alot was the only person u have control over in any situation is urself, u don't have the right to try and control other people. So...the best thing u can do is change your position rather than trying to find ways to change him. All in all...he aint gonna change until he wants to so put up or get out (pure and simple but not meant to offend). Hope it helps.
2006-10-04 05:11:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually, if i develop into on your concern, i'd get out once i might want to. i'm sorry, yet why do you want to be with a guy who would not even aid you meet his friends, relations, or all and sundry else who's major to him? And why is the chick he cheated on you with nevertheless in contact with him? Why hasn't he damaged that bridge yet? There are too many questions with this guy, you want to enable him bypass. He sounds likely abusive too, what with the full blaming you for paying for pregnant. It develop into both easily one of you who keen to sleep at the same time and were given pregnant in the first position. AND he unearths excuses to bail out on you even as he knows how major that's to you! Get out quickly, and finally end up a real guy who truly needs you, and would not fake it like this guy.
2016-12-04 06:28:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had any love for yourself you wouldn't be hooked up with some deadbeat that's in trouble all the time!! If this is what you choose for yourself, then why are you on here whining? You should be happy you have what you want!
2006-10-04 05:09:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in trouble how? A, ur prolly not in love. Or b, u have to do the right thing and end it w him. Ur not in love is my guess, u sound young. It's want* not wont.
2006-10-04 05:16:19 · answer #7 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you always want to be alone?That is not a boyfriend if you never get to see him that is a title,When you get tired of wanting then you will get a real boy friend.Keep your head up still
2006-10-04 05:13:04 · answer #8 · answered by forlife_918 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you say he stays in trouble do you mean with the law? If so, get another boy friend, he is a looser.
2006-10-04 05:08:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you never see him , you don't have one You only think that you are in love. He is no doubt seeing some one else.
2006-10-04 07:22:43 · answer #10 · answered by Sugar 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋