I have been dating this guy for 3 months, the day I met him, I got that weird feeling that I met the man I was going to marry. Things are going great, he is everything I have ever wanted. I have had bad relationships in the past, been cheated on and left. I am scared and nervous that something is going to go wrong and he will leave. I always worry I am going to say or do something to make him lose interest in me. How can I get over this feeling and let myself enjoy the relationship? I have never smiled or laughed or felt so natural with someone before. I just want it to work.
2006-10-04 05:00:07 · 11 answers · asked by Belize 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he loves u, as much as u think he does, he will not mind reminding u that he's the man 4 u.
ask once a day, but no more.
i'm still asking my man 21 years later and once a day my mind and heart is put at rest from 4 words.
" i am not going anywhere " .
2006-10-04 05:04:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to live in the moment, enjoy what you have now instead of thinking about how u might deal with this if that happens & that if this happens, while you are focusing on all of that you are missing the magic in the moment.....Be open & honest & communicate, that is the essence of any good relationship......best wishes!
2006-10-07 04:50:19 · answer #2 · answered by Donna S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember he's not the one that hurt you. The biggest thing that can sometimes ruin a relationship is having no trust because of another. So unless he has put doubt in your mind then just enjoy your time together.
2006-10-04 05:10:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chill. if you prepare yourself too much for disaster, disaster will happen. take it day by day, thats all you can do. don't concentrate on your previous relationships and why and how they didn't work and what happen with them, concentrate on your new one and see how wonderful this one is. believe me honey, if you over think everything you will end up scaring yourself or your other out of a relationship........
good luck! and just remember to breath! have fun don't take everything so seriously!!!
2006-10-04 08:14:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP thinking about the relationship and just enjoy it. Why stress yourself? Enjoy the ride as long as you can.
2006-10-04 05:02:22 · answer #5 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THE VERY BEST THING YOU CAN DO IS DISCUSS YOUR FEELINGS WITH YOUR NEW MAN.DON'T ACT SO OVERZEALOUS AND NERVOUS OR INCOMPETENT.BE SECURE AND DIRECT AND ASK HIM IF HE MAY HAVE ANY ISSUES WITH HIM AT THIS TIME AND ASK HIM WHAT HE WANTS FROM YOU IN THE RELATIONSHIP AND YOU CAN TELL HIM YOUR WANTS AND DESIRES ALSO,MAKE SURE HE WANTS WHAT YOU WANT BEFORE YOUR FEELINGS BECOME TO DEEP.
2006-10-07 09:38:35 · answer #6 · answered by integrity25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the perfect relationship, just relax remember this we only live life once!
2006-10-04 05:04:31 · answer #7 · answered by busybeee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm at that same place now. U have to just let go of ur past
2006-10-04 05:11:54 · answer #8 · answered by for_runner0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in the same situation as you. he is so wonderful (recently he has become distant, see my questions) and I dont want to get hurt either. but you have to take a risk sometimes
just relax and breathe. if its meant to be, it will be
2006-10-04 05:15:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't think about the bad things that could happen. just make sure u're being real that's all.
2006-10-04 05:05:11 · answer #10 · answered by lila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋