Singles & Dating - 28 September 2006

2006-09-28 18:07:05 · 12 answers · asked by Dee 1

We have been together for over three years and he moved in with me two years ago. We had talked about living together but then he and his roomate had a falling out and he lost his place to live. I did't hesitate when he showed up on my doorstep with his bags and our dog (was first his dog} I think things went south a couple of months ago but he was telling everyone else how unhappy he was but not me! I had broken my foot and wasn't working and it became like he resented me and that I was the one making him so unhapppy. I became the villian without even knowing why. At Christmas his mom and I were discussing where our rehearsal dinner would be and now I am this horrible person....what the?%#*
So I decided that financially and sanity wise I needed to move out. He said he thought I was being responsible in saving more money and that he also thought we needed SPACE so he is now going to stay in our rented house alone, "finallly have his own place that felt like home" What is happening???

2006-09-28 18:06:00 · 7 answers · asked by charlestongirl78 1

THIS IS A MUST READ.

Subject: Serena Williams Interview

Ms. Williams we are all interested in your new boyfriend.
There is no new boyfriend . I stopped playing with boys when I stopped dating black guys. I have a new man in my life and yes, he's white.

So you prefer to date white men instead of black guys?

Let's be real. If you are a successful black female you only have two choices...date outside of your race or date other successful black females.

What do you mean by warped mentalities?

Well, where do I begin? Many of them were raised predominantly by women and had this feminine/bisexual complex. Where they wanted to be treated like a female sometimes. For example, I would have the money & they would have the sex. I would teach them things. You know, all the things a woman likes a man to do, I would end up doing for them.

((there's more but it all cant fit in this window. but what are your thoughts?))

2006-09-28 18:03:32 · 10 answers · asked by HonestTruth 2

im still not over this guy who broke my heart despite that i still want to be with him, my friends think that i'm obsessing.it's been 3 years.how come i can't seem to let go?

2006-09-28 18:00:22 · 20 answers · asked by Katrine Nyce 2

Why is it that women never go for the short guy. The guy could be total loser and hot because he's tall and the short guy is just a nice guy. What's so great about the height factor. But maybe I'm just bitter.

2006-09-28 17:57:45 · 16 answers · asked by TheHeftyLefty 2

i know this may sound stupid but im actually falling for my own student.-im a teacher by the way..he is a bit younger than i am and i think that he feels the same way bout me..just that we are stuck with the teacher-student relationship..what should i do??go for it or leave it???

2006-09-28 17:57:18 · 26 answers · asked by cha yang 1

i am afread of women that look good i can not move to them they will put me down they will mack fun of me and frends to do i need a phisciratrest help me that is how i see it

2006-09-28 17:57:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im not looking for a definite answer, i just want some pointers

2006-09-28 17:56:35 · 10 answers · asked by Jackeeeee 3

If someone acts like they REALLY are into you one second ,then the moment you show the smallest drop of mutual interest they act ice cold (almost offended),like they don't even want to be personable with you? It's very irritating and confusing !!! I need some sound advice!

2006-09-28 17:54:50 · 17 answers · asked by Direktor 5

i just met a man on the street and i asked him the way to my univ..and we talked..then he asked my number and called me for a coffee..

the coffee time went pretty well( hopefully it's not my own feeling), and when we decided to leave, he said: probably we should meet next week for a meal..

but after last friday's meeting, he doesnt call me until now..it's almost a week..

i dont get it..he was just being polite to say that..or he is not into me at all..or some other problems?

i just want to know how you guys think about it..generally after first meeting(date? ), how long will you contact the girl?

i think man is impatient ..they wont wait that long..so i think he just doesnt take me seriously..right?

2006-09-28 17:53:32 · 7 answers · asked by milk 1

I'm in a very abusive relationship! Please tell me what should I do?

2006-09-28 17:52:10 · 28 answers · asked by ~h0tmAmA1~ 2

So my ex today was laying with me and cuddling after we'd had sex. And he was looking at me and stroking my hair and pushing it out of my eyes as I lay there with him. We didn't say anything we just lay there and it was great. Do you guys do this with someone you aren't in love with? It's one thing to cuddle but to stare at someone lovingly like that? I don't know. I need your opinions. I definitely love my ex.

please no rude comments..

2006-09-28 17:49:01 · 23 answers · asked by coochie1 2

This women and i have talked off and on for about 2 months,I like her but she has been hurt alot so she is very against men.I know if if i play hard 2 get it won't matter,i want to know if i should try to pursue her,and what i can do to prove i'm not like the men she has dated before...I don't want to bug her but i want to show her i like her without seeming like a psyco...

2006-09-28 17:47:46 · 35 answers · asked by angels and airwaves 1

ok so there is this guy i like but i am known for hating him and he hates me and he has a girl friend , i am shy so ....... i told my friend and she told another friend now that girls threatens me that she is gonna tellaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa help ive tried to froget him but i cant he is relly hot! ps i am in gr.7

2006-09-28 17:47:28 · 10 answers · asked by Angie y 1

So I'm in love with my best friend.( things have started to get more serious latley ) but he doesn't aknowledge me as someone he is "seeing" . He acts as if we are just buddies in front of people, even though his actions when we are alone speek otherwise. He has told me he doesnt want to keep "us" a secret, but still hasent jumped at the chance of making "us" officail. I think he may be jealous of his ex(who he is still good friends with) cuz she is now dating someone, be he insists he doesn't like her like that, and likes only me. I feel like i'm being used as his "on the side girl" because even though everyone knows we like eachother, he hasen't actully admitted it to anyone except me. Is he just being shy and testing the waters, or is is something else i'm missing?! Please help!

2006-09-28 17:45:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2 get 2 know u ? y do we have 2 suffer because of some other guy?dont u feel every guy deserves a clean slate remember its not that guys fault all men are not the same.Answer me y?

2006-09-28 17:44:49 · 10 answers · asked by q45dip 3

Dating a foreign

2006-09-28 17:41:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi people, Im a 21 y/o guy, Im currently studying at Uni where i met this girl a few days back, I think it would be stupid to say she wasn't into me, cause she is giving me too many vibes, continually figgeting around me, very friendly and talkitive, giving me brief glances and so on.

She asked for my number and i gave her mine. I sent her a few texts today and she responded almost straight away, heres the catch, the last text i sent she didnt reply, so i think i have screwed up already by rushing in (if i can even call it that).

I asked if she was going out tonight , she said she was going to celebrate the beginning of term break with a few drinks in town.

My next text went something like this :

I'll be in town tonight too, what time are you going in , we could meet up...

Now i think ive somehow pushed it, im really not great at reading girls, so if someone could pont me in the right direction that would be awesome.

cheers!

Jack.

2006-09-28 17:36:26 · 14 answers · asked by Jack M 1

My girlfriend is going away Sunday night with the guy she is still legally married to. They are just friends but they have a son. It is her birthday and while I was able to get her to convience him to change the dates. He has made plans to take her and their son to San Diego about 80 miles from them and stay over night in a hotel. She will not sleep with him and I know they are just friends now but its just the point. She makes me feel as though I am asking to much. They are divorced yet and I knew the situation before we got together. I wasn't IN LOVE with her in the beginning and its just one of those times I just wish she could so no. She says it isn't in her control but IT HURTS SO DAMN BAD. Please someone give me some advice....I need it bad. Thanks.

2006-09-28 17:36:09 · 15 answers · asked by mtjs06 1

They make 'em big in Texas, I need a vacation

Not in that sense. You know who you are. Easy.

2006-09-28 17:35:59 · 11 answers · asked by OU812 3

Me and a few friends were discussing if guys like it whn females shave their love spot (you know down below) all the way or do they like a lot of hair or just alittle......I would find this most helpful!!!

2006-09-28 17:30:15 · 22 answers · asked by pretty1 2

Here my situation I've got 2 friends a boy and a gril who are dating.I have none them both for two years and am better friends with the girl even though I've known the guy longer.The girl confided in me that she was breaking up with him because she lived another guy I know that their relationship has had a lot of problems.So my quesion is do I tell him she about to breakup with him?

2006-09-28 17:29:41 · 21 answers · asked by movin12006 3

How many women/men ever question your relationship with your bf/gf? If you do what do you question about it? Do you ever ask yourself is this going to last long term? I need to know what the majority of mature adults think because I think I over-analyze things too much. Can you plz help me?

2006-09-28 17:29:10 · 8 answers · asked by bcooper1975 3

It's been 10 years since I've seen him. I knew him casually through work. He was a package delivery guy and always came to me to sign for it (passing through a department of 5 other women). We developed a friendship and had some alone time outside of the job. I had a b/f he had a g/f but I always felt very comfortable with him and we had a little flirtatious thing going. We lost contact because he left his job, his cell phone, etc. I've been thinking about him and I found his address and number but afraid to call. What if he's married. I'm thinking of sending a birthday card. Is that weird or stalker like?

2006-09-28 17:27:31 · 16 answers · asked by delightfullyblended 1

2006-09-28 17:26:36 · 28 answers · asked by zati_dy 2

We've been together for 8 years and during that time, she's gained 50 pounds. I still think she's just as sexy as when we 1st met, but she's all depressed about her weight. Should I do or say something? Everytime she brings it up, I tell her that she's still hot to me, and she gets all mad and says that's not helping!

2006-09-28 17:24:23 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-28 17:23:58 · 9 answers · asked by SoSpecial 2

2006-09-28 17:23:46 · 15 answers · asked by wondering 2

I'm talking unique things...not just the normal "giving head" blah, blah blah....

2006-09-28 17:22:29 · 10 answers · asked by faithinaction1465 1

With all this talk about ballbusting would you consider an operation such as a testicle tuck ?

Testicle Tuck Operation would you have it if real and you could afford it .In the fictional world of shadowrun a mans testes are relocated deaper inside of him and his blood vessesls are reworked so that his testes stay cool enough to produce testosterone and sperm .Also the testicle tuck operation provides some protection for the blood vessesl that get compromised by trauma as they are relocated to support the testes. The penis and its blood vessesles cant be protected in this way .

2006-09-28 17:22:23 · 5 answers · asked by bolounit1 2