Pros:
We love each other
We're getting to be great friends
We look great together
Our families get along
The sex is great
Our careers connect well
We're both athletic - we take good care of ourselves
She's beautiful
She's sexy
We share expenses
We live together
We have the same long term goals
We're committed to monogamy, etc.
Cons:
Something is always wrong
She constantly questions the relationship
She's always looking for fault
She doesn't trust yet (we're both divorced - me before her...)
Foreplay is one way!
I also have some trust issues (my first wife cheated)
While I own property, etc - she doesn't have many assets
She accuses me of lying
She's jealous
I feel like I'm on eggshells - anything can set her off
I'm starting to wonder if this will work "long term" - or if I should just let go, and start over, and DEAL with the crapola all over again..... I don't want to loose a good thing, but I'm feeling like I do all the work in the relatioship
2006-09-28
00:33:12
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sandspur_321
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