we were never goin out..it was what u call a sex thing.we only had sex 3 or 4 times.and at the same time i was dating his friend.i was i guess u can sayi was cheating on my boyfriend.but me and my boyfriend are not together.and now the one that i was having sex with says he loves me.but he's in jail.and he said it took for him to go to jail for him to realize that he love.he's writing and calling me.we did chill at my house before he went to jail.but i don't know if he's telling the truth.any females out there have had this experience?
2006-09-28 00:33:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nope, and you do not need an imate boyfriend...Find a guy outside in the real world who can stay out of trouble...
2006-09-28 00:37:37 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and get on with your life. He is just using you for sex. You are evidently attracted to bad guys. Go out find a nice guy that will treat you like a person and not use you just for sex. And don't rush into sex with someone. Just date and when you will find the right Mr nice guy for you, marry him and then have sex.
2006-09-28 00:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a male and in iraq so i feel the isolation that someone would feel in jail, and i can tell you when you are isolated like that you have a lot of "false emotions" so if he is going to be in jail for a long period of time you should not wait for him, but i dont think it matters because you will probably cheat on him anyways which will lead to a breakup just like your last relationship
2006-09-28 00:37:15 · answer #3 · answered by foosless2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is telling you this because he is lonely. He needs some kind of relationship to sustain him through his jail time. Why would you want to be with someone in jail anyways? Your future wouldn't be very good with someone with a record. Stop this before it gets to serious.
2006-09-28 00:38:01 · answer #4 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coming from a bloke who has been to jail,i have heard from others how much they all alledegedly love their girls.its just the lonelyness talking.they tell their girls that they love em and need them,then get out and treat them like sheet.(generally)the proof is how they treat u when they are with u,coming from jail its bleeding heart bull sheet.seemings though your a cheater,it dont matter anyway,cos u dont seem to value a relationship anycase.
2006-09-28 00:53:51 · answer #5 · answered by Mark B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jail has a wonderful way of creating the Mt. Mahalia of love. He sits twenty four hours in "Love" w/ an aircraft carrier of boredom. Of course he loves you!
2006-09-28 00:37:52 · answer #6 · answered by Mae W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG that dude is messed up and the best thing for you to do is stay far away from him and stop listening to what he's saying. Next thing you know he'll be calling you his "baby girl" if he hasn't already.
2006-09-28 00:57:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your filling a need. He needs clean underwear and money for the commissary. When he gets out, you'll be gone.
2006-09-28 00:38:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he could be telling the truth, but would u to go out with someone who has been to jail. ofcos u did not mention wat he is jail for, i realize it could be something really minor and thatz d reason i do not want to write him off, but think long and hard, is he worth it?
2006-09-28 00:40:05 · answer #9 · answered by gal-next-dr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a reality check. How can you love someone when you don't even know them?
2006-09-28 00:38:28 · answer #10 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋