2006-09-28 00:28:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men process their feelings very quickly & simply, the problem is that women want a complicated answer. Telling your lady you love her is usually not enough, the next question is usually "but, why do you love me? Their is no mystery to us men, we shoot straight, but will clam up if pressed
2006-09-28 00:34:39 · answer #1 · answered by Michael P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are indoctrinated while young not to express themselves. It is seen as been unmasculine to share ones feelings. Men must emulate the classic hero, or any other modern hero that embraces the masculine superiority, and look down on anything that is feminine in nature. That is why we have so much sexism today, and so much violence against women.
2006-09-28 07:31:44 · answer #2 · answered by sangheilizim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men aren't that in to talking about how they feel. They won't tell you anything until they know they are ready. Unlike women sometimes they aren't thinking or feeling anything specific at one time. If they need to tell you anything they usually will. Just let them be them they will release when ready.
2006-09-28 07:32:25 · answer #3 · answered by Redhead with love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it depends on the person.
if he has been in a previous releationship that was not a good one, or ended badly then mayby thats why?
there scared of being hurt but mostly rejected?
there scared if they finally tell you the big L word what happends if you dont say it back...
me and my b.f have only been together for 2 months and he has never been in a serious relationship before being with me and has never said i love you to anybody.. yet he told me lst week.
it was hard for him he said incase i didnt feel the same.
so yeah dont worry hell relize in his own time and then come around..
otherwise drop hints?
2006-09-28 07:39:48 · answer #4 · answered by wantababi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think men are more confused and scared of emotions than we are sometimes. Plus, for some, love makes them feel WEAK, and they can't have THAT, can they?! :) No one likes to feel out of control, but men are sometimes programmed to think it's not manly to express emotions.
2006-09-28 07:33:05 · answer #5 · answered by curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends our situation.Great men always take a test of a lady.If their thoughts match with ur ideas then they tell.
2006-09-28 10:21:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all men are like that. the one's they are are probably cautious and dont want their feelings to be hurt. you can't blame anyone for that, can you? there could be certain circumstances why they hold back but i think if they genuinely feel something for you, you can pick up on the signals.
2006-09-28 07:40:41 · answer #7 · answered by *JC* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because that is how some people work, it isn't just men.
If they take their time, it means they're thinking about it - not declaring love to the first girl they see. It means when he does tell you, he'll really mean it.
2006-09-28 07:31:07 · answer #8 · answered by sarahlmann2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, are we taking too long to make sure we DON'T GET NAGGED FOR THE ENTIRE REST OF THE DAY? Or, are we just coming up with our next lie. Luv Ya.
2006-09-28 07:31:38 · answer #9 · answered by Joey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because we think about the situation, think about what we're going to say, and then we form a decent argument.
They we wait for women to......not make sense.
2006-09-28 07:32:01 · answer #10 · answered by Kit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋