Im 19 years old and i am very caring, got a good sense of humour, im honest and would look after a girl with all i have got but when i meet a girl all they want is to be a good friend, am i too sweet, should i change??
2006-09-28 00:53:49 · 9 answers · asked by skateboardingste 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, STOP and Man-Up dude......Ladies do love the caring and sharing, but it seems that your coming off as the "The Money Bag or The Therapist". When you first meet a young lady don't give them your life view of how your going to be the perfect man for them. Test the water, ask them about their last boyfriend and what they hated. Agree with the mess up things and then hint "If I was your man, you wouldn't have to worry about that". That way she knows your interests and the ball would be in her court. If she don't go for it, no love lost plenty fish in the sea!
2006-09-28 01:21:13 · answer #1 · answered by 504Boy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, don't change. But you're right, there are a lot of women out there (not all) who like the 'bad boy' type. For some reason they go for the one that is all aloof and acts like they don't care (which a lot of them don't care). So what you can do is either be a dick like them, or just hold some of your sweetness back, that way you'll be a bit mysterious, and they'll feel they have to get to know you and who you are.
2006-09-28 01:04:55 · answer #2 · answered by smallweed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys have all the luck. Unfortunately, none of them are nice guys like yourself.
You should just sit it out and wait for a woman that knows a good man when she sees one.
2006-09-28 01:03:17 · answer #3 · answered by Saffren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Skateboardingste (nice name), there is a strong possibility that maybe they think of you as being gay. Do you find yourself clothes shopping with the girls at least once a week and listening to show tunes often? If so, there could be a pattern emerging.
I hope this helps.
2006-09-28 01:00:08 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Drew 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im 14 and im a lady :) i imagine this often times, like i ask your self how i ought to satisfy adult men out of faculty, because it doesnt look sensible to easily go and communicate over with someone you dont comprehend =/ yet i do imagine that self assurance and compliments go far. a lady can merely experience flatterd by a praise. merely dont complication about it and do it :) if it is going incorrect merely bypass on reliable success x
2016-12-06 07:26:07 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should change at all !! You cant make everyone happy !!! be the way you are ... I am sure you'll come across someone who likes you the way you are ... sweet and innocent .........
2006-09-28 00:58:08 · answer #6 · answered by sweetiee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, don't change! Maybe those girls just aren't meant to be. Don't just change cause you can't be what they want. Be who you are and you will see, you'll find someone.
2006-09-28 01:01:01 · answer #7 · answered by sabrina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls dont want a friend. they want a lover
2006-09-28 01:01:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea u can change, try to change
2006-09-28 01:28:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋