Singles & Dating - 28 September 2006

You hear it all the time. People in abusive relationships (Verbal and Physical). They know they should leave but the sex is good so they stay. They’ll tell you themselves when you ask “Why are you still with him/her if he/she treats you so bad?” They said “Because the sex is good”. HOW GOOD IS IT? You can find good sex anywhere. Go to a club or the corner. Just have plenty of money and some protection.

On a serious note, is their stroke game all that good that you stay with them for sex and nothing else? It makes me sad to know there are people in the world who have that much low self-esteem to settle for a zero than a hero. Do you know somebody who has been through (or is going throw) this? Have you been through this?

I take this question very seriously so I would expect a serious answer.

2006-09-28 05:37:44 · 11 answers · asked by Lady Tee 2

I have met a really cute guy and we changed numbers its been 4 weeks since I'v known him and i found out he doesnt have a gf and im in most of his classes so i want to ask him out how should i do this with out sounding to pushy or anything !!! Plese help boys and girls lool lool

2006-09-28 05:37:00 · 8 answers · asked by gawjus gal 2006 1

there is a guy ok me and him are just friends well thats what i want us to be but he keeps begging me to go out with him when i use to go with his best friend and i don't date my exs best friends thats just how i am but ne wayz he is comming to this football game to night well i have to work there but i always take a break ok but ne ways i go to this small school and there isn't a lot of white people and i told this dude that i don't date blacks or mexicans (no offence that is just how i was raised) and well i'm trying to get one of my white guy friends to be like a fake date... you know so i wont appear available to him and that way he might just get use to the fact that i just want us to be friends... i dunno but i feel bad... should i feel bad for having a fake boyfriend? do y'all think it is mean to fake that you have a lover??

2006-09-28 05:35:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-28 05:35:11 · 14 answers · asked by jen 1

with his cousin and he doesnt know! its his cousin baby. i dont wanna hurt my boyfriend but how do i tell him its his cousins baby and not his! should i just keep quiet???

2006-09-28 05:34:27 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-28 05:34:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why can't I just find someone who is normal, has their stuff together, and knows what they want. All I seem to find are great girls and then all the sudden their true crazy side comes out. Clingy, rude, can't make decisions on their own... I want someone that I can have a conversation with that I don't feel like I am teaching a class the entire time! HAVE AN OPINION! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!

Maybe I am just fishing in the wrong ponds, maybe I need to mix up my social circle a bit. Either way things needs to turn around soon. I am 24 and at this rate, i will be perfectly happy as a single male the rest of my life!

2006-09-28 05:33:16 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it possible that I am just drawn to "bad boys" and that
is why I have the issues I do in relationships. . . .and if so, as I believe this is accurate. . .how do I re-direct my attention to the right type of men. . .I loose the "bad boy types" as soon as they
show their true colors. . .I'd like to never have to see those kind of colors to begin with. . .any suggestions???

2006-09-28 05:32:28 · 15 answers · asked by ? 3

2006-09-28 05:32:25 · 6 answers · asked by anna 1

What should I do when someone e-mails me, I don't know what to say or what I should do about it?? HELP ??

2006-09-28 05:30:40 · 15 answers · asked by Freckel Face 2

2006-09-28 05:30:37 · 9 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3

2006-09-28 05:30:05 · 2 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3

I was checking out with a friend of mine and they had cds by the register. And he saw the Rharanda cd, or whatever the hell her name is and asked me who she was. I said just some R&B slu*. Some girl nearby took great offense to me insulting her, and I said well if you weren't eavesdropping you wouldn't have had to hear it, then she snapped back and we got into an argument, and it was getting heated so I just grabbed her and kissed her. Now I'm going to go out with her. Do you think I when I see her I should keep beeing hot headed, is she expecting that, attracted to that. Or should I just be chill.

2006-09-28 05:29:50 · 11 answers · asked by joe 3

2006-09-28 05:28:10 · 7 answers · asked by sorrycharlie 1

2006-09-28 05:28:10 · 14 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3

After having been burned badly by the people I've loved more than once, I don't believe I will be able to trust enough to ever fall in love again. Truthfully, I feel weak to it. . .as if I can't let myself love again. I'm not sure if people (read : mostly men) Understand the true meaning of what love is anymore. Comment? Suggestions?
Anything?

2006-09-28 05:27:30 · 12 answers · asked by ? 3

2006-09-28 05:26:03 · 5 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3

after 4 years of being at his reckoning call, i've walked away and began a relationship with someone new. while 2gether he'd call when the guys weren't around and want me 2 drop everything to be with him. He developed cancer and I took care of him, his friends didn't even visit. I cooked and cleaned 4 him and his teenage son. Never missed a holiday, birthday, or his sons graduation. Out of the 4 years he only seen my children 5 or 6 times, briefly. Unfortunately, I developed cervical cancer and had to have a hysterectomy, he called a week later. I never heard from him again until I had been released from the doctor, and could be back in the saddle again. But now that I have moved on with a loving, supportive man, who spends as much time with my children as he does me... the ex b/f wants to be in my life. He has had his friends call me and approach me to the point that I've moved and had my phone and cell number changed. Why does he now care so much about me and what I do?

2006-09-28 05:25:39 · 10 answers · asked by sickofmakinthemgo 2

2006-09-28 05:25:36 · 12 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3

2006-09-28 05:25:33 · 18 answers · asked by kourtney j 2

2006-09-28 05:25:32 · 8 answers · asked by sweets17_2005 1

2006-09-28 05:25:24 · 6 answers · asked by Eric Inri 6

2006-09-28 05:24:29 · 11 answers · asked by adriboff 3

my best friend (who's a guy) asked me out. and even tho i didn't ever really think of him that way, i said yes. now im regretting it. how do i dump him and still be friends?? i don't wanna hurt his feelin's and he really really REALLY likes me. so much it almostr freaks me out. we've only been dating for 2 weeks.
should i break up with him in person or over instant messagin
im scared to talk to him in person

2006-09-28 05:23:03 · 4 answers · asked by brummondgirls 2

2006-09-28 05:22:46 · 7 answers · asked by TOMMY A 1

well if no one else likes it i luv my smooth luvly chest!! Mmmmmm!

2006-09-28 05:21:18 · 26 answers · asked by adriboff 3

I sometimes don't hear from him for two weeks, maybe three even. In the meantime, I miss him and it's just not sex - I really have strong feelings for him. Should I call and tell him how I feel, knowing that possibly it is not the same with him?

2006-09-28 05:21:15 · 16 answers · asked by bones 1

All I said was "You are not as good as your sister"

2006-09-28 05:18:49 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-28 05:18:41 · 11 answers · asked by roy 4

So, I met this guy about 3 weeks ago & we have been connected @ the hip ever since. I am just recently out of a relationship so feelings were not expected from me at all. But now it seems that he is all I think, see , do..... I am not sure how he feels, though I have an idea. I guess the question is now that I am terrified of these feelings that I have gotten so quickly... what do I do now? Do i tell him & scare both of us or leave it alone and go with the flow?

2006-09-28 05:17:37 · 19 answers · asked by its me 1