I sometimes don't hear from him for two weeks, maybe three even. In the meantime, I miss him and it's just not sex - I really have strong feelings for him. Should I call and tell him how I feel, knowing that possibly it is not the same with him?
2006-09-28 05:21:15 · 16 answers · asked by bones 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So complex. It sounds like high school huh? SHould I...should'nt I...here's the thing you should know that high schoolers think they're going to get by the time they're 50 but don't.
DON'T PLAY GAMES.
If you love somebody, even if you're unsure about how they feel about you, you have to carpe it. Honey, life is short too short to be sitting around for two or three weeks waiting for that phone to ring so you guys can rendevous a couple of times and then do it all over again. If you tell him that he makes your heart jump every time you hear his voice, how he makes you dance around your living room like a little kid and all that fun stuff...and he doesnt feel the same, what have you lost? Those painstaking nights wishing he was there with you? So long. BUt what have you gained? Freedom!! The freedom to move on and find that guy that does all those amazing things to you but is in your arms every night, telling you he loves you too. And that you excite him just as much as he does you. And thats looking at it pessimistically. He could tell you he feels the same way, he just didnt know how you felt. Generally men are shyer when it comes to expressing those emotions. SO you be the bigger man :) and step right up to the plate and swing away. The pain of letting someone go that wasnt right for you is easier than the pain of fooling yourself.
Good Luck.
2006-09-28 05:33:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on what you want.
Will you be happy with a relationship that just goes on like this forever? If so there is no need to take any action.
Do you want more? If so you have to talk to him and let him know how you are feeling - but you have to be prepared to hear that isn't how he feels, and you need to know how you are going to handle that.
If you tell him three things can happen:
1. You find out he feels the same and you work on developing your relationship.
2. you find out he doesn't feel that way and you decide to keep things the way they are.
3. you find out he doesn't feel that way and you move on to find someone who is looking for the same kind of relationship you are.
It isn't an easy decision, but don't stay quite just to keep someone if you really want more - everyone deserves the best. .
2006-09-28 12:28:58 · answer #2 · answered by mraandmisse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a call and see what is up, he might be real busy and probably thinks that your mature enough to realize that. Plus giving him a call will help him believe that you like him more then just for sex
2006-09-28 12:25:15 · answer #3 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, why not. He's using you currently for a "booty call" and not respecting your feelings, maybe he thinks your feeling the same way.......better to just clear the air and either start something serious or move on!
2006-09-28 12:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just not into you because he's not making any effort to keep in touch with you. As we all know communication is very important for a relationship to work and last..right?
2006-09-28 12:25:27 · answer #5 · answered by mae d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never hurts to be honest. I would think that he already knows.
But he may have circumstances in his life that does not permit him from calling more (A WIFE). Did you arrange this to be just a "booty call" Maybe he needs to know that you want more......
2006-09-28 12:24:28 · answer #6 · answered by Samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not hearing from him in that amount of times shows he's not as interested ina relationship as you are, telling may get to to tell you exactly what he wants, a sex partner not a commitment, which is what you want
2006-09-28 12:24:23 · answer #7 · answered by moglie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear lady, you better forget him. Ladies older and younger men almost never works. Try and find an older gentleman who will deeply care for you and appreciate you. And believe me, they can be very good in bed, too. ;)
2006-09-28 12:26:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel. He's been with you for a reason. He obviously has some sort of feelings for you.
2006-09-28 12:25:38 · answer #9 · answered by marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its better to regret the things you have done, to regret the things that you havent. I would tell him
2006-09-28 12:23:30 · answer #10 · answered by Irish ME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋