after 4 years of being at his reckoning call, i've walked away and began a relationship with someone new. while 2gether he'd call when the guys weren't around and want me 2 drop everything to be with him. He developed cancer and I took care of him, his friends didn't even visit. I cooked and cleaned 4 him and his teenage son. Never missed a holiday, birthday, or his sons graduation. Out of the 4 years he only seen my children 5 or 6 times, briefly. Unfortunately, I developed cervical cancer and had to have a hysterectomy, he called a week later. I never heard from him again until I had been released from the doctor, and could be back in the saddle again. But now that I have moved on with a loving, supportive man, who spends as much time with my children as he does me... the ex b/f wants to be in my life. He has had his friends call me and approach me to the point that I've moved and had my phone and cell number changed. Why does he now care so much about me and what I do?
2006-09-28 05:25:39 · 10 answers · asked by sickofmakinthemgo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The guy is a fool. I can tell by your writing you are much better off. I think the guy is a user and now he sees he made a mistake. Oh well to bad. If you went bak it would be the same thing in a few month so stay away from him and if you really need to tell him you are going to get a stalking order to get him to leave you alone. Good luck.
2006-09-28 05:31:18 · answer #1 · answered by FIREWALKER 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't he just wants u to do all the cleaning and cooking but then again if his cancer come back he maybe just wants u to be in hs sons life so he has some one talk to him on the phone cos i bet u still have his number use a phone box so he won't get your new numbers
2006-09-28 12:33:10 · answer #2 · answered by spud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever heard "u dont know what u have until its gone"? thats all it is...he's had some time to realize that he screwed up, and he doesnt want no one else meaking u happy cuz he wants to do it now. too bad for him, u moved on right? well then just let him do what he wants, u know what u want and what makes u happy, so what he wants and feels at this point is irrelevant. im happy u found someone that actually cares enough for u. i wish u the best :o)
2006-09-28 12:31:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't now all of a sudden care. He just wants what he cant have. He obviously doesn't want you to be happy because he had 4 yrs to make you happy and he didn't. Now that you've moved on he wants to ruin what you have. If I was you I would continue to ignore him and his friends. Who needs a man like that ?
2006-09-28 12:32:37 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He realizied what he has lost! That is all, he loves you but didn't know it then and now he wants to ruin any relationship you have! He is jealous because he knows he should have been better to you! Just stay away and life your life with your new man!
Always Amy
2006-09-28 12:31:25 · answer #5 · answered by heart2heart27958 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have realized just what he's lost, continue to move on, some how or way explain to him that it is over and it has been for a very long time.
2006-09-28 12:29:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants back in so he can be in control again. He does not love you nor does he want you to be happy. He wants you to be his. That you can be happy without him is driving him nuts. I hope you are not consedering returning to him, because he will treat you poorly again. Good luck.
2006-09-28 12:29:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes having a slave and can't find one. Avoid him. Get a restraining order.
2006-09-28 12:28:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because it is for his needs only. be with the present person better. good luck.
2006-09-28 12:33:11 · answer #9 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you found someone else, he didnt want you but he didnt want you to find someone else either,, It is a weird world we live in,,
2006-09-28 12:28:24 · answer #10 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋