else that I love. But how come I'm stilll allways thinking about that person?
2006-09-28 00:43:06 · 27 answers · asked by snowbunnie343 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You & he didn't break up by your own doing, his Mother forced the issue.
In effect you had no closure and if it weren't for the interference might still be together.
It seems natural to me that you still think about him, given some more time and with your new boy friend you will think less and less about him.
2006-09-28 00:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by Yellowstonedogs 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont know how long u where dating, but remember that u did love him too or atleast liked very much, u can move on and still have those feelings for a while longer, so just stick with it and eventually ull learn how to manage that feeling till u stop thinking about it. Try focusing now on ur current boyfriend, u dont want him to know who ur thinking about, do fun things together, and try to do things u did with ur ex so it will replace memories, but for the time being just hold on, everything is gonna get better soon,
2006-09-28 07:48:49 · answer #2 · answered by chinaz777 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, this is because you love her. I am also undergoing similar situation. My GF broke up with me due to same reason and she become out of contact suddenly. I am still searching her. No one in my family is happy. Neither my Mamma for whom my GF has to do sacrifice of me.
You are lucky that you can contact her. Believe me your life become hell if you are not with your BF and so as his and his mamma. I think your BF should take intiatives alongwith you and solve this problem. Else you both should stick to the decesion that you wont marry anybody else other than each other.
I am sure your parents (both your and your BF), loves you people a lot. They will definatly accept you both guys.
I m praying to the god if I would get chance to do the same with my GF.
ALL THE BEST DEAR!!!!!!!
2006-09-28 08:28:14 · answer #3 · answered by Sammy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always the "what ifs" that keeps us wondering. Your relationship did not sour, neither did you discover that you guys weren't suitable for each other. You broke up becoz someone asked you too, and the decision you made wasnt one that you wanted.
A relationship is hard enough to maintain without parental interference. If your ex couldnt control his mum and took your side then, do you think he will in the future? I was worth the short term pain. You're better off with someone who will stand by you a nd carry on dating you coz he wants to and not coz his mother wants him to.
2006-09-28 07:48:43 · answer #4 · answered by ikusburples 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Honey....if you didnt fight to be with the first boy...and your already with someone else that you "love" Then you really didnt care all that much for the guy.
Your only thinking of him now because you still have that internal anger at the mother interfering with something you were involved with.
2006-09-28 07:45:40 · answer #5 · answered by sent_from_heaven2me 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You broke up with your bf because his Mommy told you to? Unless you are both 15 years old, that doesn't make sense.
And if you love your new bf but still always think about your ex, I would question whether you are really in love with the new guy.
2006-09-28 07:45:07 · answer #6 · answered by kja63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A man isnt much of a man if his mother has controll over whom he dates. Id be thankful I was dating another guy. Your probly thinking about him because you cant get over a how he can put you aside because of his mother. Thats a bit mess up if you ask me! Steer clear of men with mothers like that. Go date a guy that at least the mother has cut the apron strings.
2006-09-28 08:04:57 · answer #7 · answered by lovie12346 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because there are still unresolved feelings there. with that history, the breakup wasn't because it didn't work, it was because of his mother. i know it's hard when the parents approval is not there but don't let anyone make you feel like you don't deserve what you want. if you still love him more than this current guy than fight for him. but if you think it wouldn't work then let go. maybe try dinner with him. see if those feelings are still there. you just need closure.
2006-09-28 07:53:15 · answer #8 · answered by confused 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why did u guys allow his mum poke her nose in ur relationship? u still think of him cos u still love him. if he still feels d same way for u, u guys should try and make it work, i'm saying this cos i went tru a similar ordeal, we stuck together and now 7yr down d line we are still married and living happily.
2006-09-28 07:48:48 · answer #9 · answered by gal-next-dr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are u ? if you are over 18 and he is also who is his mother to tell you to quit seeing each other ? He sounds like a mama's boy . Does everything his mama tells him to do. I would not give it another thought obviously you are better off without him.
2006-09-28 07:46:04 · answer #10 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋