ok ive been seeing this guy for about 3 months and he tells me hes over his X but i dont believe him for one minute. whenever he mentions her he wont stop talkin about her its rediculous really. someone sent me an online conversation and he was talkin to her saying that he feels her when he touches me and things like that idk what to do. what do u think?
2006-09-28 01:04:07 · 22 answers · asked by angel1566789 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh and they dated for like a year and she IS NOT better looking shes fat and a lil ugly
2006-09-28 01:08:20 · update #1
ok she really is ugly i know this and ummm she was his 1st so hes a lil attached.. i dont need anymore self esteem thanks
2006-09-29 02:33:02 · update #2
sounds like he's still not over her, sorry. its probably best to let him go so that he can get over his feelings for her. maybe things can pick up again later, when he's not still thinking about her.
2006-09-28 01:05:49 · answer #1 · answered by jojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i belive that you are a very beautiful girl who deserves THE best in life and in this case a relationship; now having had said that , really girl this man is really not that into you and as much as it will hurt, but really you really have to get rid of this man; the thing with this is that, this is destroying you inside, being with someone who is not that much into you; coz I know that thoghts come into mind: thoughts like, that means I am not good enough, why cant I make him love me just as much e.t.c so girl save yourself the stress and self-esteem and move on and find a guy who is going to love you and only you enterely! Or you can forgive him! at the end you have to remember that this is your life and whatever you let to happen now somehow catches up with you in the future; its like a ghost that just doesnt want to go away and strange enough if you dont stop it now you are going to get used to being treated this way and end up, not knowingly, choosing the very same guy over and over, just with a different name, if you know what I mean! Jst ask God for a better guy and just see if He will not give you one; just try it and see if you will die or not after asking God for a handsome, rich... girl you know what you want!.... go on ask!
2006-09-28 09:09:49 · answer #2 · answered by dobby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he will never get over her. You need to move on because he sounds like he wants her back and just using you. Go out and find someone that will treat you right and give you the respect that you deserve. Look out for yourself number 1.
2006-09-28 08:34:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously not over her. You might as well end things now since he will not likely be able to get over her anytime soon. Especially if he's still talking to her. You will be the one to get hurt from all of this.
2006-09-28 08:07:00 · answer #4 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to dump his sorry butt. Honey, there are plenty of fish in the sea. He is obliviously not over her. You are the rebound girl, so get out first before you get hurt.
2006-09-28 08:15:40 · answer #5 · answered by sdgblueyes26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see red flags from here , If you love him talk to him, if not move on cause there will be someone that cant stop thinking about you.
2006-09-28 08:09:16 · answer #6 · answered by seilygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea i defintly think u should dump him because thats just wrong that he told her he feels her when he touches you dont be hus back up plan...
2006-09-28 08:10:28 · answer #7 · answered by A-Trip 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he still loves his x, a year is lot in a relationship feelings are developed and it aint easy to let them go...........so what i mean to say is that you wasting your time with this guy, and ohh is she really ugly and fat or is that your way of making yourself feel beter
2006-09-28 08:16:37 · answer #8 · answered by zeee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY DO U CALL HER UGLY, MAYBE THINGS LIKE THIS U SAY MAKES HIM COMPARE U TWO AND THEN HE REALIZES SHE WAS A BETTER PERSON THAN U ARE
2006-09-28 08:25:15 · answer #9 · answered by gal-next-dr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Angel, it's probably because his ex-gf is far better looking than you, and he still wishes he was with her.
Hope this helps.
2006-09-28 08:07:13 · answer #10 · answered by Dr. Drew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋