ok there is this guy in college i realllly like but we dont know each other.. we basically just look at each other everyday.. i am trying to find out more about him.. but the thing is from day after tomorrow we have a long vacation.. so i cant understand wht to do? im thinking should i just go and talk to him? but say wht? wht if he doesnt like me. i m pretty confused but i like this guy too much and i want to get his number atleast for the holidays..
last year i had this lil disaster with a guy wen i made a move and he didnt like me aftr that i was like thats it im done with making a move . so should i now do it again? or should i give him my number somehow?
plzzz help !
2006-09-28 00:40:50 · 25 answers · asked by cranberries 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok plz suggest something more specific.. like how should i go about it
2006-09-28 00:43:58 · update #1
slip ur number in his bag or something then wen he finds it he wont no who's this number is so he will text it or ring it, that way u cant get embarrassed if he turns u dwn because ur not face to face with him its over a phone and u av got a long vaction so by the time u get bak to college it will al b forgotten. or in the other hand if u got guts just make the move, u only live once!
2006-09-28 00:44:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i assume the two of u never talk to each other, and he doesnt have a clue bout how u feel.
ok since u only have one day, there no way you can look for any info bout this guy right, so the only thing left is to confront him face to face.
do this, get your friends and talk near him about the your vacation plan, make sure he's in hearing distance, then get confused about the places you want to visit or getting the tickets, or dealing with all the paperworks. then turn around and ask whether he knows anything or have any experienced about your issue. that'll make him speak. the rest is up to you.
getting a phone number is quite tough though, hmmm. do this. ask if he has any contact number about something i.e tour offices, airline reservation number. if he has any, then ask for his number just for "just in cases". after that it's smooth sailing from there.
Happy holiday
2006-09-28 08:06:01 · answer #2 · answered by @lun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we guys have had this dilemma for ever so no sympathy from me but I would suggest you approach him most guys don't mind that. Now you said it didn't work last time well now is a chance to improve on that. So approach him and see how it goes do you know anything about him? what he like or is he into sports or cars find something to know about him and maybe ask him a question to at least get started. I say go for it the worse that can happen is what has already happen to you the last time and you survived that so just do it and let me know how it came out, good luck.
2006-09-28 07:54:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down
if you like him this is the perfect chance to tell him you have a long vacation so all will be forgotten before you start back again if he says no. but if he says yes think how great that vacation will be. Don't regret things life is to short and a bit of rejection makes us stronger from my view you have nothing to loose by asking this guy straight out .
Find a cool event that he might like and casually tell him you are going to go and was wondering if he would be interested since you have a spare ticket... if he says no "say no sweat here's my number if you change your mind. he might think wow this girl is so laid back it might be nice to hang out with her. if not there was no embarrassment. good luck
2006-09-28 07:47:50 · answer #4 · answered by mum 2 Cameron and Ewan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok does he sit near u ? if he does write him a note saying ' u lookin at me?' with a smiley at the end. hopefully he has a sence of humour and will write back and/or start flirting with u. another thing u can do is walk into him and drop all ur books 'by accident' if he pickes them up he likes u and say sorry its a start to a conversation. good luck these are out there ideas but really u shud just go for it and talk to him. if u want an exuse ask him about something u did in class eg 'hey ur in my class arent u..... do u understend this....' or something to that effect or even just ask him the time anything can be a start to a conversation. best of luck
2006-09-28 07:48:11 · answer #5 · answered by Belosnezhka (aka Gex) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you a little story....
I travel on the bus to work everyday, and until recently there used to be this lovely girl who traveled on the same bus. We used to exchange glances and smiles at each other at the bus stop, in a similar way that you do. I was desperate to speak to her but I didn't know what to say.
One day I decided that I was going to say something no matter what. So I waited at the bus stop, but she never turned up. I waited for her for the next few days as well, but she never turned up. I have no idea exactly where she worked, and will now probably never see her again.
Don't make the same mistake I did, make sure you say something! If you are exchanging glances and smiles then you're already halfway there. Just hold the glance one time instead of looking away, walk up to him and say something like "So, whats your name?"
Good luck!
2006-09-28 08:07:36 · answer #6 · answered by keith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be afraid of rejection. Just keep in mind, they are the ones missing out, and there is someone else out there you are meant to be with. Don't let it get you down, just smile and let them know it was their loss and have a nice life. If you continue to be unsure of yourself, you will have many more disasters to come! Take the leap, be strong. It's a short fall if things don't work out the way you want, the great thing is...you can get right back up! Men like confidence in women, remember that.
2006-09-28 07:47:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how being nervous can even make the situation more high tense but to break the ice i'd say try and make eye contact and smile at him. that is usually the best way to start. and then go up and say hi and ask him what he's doing for vacation. even if you've been burned in the past it's better knowing that you tried then wondering what if. if you have nothing to lose by asking and everything to lose if you don't, by all means ask him.
2006-09-28 07:46:38 · answer #8 · answered by confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to ask him if he would like to go out sometime,if he likes you he will say yes if he doesn't he will say no.If you get turned down move on.If he doesn't like you there is nothing you can do about it just say OK and wait for the next guy you like to come along, there will be loads trust me.Good Luck
2006-09-28 07:55:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
smile and flirt abit this will indicate weather he is interested, if he walks away better luck next time, if he flirts back then you have a starting point. make conversation about a new movie or something like that. try asking for his help on something that needs him to get back to you, that way you can give him your number without feeling outta space like... drop something accidentally close to him, see if he picks it up for you or ignores that it happened, there lots of ways to go about the move without feeling rejected... good luck
2006-09-28 07:51:20 · answer #10 · answered by niknik74 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋