My girlfriend won't share with me, so I have a decision to make. Should I forget about serious talks and just treat her like a awesome sexual partner, push the "we need to talk turkey" issue or walk? It's been 2 years and we are both feeling the strain of my indecision. Any suggestions
2006-09-28 00:31:04 · 23 answers · asked by Michael P 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
commitment, if you have commitment with her maybe she will trust you and share everything with you.
2006-09-28 00:34:22 · answer #1 · answered by happylittletoes 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what you mean by her not sharing with you...
What is it that she's not sharing? Is it her personal possessions, or her feelings and emotions?
I think that whatever it is that she's not sharing, (and i'm assuming it's the feelings and emotions part), before you do anything too drastic after 2 years, you should definitely try the Turkey Talk first. Tell her what it is you need, but are not getting, and at least give her a chance to respond. You never know, she may have no idea how you feel, and things might just turn out to be better than they ever have been once she realises how close she was to losing you!!!
Good luck. I know it's very hard sometimes to have to bite the bullet and risk being hurt or rejected, but at least when it's all out in the open you'll have the relief of knowing where you stand, one way or the other...
2006-09-28 00:45:56 · answer #2 · answered by SierraSydney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is get you a girlfriend that will share. Some people no matter how much time you spend with them, they are not going to share. Its easier for them to have sex that is meaningless and think its love and be divorced right after the issues of how the first born child should be raised. Some people want what married couples have and had for over 27 years than to learn what it took them to get where they are. Its commitment. Trust me thats an easy word to say than to do .
2006-09-28 00:40:19 · answer #3 · answered by lovie12346 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is not ready for a commitment yet dont push her / if the sex is good and you get along then you are doing better then the average couple out there dont fix what isnt broken no one says you will be happier married most of the time it dont work you have a 50/50 shot id say enjoy what you have
2006-09-28 00:37:00 · answer #4 · answered by jerry k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've read it twice and I still don't know what you are talking about. If her altimatum is committment or get lost, then how are you going to treat her like an awesome sexual parnter. Hmmmmm?
2006-09-28 00:33:46 · answer #5 · answered by Joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Committment.
2006-09-28 00:33:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If what you really want is a serious committed relationship than you already know what to do. This is obviously not the girl for you right now, move on.
2006-09-28 00:38:00 · answer #7 · answered by jenieatworld 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you comfortable with? If you can just have sex with her and not invest your feelings into the relationship then do that. I am not sure you can pull that off though. Sounds like you really have feelings for her.
2006-09-28 00:35:57 · answer #8 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Committment if u love her.2years is too much time make up your mind
2006-09-28 00:33:24 · answer #9 · answered by pimpinela 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex every relationship needs sex and lots of it. personally I dont get enough from my g/f
2006-09-28 00:35:26 · answer #10 · answered by Fox Hunter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she cant then walk away u don hv a future with that attitude in ur rtnship both of u
2006-09-28 00:42:31 · answer #11 · answered by Snifer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋