Singles & Dating - 22 September 2006

my bf want 2 go out with me but i dont.my frend told me that he is cheating me i asked him but he dont reply.whenever i ask bout this he tell me "y r u listening t others".my frend told me that he gave ear-ring&chocks etc to her. i dont want all this but how can i say 2him that y r u giving all this 2 her.
he never call me.whenever i call he force me to go 4 outing.if i say no he go with her.
im confused. kya mein usien mana karke uske gift wapis kar doon.......................

2006-09-22 01:26:00 · 19 answers · asked by aayushi s 1

while i am asking is b/cos i have seen alot of thing, so is why i desided to aks this question. thanks.

2006-09-22 01:25:13 · 2 answers · asked by lilli baby 1

No.. I'm not talking about sex.. what yeah stuff that deals with it.. like giving him a handjob and him messing with me. Is it normal to feel a difference in yourself and your relationship too? Not anything bad, just that everything you thought about before you think about twice as much, it's kind of hard to explain.. hopefully you understand a little.

2006-09-22 01:24:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

do u belive that true love will never be forgoten

2006-09-22 01:24:02 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

Guys and gals I am curious to other people's meaning to this.
If you are a guy, what would you mean if you said a girl had you wrapped around her finger?

2006-09-22 01:21:17 · 18 answers · asked by whodunit 3

2006-09-22 01:17:30 · 3 answers · asked by prettywomen512 1

2006-09-22 01:16:55 · 20 answers · asked by the_hauntid 2

2006-09-22 01:15:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok here goes:


I’m 15, this girl is 13: ITS only 2 years

A few months ago, me and this girl were really close, we would talk and flirt all the time, and this went on for a while, well eventually people started talking about us, being so close, and wondered if we were dating. She started backing off big time, and seemed like something was bothering her. Well I asked her to the movies, and she said idk maybe. I took it as a nice way of saying no. Well she told her friends she just doesn’t know, because I’ve liked many different girls b4, and she just want to see if I could stick with her for a while. Well months passed, and we got further and further away. I wondered why? Well she and her mom are REALLY close, so I asked her mom. Her mom said she was just really scared, because we have been friends since age 7. Well then she told her friends she just doesn’t want to hurt my feelings. It got to the point were I couldn’t stand it anymore. So I emailed her this about a month ago


can we please talk??
I've got to tell you something, because, well, i just got to know.
I really like you, alot. And it seemed like you used to like me. But now, it just seems like you are really really trying to avoid me. I mean, i know youve been busy and all with swimmin, but like since carrowinds, we havent talked, barely any , at all. It seems like you just dont care about me. I mean, i feel so confused, because, for some reason, you just stopped talking to me. Why? I mean, are you trying to get me to take the hint? Or what? I mean i really dont know what to think. Tell me anything, tell me that you hate me, just please please be honest. Remember that thing at carrowinds, guys cant stand when girls beat around the bush? Well, if you dont like me, please just tell me straight up. My feelings wont be hurt. And if you do, but just arent sure, just tell me. I wanna be there for you, I want you to be able to trust me, and be able to talk to me, about anything

This is what she replied

hey,
well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later.





This is what I replied



hey!!. thanks for being honest with me. I really value our friendship too, and if you don’t feel comfortable, because of ruining the friendship if something were to happen, that is cool with me.




Now to me, that sounds like two things (1) she doesn’t want to ruin a friendship, cuz we’ve been friends since age 7 or (2) shes just letting me down easy. But now she is flirting with this other guy, like she used to do with me. But she seems more comfortable around me than she did before. But when she sees that I am not going out of my way to see her, she seems to talk to me more, and flirt a little more, almost like she don’t have me anymore. And sometimes, Ill catch her looking at me, and when I look she’ll look away. And then sometimes, her body language, she just seems sad, like she wants to tell me something, or likes me or IDK what, its just she seems different since we talked about it. But I mean b4 she really seemed to like me, and IDK why she just would have stopped. , I mean I’ve like many girls, just none like this, When I wake up sheds the first think I think about, and the last think when I go to sleep. I just cant let her go.
My question is do you think she was letting me down easy, or is just scared, and what should I do about it? And please don’t tell me I’m too young

2006-09-22 01:11:58 · 16 answers · asked by how many 1

I've been dating this boy off and on for a year now. I care about him a lot and I spent a lot of time trying to make everything work. We finally became stable in mid-April and things were really great from there on out. But lately I feel drained and I don't know if I feel as strongly about holding it together anymore. I asked him about it tonight and we both kind of didn't know what to say. I guess I'm wondering what to do when you're stuck in a rut...when you care about someone but there's nowhere to go with it. I know I'm bored with life in general these days so that probably factors in. I'm 18 and he's 20. We both do our own things a lot and we don't see each other that often because both of us are struggling students in different schools (so there's some distance between us as well). I can't really imagine not having him in my life though but I feel like there's nothing left to give. Any suggestions? Thanks.

2006-09-22 01:11:42 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-22 01:07:41 · 10 answers · asked by villie 1

has this week dragged for you too?

2006-09-22 01:03:37 · 45 answers · asked by trouble 4

i met this guy 5 months ago, and though i only knew him 5 days, it felt like id known him forever. we were so comfortable with eachother it was unbelievable. id never had anything like it before. he is 4 years older than me and lives 300 miles away. but i miss him so much and i know we had something. is it meant to be or just coincidence. it feels like we are, but i dont see how it would work,or how i will see him again.

2006-09-22 01:00:38 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

assuming you have been dating for a while and have very strong feelings for him/her.

must be 40 characters or less, and be serious about it please.

2006-09-22 01:00:09 · 11 answers · asked by NAQ 5

2006-09-22 00:59:19 · 2 answers · asked by scottie322 6

I've been going out with a new boyfriend for around 4 weeks. Last night i saw him and he said he loved me. Is it possible for someone to be able to say that sorta thing and mean it? Is he just saying that so he can get into my bed or does he really mean it? I'm only in year 10 for god's sake!

2006-09-22 00:58:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

she's always farting, and really loud ones too! of course i do too, but i'm a guy so i'm allowed. what should i do?

2006-09-22 00:54:05 · 19 answers · asked by Mystery Guest 2

Dirty bastard, send him to prison!

2006-09-22 00:52:32 · 17 answers · asked by Dan 1

This guy asked for my number. I gave it to him
but I've been talking to him for three weeks and
everytime I ask him when we will see each
other, he changes the subject. Is he or is he not
interested?

2006-09-22 00:47:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please, share with me your stories about you meeting (or dating) a person who you first met online and then in real life...

2006-09-22 00:46:58 · 11 answers · asked by Irma M 1

Well not fall in love per say but thinking about him/her most of the time, even infatuated, miss chatting to them or talking to them over the phone.
I met this girl on a chat site, we had a chat and she gave me her numbers after we had a chat the third time, i called her and seamed as if we were connecting, we've decided to meet in person tomorrow, a date, so is it possible to be infatuated with a person you never met, don't know what he/she looks like, only spoke over the phone and had a chat online?

2006-09-22 00:46:10 · 25 answers · asked by lacoste 3

My pal and I went out Wednesday night to a club and we met this gorgeous older guy and had lots of fun with him. After a couple of drinks my pal and him engaged in some more than provocative dancing and they moved on to some really hot stuff and ended up having a quickie in his car. She then rang me up last night with some real shocking news. She was having dinner with her boyfriend and his family to introduce her to the clan and it turns out that the older guy she had a one night stand with is her boyfriends father! He called her aside and told her that what they both did was a mistake and she should not tell and neither would he. She is pretty serious about this guy and admits that she made a silly mistake, but fears that it could turn ugly if her boyfriend found out on his own. Should she tell? What would you do?

2006-09-22 00:41:04 · 12 answers · asked by fareen 2

2006-09-22 00:38:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-22 00:32:27 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay,this white guy in my class is always staring at me and smiling at me, And he's really nice and he's been trying to ask me out. He's really cute too. He has black hair and green eyes. I'm so relucant to go out with him becuase he's white. I want to but I think my family won't apporve. WHat should I do?

2006-09-22 00:28:41 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

what would u do if archie bunker showed up at your house and called you a meathead and told you to stifle yourself?

2006-09-22 00:26:55 · 7 answers · asked by Mystery Guest 2

ill word this better this time

ok i have a hot girlfriend who i love very much, and i want to have penatrating intercorce with her, but her lover reagions are very very tight, and my lover rigions arnt so thin, so it wont fit, we are both virgins, but we have been trying to have intercores for the past 2 months unsucksessfully, please help im desprit................

o and shes older than me and shes got the goods ;) so you can see why this issue would bother me

if this sounds korny its kuz when i flat out sed it it got deleted.... i reall need help here

2006-09-22 00:26:40 · 11 answers · asked by dude 1

2006-09-22 00:26:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i know it sounds cheesy, but i need tips for a better kiss. got any?

2006-09-22 00:25:02 · 6 answers · asked by it's me... 1

Is there no end to the adventures we could have if we only seek them with our eyes open.Is there no end to the love we could have if we approch it with our hearts instead of our minds.Is there no end to our future,if we totaly commited ourselves to one another.Is there no end to happiness.When I am with you and you are with me.I know with you in my heart.there would never be no empty love,not a missed adventure,not another commitment.There'd never be no end.
do you think a woman would like this poem

2006-09-22 00:18:13 · 11 answers · asked by lovely soul with insite 3