2006-09-22 00:26:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i feel your pain, but you have to move on. time heals all. just remember that...try and stay close with friends and family. and keep busy. clean your closet out, or your car. dont dwell on the relationship..good luck.
2006-09-22 00:29:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of how it ended, it will hurt for a while (if you really loved him anyway). It hurts and that's all there is to it. It actually does feel like someone ripped out your heart (I've been there, can't you tell?) I'm sorry to tell you but the only way to really get over him is to give it time. Believe it or not, but one day you'll wake up and it won't hurt as much. Don't rush yourself and allow yourself to cry for him if you want. Crying allows you to get the hurt out and you'll heal faster. I'm sorry you have to go through this, but I promise, it gets easier.
2006-09-22 07:32:07 · answer #2 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have come alot of girls lately, about 7 who face relationship problem. i think the bottomline is that u are too obssess with him thus even for me i also get hurt when i just have a crush on the gal and i am amaze that within such a short period of time i feel the pain so deeply. i can't describe the feelings! nevertheless i treat her as a friend now and slowly i tell myself as long as i upkeep my believe that i will meet a gal who will appreciate me someday, i want to be positive to focus on my dream for the moment. one step at a time.
2006-09-22 07:53:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huni, you broke up for a reason, doesn't that tell you enough?
I have broken up with my ex for 3 months now and I feel so great, I am dating again and I feel so much better now I haven't got him bringing me down! Seriously trust me, it takes time but the pain does start to heal!
Just do things to keep yourself busy and think of the reason you broke up in the fist place and also think to yourself, do you want an unhappy relationship for the rest of your life?? Good luck and you wil feel so much better. Take care x
2006-09-22 07:31:16 · answer #4 · answered by tinkerbellcarly86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to energize yourself everytime you eat, wash your hair, go for a walk basically continually. Say to yourself it is over, wish him well but fate has a plan for you. There is someone better suited for you just around the bend.When you eat with each bite you say, I love myself, the relationship has run its full course, I wish him well but there is someone in the midst who I do not yet know. Basically repeat it to yourself every moment you feel weaker. It takes a courage it takes strenght and it takes a real woman to say its over and not belittle yourself by begging, phoning crying and basically looking weak. You are worth showing him your best revenge which is your own happiness and inner strength. You go girl!!!!
2006-09-22 07:30:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it hurts sooo much because you really liked him + you had a bond with him, but when its over its over.....just go out and enjoy yourself.....your mates will always b there for you + they will soon make you forget about the loser that threw away a good thing.....you will find another man soon dont worry chick....it happens to the best of us....stick with your freinds coz they can cheer you up anytime + are always going to be there for you....
keep your chin up
x.niks.x
2006-09-22 07:31:44 · answer #6 · answered by lil niks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
It is hard to get over him beacuse you still like him. Don't worry i had the same prbelm but then how i got over it is that i went out with anothere guy and i got over him.
2006-09-22 07:31:16 · answer #7 · answered by rrmbuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its gonna hurt.. what you need to do is occupy your time. go out with the girls and do some things during the day so that you arent thinkin about it. the only thing that makes the hurt go away is time!
2006-09-22 07:53:44 · answer #8 · answered by SARA F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It always hurts...And it just takes time, but it goes by faster if you keep yourself busy and surrounded by friends. =)
2006-09-22 07:29:17 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's how it goes dear. you just have to let go and move on, keep yourself busy with work and with friends. and try not to listen to love songs yet, you'll only cry. c",)
2006-09-22 07:32:52 · answer #10 · answered by azumie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋