I've been going out with a new boyfriend for around 4 weeks. Last night i saw him and he said he loved me. Is it possible for someone to be able to say that sorta thing and mean it? Is he just saying that so he can get into my bed or does he really mean it? I'm only in year 10 for god's sake!
2006-09-22 00:58:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he believes he loves you. do you really believe your boyfriend would sink that low just to sleep with you? if so, then id leave the guy but if there isnt anything suspicious then id accept what he says. if you still want to be with him then wait it out and see what happens. just dont let him talk you into having sex with him, if he starts bugging you about it then leave him.
2006-09-22 01:16:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, some people do fall in love fast. It could be the first time a person sees u they fall in love. He could very well be one of those people. If you decide not to sleep with him and he sticks around then he really does love you. If he gets mad and acts different if you don't give it up then ya, he was all about the sex.
2006-09-22 08:09:17 · answer #2 · answered by Kate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends, if you have already had sex maybe he is telling the truth. if you havent maybe he is trying to get in your pants. 4 weeks is a very short time, he hasnt really gotten to know you yet. someone who loves you loves every part of you, even when you are a ***** at that time of the month. tell him that you are sure that he has feelings for you but for him to wait a lot longer before he says the L word.
2006-09-22 08:06:16 · answer #3 · answered by SARA F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew after a month that I loved my bf. However, we're both adults and had already had sex. With you two being young, it may be possible that he's mistaking love with strong like. As far as just trying to get into your bed, only time will tell. If you're in doubt with his true feelings, wait. If he truly loves you, then he'll wait and not pressure you. He'll stick around regardless. If he's pressuring you, then it's likely he's just trying to have sex with you.
2006-09-22 08:05:04 · answer #4 · answered by T.G. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a little early for that. He sounds really clingy and smothering. He shouldn't have said that. Poor thing...lol You're still young. I guess he could mean it in his own way but he needs to know that after 4 weeks you keep shushed about it.
2006-09-22 08:04:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a good chance he is tellling you that so he can get sex from you. Four weeks is way, way too soon to tell anyone that you love them. It could be a strong case for puppy love, but keep him at bay.
2006-09-22 08:01:23 · answer #6 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily, with some people, it is very easy to fall in love after only a short time.
2006-09-22 08:01:44 · answer #7 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Too young too soon to say i love u,he likes you for sure but i don't think he understand what 'love' is.There is a possibility that he just wants to get into your pants.Dont trust him too easily
2006-09-22 08:12:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait, your only in year 10 or grade 10? If your only in year 10....like you said...just forget about the guy!
2006-09-22 08:07:28 · answer #9 · answered by sabrina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOW LONG DOES IT TAKE FOR SUM1 TO FALL IN LOVE! We as chat mates cuold never know 4sure because he sayz it to you! Most peeps wud ask if he sayz it to you over the phone or staight in your face.
2006-09-22 08:46:15 · answer #10 · answered by Darksword 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋