i met this guy 5 months ago, and though i only knew him 5 days, it felt like id known him forever. we were so comfortable with eachother it was unbelievable. id never had anything like it before. he is 4 years older than me and lives 300 miles away. but i miss him so much and i know we had something. is it meant to be or just coincidence. it feels like we are, but i dont see how it would work,or how i will see him again.
2006-09-22 01:00:38 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea i do have his phone number, we did keep in touch. then we met up again and we ahvent kept intouch much since. and i am 15 so not easy
2006-09-22 01:14:31 · update #1
If it's mean to be, you will see him again.
2006-09-22 01:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by sabrina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your impression about this guy doesn't mean that he is feeling the same way about you. If he also thinks the world about you, 300 miles is nothing, you will meet again. But mind you don't fall into some false emotional hole. Contact him, keep in touch, and if you are feeling that he is not very enthusiastic, walk out, and fast. There is no such thing as destiny or meant to be. It's what you want, how compatible you are, how you are feeling about each other and what you are prepared to do to be with that person and what he would do for you. Good luck
2006-09-22 01:10:39 · answer #2 · answered by shortnotsilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At fifteen, you're at an impressionable age so I wouldnt worry about it too much - its an awful long way when you're that age and really making it work is hard.
Id try and stop mooching about for him and get on with your life, even though you might be missing him loads. At 19 hes in more of a situation to make the effort to see you - maybe you should text him and ask him if he'd like to meet up over the weekend or sometime and see what he says - if he agrees, then maybe ye both have a common interest to make it work, if he makes excuses not to see you then Id try forget about him
2006-09-22 02:49:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was all fresh and new so its understandable that you had that "I felt like Ive known him forever" feeling. But the truth is, after 5 days, you know absolutely nothing. Have you even talked with him the last 5 months?
2006-09-22 01:06:01 · answer #4 · answered by JC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
300 miles is nothing, me and my boyfriend were thousands of miles away from eachother when we met.. we have been together for a year now. you should see if he feels the same about you, if he does im sure you guys can keep meeting until you find a permanent salution for all that space!
2006-09-22 01:11:53 · answer #5 · answered by SARA F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Imet someone in feb and spent 5 days with him,i know how you feel.
I lost touch with him,we are both married so it was for the best,i still think about him everyday.
If you know where he is then contact him,what have you got to lose,you only live once and if it wasnt for the fact that we were both married,i would of gone for it.Good luck
2006-09-22 01:10:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is, how does he feel about you? My husband and I met pretty much the same way except we were 3000 miles apart and we both felt the connection and have been happy together ever since.
2006-09-22 01:06:35 · answer #7 · answered by Val 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't kept in touch with him for 5 months I think it is time to move on.
If you talk/chat to him often then it is worth being with him. Love knows no boundaries, and if it is true love you will find a way of being together.
2006-09-22 01:05:10 · answer #8 · answered by southernrightwhale 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't leave too much to chance. Make sure you keep in contact and follow through. Destiny favors the brave.
2006-09-22 01:16:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships only work when one person moves to be in the same town as the other person.
2006-09-22 01:06:36 · answer #10 · answered by kindofkitty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he feels the same way, he should of made plans as to when to see you again. Let him make the move, if he doesn't, then that's telling you something about him.
2006-09-22 01:04:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋