Singles & Dating - 18 September 2006

I made my gf mad she is 20 and has a 2 y/o child. We got in a heated argument online and now she says she is hurt and may have lost feelings for me. I have appoligised ( in many ways Radio, Myspace, a webpage, and also a bear and roses). She says she needs time to think but it so hard and I miss her and her kid sooo much. I just wanna know what to do and how i might fix this. She is the love of my life.

2006-09-18 05:02:14 · 11 answers · asked by Need Much Help 2

we had been dating for a little over a year and it was more than i could imagen. Even though I know this will be a culture shock for him I really miss him. I couldn't ask him to stay because I see that as something i could not live with if he did stay.I would not want him to resent me for it. But now he has been gone for two weeks and I am handleing it better than I thought, as long as I don't think of him.Eaier said than done I know. Any advice on how to move on without reboud.

2006-09-18 05:00:41 · 6 answers · asked by scully_22ps 3

I was wondering if you girls like to get a serenade from a guy, I mean, that a guy comes late at night and starts singing to you outside your window with a bunch of musicians playing right behing him...??

Or is it too old fashioned?

I mean, thats what my dad used to do to conquer my mom, so I was wondering if grils dont like it anyomore, or if guys just dont do it anymore...

2006-09-18 05:00:31 · 9 answers · asked by alvarito8 2

They have been using this word a lot. I would like to know what it means.

2006-09-18 05:00:07 · 28 answers · asked by Graça 3

lets say that he made me go through hell at first. He had left me for another girl when i was carring his child, do to that stress i lost it and two more with him. Then he would mentally abuse me and well had done more..ever since then i have been not so good with relationships but now he has become as the most sweetest guy but in the past i was at the hospital due of stress.Should i still talk to him or just let the past go.

2006-09-18 04:54:09 · 17 answers · asked by lisa 1

well lol it's kina embarassing but everytime i'm with her and we stop somewhere and no one is looking we would kiss of course and then she'd lay back take off her shoes and move her feet next to my face and start playing with it with her toes and feet .. and then she's like plz baby can u lick my feet for me ? lol .. is that .. normal ? .. i mean ... i dunno ...

2006-09-18 04:53:37 · 11 answers · asked by hunter_free2004 2

as we become more and more intimate with each other we have become more playful as well, tickling and play wrestiling around and joking and what not. well he has been joking with me and some of the jokes are just NOT funny, and the time when he says it is not appropriate at all.

For example when we were finished making love yesterday he asked if he had pleased me. i said YES and told him that he was probably the BEST lover i had ever taken. he said oh cool, well you are definatly in my top TEN...

Of course, i got a little upset with him (I mean, WTF??) and he said he was just teasing me, and that if i was in the top 10 he didnt say if i was number 10 or number 1....now he never answered if i was number 1 or not

I dont care, its just that the timing was WAY off, I was being really sweet and he was being a typical....man.

is this something i should be concerned about and what do you think it means?

2006-09-18 04:53:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My best friend (a girl) for no real reason decided to paint my nails purple and pink (I'm a guy) yesterday. Why the hell? Then again, I'm not complaining, I got to hold her hand. Also we are kind of goth so she's getting me black polish tomorow, lol.

2006-09-18 04:52:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-18 04:51:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have this best friend, I'm a guy, she's a girl, we are 15 and have known each other for 2 years. When we hang out in a group, we are always standing close to each other. We playfully fight with and mock each other all the time. She calls me Reilly, even tho everyone else calls me by my first name and if they call me Reilly she gets anoyed. We are very comfortable with each other. On a couch we sorta lean into each other, anyway, I am pretty sure now that she likes me, an I know I like her, A Lot, so what should I do next? Should I test the waters by hugging her? An arm round the shoulder or waist? Any advice?

Specifically I want to know what I should do next and how.

2006-09-18 04:49:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I understand why we men are fascinated with breasts. We don't have them ourselves! Also, Freudians will link the high level of breast interest to subconscious fascinations with our own mothers. I get it.

I have been with large breasted women, and while I am not opposed to them in general, I much prefer a smaller breasted woman, like a B cup or so. That is perfect!

I am a big, tall, athletic man and like women to be tall and athletic also. Large breasts seem so cumbersome. And as sexy as they can be, they get in the way sometimes during sex!

My male friends give me such a hard time about this. When a group of women walks by, they all drool over the largest breasted one without fail. I am inevitably attracted to a different, smaller statured, woman in the group. Different men have different tastes. That is fine. Yet, they insist and giving me such a hard time about it. Help me understand.

2006-09-18 04:48:08 · 20 answers · asked by Tulsa Boy 2

Do women like sweet guys..., as thats what they say about me.........Should I change that image....have tattoos on arms/back, wear rings on fingers and a gold cross, wear shades, and just become a Baddddd! Boyyyyy.........as thats all women want these days..........as sweet guys never get dates

zack 28

2006-09-18 04:46:39 · 30 answers · asked by ? 3

I am in a situation where i love this guy but he is not responsible, we got together he wasn't working but led me to believe he was just in between jobs. I finally got mad after 8 months of supporting him and asked him to leave as i have a 16 yr old that i am raising alone his dad gave up rights so he wouldn't have to help pay to raise him. Anyway i still love him but am not in love with him. He found a job and is staying with me currently but i have told him i want him to go when he gets a paycheck. But he don't seem to want to hear that. Any advice on how to handle this without it turning into an ugly situation. I would love to remain friends with him but if he can't handle that then i guess i will deal with that. Alot of people have told me i am to nice to let him stay with me like i have but i do still love him as a friend. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks have a great day :)

2006-09-18 04:45:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

just wonder how women truly feel about this! my mother or grandmother used this saying!

2006-09-18 04:42:56 · 31 answers · asked by batman9722 1

I noticed that my g/f has been getting text messages from her ex and the other night he im'd her and she closed the im out. She said that they are just friends and enjoys hanging out with his friends... I got pissed and didn't undersand, becasue all she use to talk about was how much of an *** he was... i don't get it. The other day i just couldn't take it anymore and read a couple messages that she had with him, and she i'md him both times, one talking about how she hates fighiting with me and that i ask her to many questions, which might be true, but i think i have the right too when i see these type of things going on. the next one was a very flirty one ending in "hey i'll be at school (college) all day give me a call, talk to you later.. i need some direction about this...

2006-09-18 04:42:19 · 42 answers · asked by Moto 2

2006-09-18 04:41:53 · 6 answers · asked by osuwasmile 1

ok so my ex boyfriend recently told me hes in love with his current girlfriend who moved in a week after we broke up and its only been a couple months we are trying to remain friends but its kinda hard to hear that stuff you think he is in a relationship now based on lust and he is trying to make me jealous? or maybe just trying to tell himself he is happy?why do guys do this?

2006-09-18 04:37:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

This girl and me were really close, we would stay up till 12 in the mornin talkin sometime, now that mite not be alot, but it is for her, she is homeschooled, I go to public school. Well I asked her to the movies, and she said Idk maybe , and REALLy backed off, she seemed nervous around me, I thought she just didnt wanna hurt my feelings, but she told her friends, she just wants to see if I can stick with her. Well we got further and further apart, until I couldnt stand it anymore and I emailed her, spilled my guts, and asked her to be brutally honest on how she fealt about me, heres what she said

well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later

Now, When I read that two things come to mind. One, that she is just trying to be nice. But on the other hand, she is just scared, because she has never had a bf b4, and weve been friends since age 7.

But now she seems more comfortable around me, like now she talks more, and seems more comfortable, but then she'll seem like she wants me, I can tell by the way she looks, and the way she acts, she just seems really sad, and down,

Oh yeah, and she told her mom , that she is just really really scared, and that she does like me, but she told her friends she just dont want to hurt my feelings, now her and her mom are really close, but so are her and her friends, Do you think she likes me, or is just letting me down easy?

And I am respecting her wishes, I emailed her and told her that I respect her decision, and we havent talked about it since.

But I really really do care for her, I wake up and she's the first thing I think about, I go to sleep and Fall asleep thinking about her. I mean I know I'm only 15, but I really do love her, and would do anything in this world to be with her. I've tried moving on, I've been trying to do that, but I just can't. Even though I am am guy, yes I have cried numerous time for her, and about her. I mean, I'm not ugly, I'm fit, and I'm not a big geek or anything, so what gives? I really do love her, what should I do?

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And, yes, her mom likes me, she told me that she is encouraging her daughter to date me, she also said that it was really hard for her daughter to sent that email, but in the mean time, she is really flirty with this other guy.

2006-09-18 04:35:35 · 19 answers · asked by robinson z 1

2006-09-18 04:33:43 · 8 answers · asked by imlaura2006 1

to put your hand on a man's cold hard nipple????? mine are highest after i drink coors light....

2006-09-18 04:32:30 · 16 answers · asked by barnabus finkle 1

I have this friend of many years that I just recently have discovered may likes me. Everytime she sees me, she tries to find a way to get me alone with her. Anyway, I just met one of her friends and asked a question about where they met. I was curious but not interested. Well, she shot back a hesitant answer and then asked why I cared. She then asked where I met one of my friends she had just met, but she did not seem to care about my answer. Did I do something wrong?

2006-09-18 04:30:02 · 12 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2

2006-09-18 04:29:17 · 24 answers · asked by Ali L 2

THis is for both guys and girls to answer. I really need a date for homecoming and I wanna figure out how to get a guy to notice me.

2006-09-18 04:27:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was wondering about this because here in the united states women seem to like tall men. This has been awkward for me because I am not that tall. What cultures does this exhist the most? is it just in the US?

2006-09-18 04:27:13 · 16 answers · asked by thekidfromanhattan 1

2006-09-18 04:26:40 · 31 answers · asked by serena h 2

Do they work? What if they don't? Does it make a difference what type of industry the persons work in?

2006-09-18 04:26:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have three nipples. i am unemployed. i am an alcoholic. i have a receding hair line. i have a body odor that resemsles sauerkraut gone bad. i also have bunions warts and corns all over my feet, not to mention my uncontrollable bowels.

so lets recap.i am an unemployed, alcoholic, tri-nippular, balding, bad sauerkraut smelling, spontaneous bathroom going, buinions warts and corns all over feet man.

will you date me???

2006-09-18 04:25:52 · 21 answers · asked by barnabus finkle 1

Does this really work?what items of clothing would the lady have to be wearing to catch your eye in a nightclub without looking like a slag/tart?

2006-09-18 04:24:25 · 25 answers · asked by XCuteX 1

okay, so you have sex with a guy in the backseat of his car, (your first time) and you bleed all over his car seats. Is he a jerk cause he gets mad at you for bleeding (he knew it was your first time too)

2006-09-18 04:23:10 · 21 answers · asked by flashypsw 4

2006-09-18 04:20:40 · 7 answers · asked by Princess P 2