as we become more and more intimate with each other we have become more playful as well, tickling and play wrestiling around and joking and what not. well he has been joking with me and some of the jokes are just NOT funny, and the time when he says it is not appropriate at all.
For example when we were finished making love yesterday he asked if he had pleased me. i said YES and told him that he was probably the BEST lover i had ever taken. he said oh cool, well you are definatly in my top TEN...
Of course, i got a little upset with him (I mean, WTF??) and he said he was just teasing me, and that if i was in the top 10 he didnt say if i was number 10 or number 1....now he never answered if i was number 1 or not
I dont care, its just that the timing was WAY off, I was being really sweet and he was being a typical....man.
is this something i should be concerned about and what do you think it means?
2006-09-18 04:53:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means he doesn't think that highly of you SINCE YOU ARE THINKING OF TRICKING HIM INTO GETTING YOU PREGNANT! Plus you think you have an STD! Good luck with this relationship. Obviously it is built on mutual trust, love and understanding. Get help now before it's too late. Go back to school, get your GED, TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE so you don't end up a miserable old hag with 8 kids by different daddies living off of welfare that I am paying for.
2006-09-18 07:38:46 · answer #1 · answered by BlueSea 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused...was it the exact thing he said that is making you upset or is it the fact that he makes tese jokes up all the time. I had a boyfriend who was like that and it hurt me too. But he would always end his stupid "jokes" with im just kidding, lighted up. So then I started to do it to him too and he didnt like it. So I would say the same thing, im just kidding. Then he would just b/c you kidding doesnt mean you dont mean it deep inside. Thats when I found the what he was saying was the truth and was making it sound like joke.
So if it was just this one thing he said that made you upset, I would just get over it. If he does this a lot. Then you need to get rid of him cause God knows if its just the truth that sounds like a joke.
2006-09-18 05:02:26 · answer #2 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's still a little awkward in some instances w/ you.Humor can often be a mask to either avoid situations or hide nervousness.We guys are just clueless at times.He had no clue that he was saying something inappropriate.There was no malice behind it,he was just teasing you.Forgive him and ask him to be more considerate of your feelings in the future
2006-09-18 04:59:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should be concerned about this at all; he's basically joking around with you the same way he might joke around with his buddies. Yes, I know you don't want to be a "buddy", but you want to be his girlfriend. But you have realize that he sees you as someone he can be open and playful around. Just let him know that sometimes his antics can be seen as a little hurtful and that he needs to choose his words a little more carefully.
2006-09-18 04:58:19 · answer #4 · answered by flyboop_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im still laughing at his joke so im not sure i can answer that well here
why dont you just chalk it up to humor and laugh it off
either that, or get really passive/agressive on him and turn into a total woman
you was done making love right? your focus should not have been on this silly question anyway, we all know that a man needs a cold beer brought to him after sex and that it is the woman's God given DUTY to bring it to him immediately
2006-09-18 05:00:29 · answer #5 · answered by NONAME 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
emmm .. well yeh sometimes we act like *** lol .. but .. u should know what type of guy he is .. i mean if u know that he REALLY loves u then nevermind his bad jokes ... and if u want u can tell him when he goes for a bad joke that it's not funny or whatever and just make him say sorry :) .. if he loves u he'll be afraid to upset u ;) .. peace
2006-09-18 04:58:33 · answer #6 · answered by hunter_free2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares for the perspectives of the lots, the hoi polloi... In Crito, Socrates’ notes that somewhat “we” should not be taken with what hoi polloi think of human beings, and that “sensible men” (hoi epieikestatoi) the only ones well worth thinking—might understand the path of activities. yet Crito replies that the effect of the trial had made all too sparkling “how mandatory that's to care approximately what hoi polloi think of,” because of the fact they are able to accomplish almost the final of evils while a guy has been slandered between them. Socrates demolishes Crito’s place with the aid of the analogical argument for technical understanding: in simple terms as contained on the topic of actual education, he who hopes for self-progression could desire to pay interest to the knowledgeable few and forget approximately regarding the advice of the ignorant many. Socrates scornfully comments that the issues Crito has raised—Socrates’ supporters’ financial loss, the way forward for Socrates’ own toddlers, what human beings think of—“are extremely greater healthful matters for people who kill gently and can advance to existence back and not making use of a thought in the event that they could: hoi polloi themselves.” in assessment, for “us” the determination of the thank you to act is desperate with the aid of justice, and justice is to be chanced on in user-friendly terms via logical argument. The get away entreated with the aid of Crito is then shown to be unjust on the muse of Socrates’ impressive premise that, opposite to familiar perception, that's on no account good to dedicate injustice (adikein)/do harm (kakon poiein), even in line with harm.
2016-10-15 03:15:52 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he seems like hes a pretty laid back funny kinda guy just his timing is a bit off! just let him no that at the time it wasnt the best thing 2say and mayb he will try and improve wen making comments like taht again! i dont think u need 2b concerned
2006-09-18 05:13:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be concerned obviously hes with you and keeps coming back but he just needs to be told when its time to play around and when its not set those boundaries with him
2006-09-18 04:57:03 · answer #9 · answered by lost_in_love_still 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's fair to say "typical man". Not all of them are idiots. This guy sounds insensitive. It's something to be concerned about. If you like him, you'll have to call him on it each time he does this. But be ready: he will do it again.
2006-09-18 04:56:59 · answer #10 · answered by meillee44 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋