I made my gf mad she is 20 and has a 2 y/o child. We got in a heated argument online and now she says she is hurt and may have lost feelings for me. I have appoligised ( in many ways Radio, Myspace, a webpage, and also a bear and roses). She says she needs time to think but it so hard and I miss her and her kid sooo much. I just wanna know what to do and how i might fix this. She is the love of my life.
2006-09-18 05:02:14 · 11 answers · asked by Need Much Help 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I made her mad because she started talking to me about the kids dad and I shorta got sharp with her and things escalated. I have told her how sorry I am and I really am just stressed... Its just hard to give her space. I am just afraid she is gonna forget about me and what we had...
2006-09-18 05:07:39 · update #1
And about internet comment we saw each other on a daily basis we just use yahoo to talk when we arnt together. jeesh
2006-09-18 05:09:01 · update #2
I did not say something bad about the kid I love that lil guy. She says I hurt her because She was suppost to be able to talk to me and I exploded on her...
She was telling me about the Childs dad being a D**K to the kid.
2006-09-18 05:13:42 · update #3
Now that I know more about the situation,I can answer it better...
tell her you were jealous,and that made you explode,tell her you are sorry,and that you support her and her kid...
Call her,and ask her out,to speak about things,tell her exactly what you wrote here,that she is the love of your life,and you didn`t mean to hurt her.
and when she sais bad things about the father of her child,tell her,to forget about him,because her child doesn`t need him,as long you are around.tell her that he didn`t disurve her and either the kid.
2006-09-18 05:08:26 · answer #1 · answered by donatella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it all depends bout wat ya argued about n if it was somethin really important to her. theres 2 things dat can be goin on here. 1 either shes really hurt n wat she needs is time den give her time or 2 she may not wanna be with u n usin dis arguement as an excuse to break up with u. tell her ur sorry dat u love her n her child and da last thing u would ever wanna do is hurt her like. tell her u dont wanna loose her or her lil girl.
2006-09-18 05:08:38 · answer #2 · answered by mperez637 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my son i know how it feel to be jealous over her ex but i just like to let u know all of us have our own past and it is no use to dig them out. does it matter if they have been really close before? i been through something like u b4 and i will say what matter most is that she loves u and thats good enough. meanwhile, stay rationale, set your priorities in life in place, spend a balance life with ur own family and friends. she need someone who is responsible and give her a breather. she already told u what she wants now and thus listen to her. anything extreme will just make her sick. meanwhile be at peace with that man and respect him for the fact that he does has a special place in her heart b4. be postive and remember suspicion and jealousy will only kill a relationship.
2006-09-18 05:26:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not religious, but if ye are christians, loose complete contact with her for 3 days. Then call her and express the hell you have been in and how you died a thousand deaths by not hearing her voice.
2006-09-18 05:05:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ultimate thank you to be sure if she's mad. Are you waiting for this one? ASK HER. If she says: "i'm advantageous" then she's in all probability pissed. yet issues must be ok. She could in simple terms be busy.
2016-10-15 03:19:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is very sweet and she is crazy for not forgiving you but no matter how bad it hurts you should just wait for her to come to you
2006-09-18 05:07:20 · answer #6 · answered by Kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Newsflash! If you only communicate to her via the internet, she is not your gf.
2006-09-18 05:08:05 · answer #7 · answered by 6th Finger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her some time think, then go to her and apologize in person and tell her how you feel about her and the child. and next time try not to be an ass.
2006-09-18 05:05:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her space....we women can be stubborn at the best of times...she'll be fine, just leave her till she's calmed down...good luck
2006-09-18 05:04:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwww...you seem like such a sweetheart! She'd be nuts not to come back to you!
But what did you do that made her so mad at you?
2006-09-18 05:04:06 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋