lets say that he made me go through hell at first. He had left me for another girl when i was carring his child, do to that stress i lost it and two more with him. Then he would mentally abuse me and well had done more..ever since then i have been not so good with relationships but now he has become as the most sweetest guy but in the past i was at the hospital due of stress.Should i still talk to him or just let the past go.
2006-09-18 04:54:09 · 17 answers · asked by lisa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let the past goo... your blinded by him and ignoring other blessigs around you.
2006-09-18 04:56:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to let him go. He might be sweet and all now, but what happens when this act goes away? It will happen all over again. Avoid the abuse while you can. NOW!
Its hard to hurt somebody you care about, but you must think of yourself first, in the end, your all that matters. Get on with you life. You can and will find somebody who will make you happy and somebody who will treat you right.
And last of all, you must try hard not to let your past relationship affect your new ones. So before you start anything new, you must be completely over with the past relationship. Get the help and support you need to be able to trust a new person and to be able to let somebody else "in".. otherwise a new relationship will not last.
2006-09-18 05:05:26 · answer #2 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can u even reconsider him?... I still can't believe what I read. I don't know if to u a baby means anything; but to me it means the world. Think about all the abuse he has put u through, think of all the pain. If a person has ever hurt u he/she will do it again. How can u even call a person like that ur best friend. He manipulates u, he know how to get to u. Now think about it and ask yourself if that's the kind of life I want. To me this seams extremely stupid....
2006-09-18 05:07:14 · answer #3 · answered by Twilight 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need counselling to get your thinking straight.
What on earth are you thinking? Lose him and do not take getting pregnant so lightly.
Grow up and be a responsible member of the human race. Learn some self respect which the counsellor could start showing you. It will probably take some time based on the information, badly written here
Sorry to be so hard but you need to get into reality as soon as possible
2006-09-18 05:00:50 · answer #4 · answered by mjdp 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cut him out of your life forever. He is not a best friend. He is cold, and manipulative and you are falling for it. You sound co-dependent. Find some books on it and on self-esteem and/or get some counseling. You will feel much better when you come out of the without him in the picture.
2006-09-18 05:23:34 · answer #5 · answered by grudgrime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. Delete his number from your phone, throw out his address and email.
Like an addiction you need to cold Turkey, its the only way.
It will be a bit weird at the start but you will feel better for it as time goes by.
2006-09-18 05:03:20 · answer #6 · answered by John Q 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you have a prolonged fetish for mental distress definately keep him in your life but if you want a break from mental humility tell him to be sweet and p*ss on an electric fence
2006-09-18 05:01:11 · answer #7 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have tried to be friends with my ex and it did'nt work like you he had put me through hell and we became friends a while after the relationship ended and he was being sweet with me when we were friends and it turned it to be him playing games with me and trying to get me back so it ended sourly again so its really up to you and if hes really worth going through all the hell again he made be different but if i was you i be really cautious about his intentions too
2006-09-18 05:01:56 · answer #8 · answered by luvlifeshell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK IT WOULD BE OKAY TO TALK TO HIM AND LET GO OF THE PAST WELL I KNOW YOU WONT FORGET ABOUT IT BUT DONT LET IT FAZE YOU AT ALL. WHY CUZ HE IS THE ONE THAT IS NOW SUFFERING AND REALIZES WHAT HE ONCE HAD. SO NO NEED TO WORRY U CAN ALWAYS USE A FRIEND JUST BE HAPPY DONT SHOW HIM NO WORRIES.
2006-09-18 05:02:31 · answer #9 · answered by LiL MaMa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
umm well if hes just a friend ok but nothing more i am in the same situation but i never had a child i talk to him but i know it could never go any further and every time hes sweet and nice i just remember any day he can be an *** again just this time where a shield on your heart
2006-09-18 05:00:11 · answer #10 · answered by lost_in_love_still 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
perhaps u need someone of a good husband qualities who is responsible and faithful. meanwhile, be friends with him 1st and don't jump into relationship too fast. never ever go into sex b4 marriage and liberty in sex bring u no good. will pray for u my dear.
2006-09-18 05:09:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋