Singles & Dating - 14 September 2006

I just got out of a long relationship of over 5 uears and my girfriend is moving in a few months. I have 5 more months to live with her. It hurts because she is acting like she does not care about me at all. How do I continue to live with her? What do I do? I hate that she is moving because she was my best-friend. Nothing is clear anymore and I am always depressed. i have considered therapy, medication, EVERYTHING. It's very tough because I wanted to propose in December. When all is said and done, is it possible to co-exist together after all that we had? How can I move forward, knowing that i am living with my past? What can I do to get by? I am really struggling and need some HONEST, REAL, heart-filled answers.

Somebody, please help me!

2006-09-14 10:21:17 · 19 answers · asked by IdahoJoe 2

Here's where you all come in! I'd love to hear your love stories...

2006-09-14 10:20:53 · 5 answers · asked by fabulous diva 2

I have been dating this guy for 4 months fairly casually although he knows that I want more and we are going to talk about it when he gets back from his trip. But I am dying to communicate with him while he is away but I don't want to scare him off.

2006-09-14 10:20:46 · 9 answers · asked by jenmcarty 1

One night after a fight and drinking with my girl I got another girls number from a friend, Weeks ago and someone said I was hooking up with this girl. My girlfriend found out and she won't listen to me at all. I never even called the girl or have ever spoken with her was a simple mistake to get the number I know. Should she ignore me and really be upset and not want to speak with me at all?

2006-09-14 10:19:55 · 22 answers · asked by lfdtiger12 1

ok,my boyfriend lives in va beach so we dont really c each other alot we talk by email and sumtimes phone but ders dis otha boii dat lkes me at my school and hes really cute and he askes me out every day but every da y isay im not sure let me think about it i feel like im breakin his heart i really lke him and he really lkes me but i have a boyfriend so ladies...or men i need your advice!HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-09-14 10:18:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-14 10:17:00 · 12 answers · asked by *JC* 3

2006-09-14 10:15:14 · 23 answers · asked by oh baby 3

Bill and Ted and I and tried to rescue some historical babes from marrying some royal ugly dudes. But we were wondering, who would you want to date if you could travel back in time and pick up anybody, and why?

If there's an even number of answers, I'll pick the sweetest, if it's an odd number, I'll pick the sexiest. Have fun.

2006-09-14 10:13:51 · 17 answers · asked by Wyld Stallyns 4

who is it?

2006-09-14 10:12:46 · 12 answers · asked by *JC* 3

I have pictures and text messages that my ex-boyfriend sent me on my cell phone, and I want to delete them, but I also want to hold on to them. I don't know why I'd want to keep them, because we didn't have a good relationship. I know this is a stupid question, but I'd like the opinions of others.

2006-09-14 10:12:32 · 9 answers · asked by Lindsay 1

me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and know the sex is just boring what should i do

2006-09-14 10:12:09 · 28 answers · asked by hotpinkangel_9 1

2006-09-14 10:11:46 · 11 answers · asked by *JC* 3

i REALLY like someone, now i'm not sure if 11 is the right age for a girlfriend, but before i moved some people have had dates, or asked out but when i moved, nada, so now i wonder, just answer the question.

2006-09-14 10:11:40 · 1 answers · asked by Ian H 2

2006-09-14 10:10:55 · 6 answers · asked by meaney 1

I have had a problem latley with people noticing my chest! I was talking to a guy the other day and he was talking about my chest and starring at my chest, then i had a group of guys (in which i know) yell "David said you have huge boobs"
My last problem with this guy i know fairly well, is always hitting my chest with something, one day a water bottle, the next day his hand.

The thing is i know these guys are joking so dont say "file for sexual harresment" i understand what they are doing is not appropriate. What should i do (one of the guys i like) and i dont want him to stop talking to me either..

If you have any ideas on why they are suddenly so observant, or how to get this to stop let me know! thanks =]]

2006-09-14 10:09:51 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-14 10:08:24 · 7 answers · asked by cdrfish7 1

how does one escape the trappings of "unrequited love"? (well.. to be honest, it would be closer to "unrequited strong interest")

2006-09-14 10:08:11 · 4 answers · asked by classy_gui 2

but she keeps bugging me. Guys, what should I do? Help!

2006-09-14 10:06:34 · 62 answers · asked by cdrfish7 1

My boyfriend an I have been dating for 2 1/2 years now. We have both known that we want to get married and we have talked about it since about 1 year being together. The problem is, I get very depressed sometimes about my life. Mostly it is about not being married. He says that he doesn't want to get married when I obviously have other issues that need to be worked on through counseling. I don't think this is fair. I think he should want to be with me with or without the depression. What do others think I should do?

2006-09-14 10:06:29 · 13 answers · asked by Cheeseball123 2

i have never even said one word to her...she is in one of my clases and homecoming is on oct 6 ...what do i say to her now that is kinda of early..and how will i know if she already got a bf

2006-09-14 10:02:17 · 20 answers · asked by primetime0309 1

My sister told me she is going to kick me in the nuts when I am not expecting it, and laughed. I think she is not kidding because she and most of her friends do it to boys in school.
It was not easy, but I told my mother about her threat but she told me that “girls don’t do that” and “grow up and be a man”, and she does not want to hear about it anymore!
That happened to a friend of mine in school, and now he became very withdrawn and never mixed or went out again, he was a very happy outward going guy; I think after that he stopped talking to girls. He feels sexually abused, violated and humiliated; he is emotionally damaged!
I can not be alert all the time, what can I do?!!!

2006-09-14 10:00:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

For every lady that has answered any of my questions thank you from the bottom of my heart. I just got out of long term relationship and I was far from a model boyfriend. But I tried to change for the better. But by you ladies answer my questions you help me adjust not having the love of my life in my life. For every guy that has done you wrong I get down on one knee and I apologize.

2006-09-14 10:00:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am trying to write a poeme to my girl,so I need some inspiration.Thanks for your contribution

2006-09-14 10:00:10 · 14 answers · asked by crazyfrog 2

i've known my best friend for more than 3 years now. Recently, she's been talking to my boyfriend a lot. I'm not the jealous type, so i don't care, and i know he would never do anything to hurt me. Who i'm really concerned about is my friend. She's the sort of type who starts to get crushes on people who don't really like her. She always ends up getting hurt. For some reason, she insists on treating him as if she were his girlfriend too, even though they're just best friends(i'm assuming) Like how he asks her to buy her stuff, and is always there talking to him. Today, i don't remember what she said, but he gave her a hug, and i didn't reallly mind, but then i saw the expression on her face, and it was happy. Then he went back with me, and she got sad. And lately she's been saying that we "gross her out" we gross everyone out. (grow up) which is not really that true. so what do i tell her? or him? but he doesn't know of this.

2006-09-14 09:59:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was listening to the radio and the men were complaining that when they are "friends" w/ female coworkers, they become labelled as "Gay" if they listen to problems and give advice. but because they are so bothered by that label, the talk show host said "if ur not attracted to her, be mean to her to stop her from talking to u...?" but why should men "be rude" to show their masculinity.... does that make sense to u?

how does Being Rude = Taking charge of masculinity? i understand why being labelled as gay is not appropriate, but being someone's friend usually means listening and giving advice, being someone worthy of leaning on. i think this adds to why a lot of women feel that men are "pigs" instead of being able to Respect him as a Man... what do u think?

2006-09-14 09:56:45 · 16 answers · asked by sasmallworld 6

And, how old are you?

2006-09-14 09:54:57 · 12 answers · asked by Me 3

2006-09-14 09:54:24 · 26 answers · asked by Me 3

And how old are you?

2006-09-14 09:54:03 · 13 answers · asked by Me 3

Please take me seriosuly as this is really getting me down. I really like his guy called Petr who Ive known for a few months now. Im not a girl who usually tells people that I like them, its sorta because Im afraid of rejection but I know Im an attractive girl and I do get a lot of attention from boys, but not ones that I want. This fella is compltely different to the guys I usually have after me. Hes quite quiet, smart, and very hardworking and I really like him for this. I told him I liked him the other day because I was really 100% sure he liked me but he then said nothing could happen until he spoke to his mate Chris (the Chris thing is a long story, hes become a bit obsessed with me so Peter wants to be loyal to his friends). What I think the problem is is that Peter is a bit intimidated by me, even though Im not how he thinks. I think he see's the fellas that usually like me and they arent likehim at all. He doesnt drink or anything like that so I tihnk hes a bit worried that Im

2006-09-14 09:53:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

In terms of one minute they are ringing you and being really cool and the next minute they show a different side. I'm confused. Help.

2006-09-14 09:53:06 · 22 answers · asked by Mr Y! Answers 3