but she keeps bugging me. Guys, what should I do? Help!
2006-09-14 10:06:34 · 62 answers · asked by cdrfish7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you selfish fker... that's all i have to say.
2006-09-14 10:09:10 · answer #1 · answered by sneakyfker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you're a jerk and you're selfish. Do you know how painfull abortion is? Why not you have an abortion instead, you jerk. I can't believe that you wouldn't care that your girlfriend is going to go through a lot of pain if she does do the abortion. Giving birth is even painfull. What would you do if you're girlfriend gives birth to your son or daughter. You'll probably leave her 'cause you're a jerk as I said before. Putting on a condom is simple while abortion is not and your girlfriend will be the only one that has to do it. It also costs lots of money while buying a condom doesn't and you'll probably make her pay for it too. I'm surprised she hasn't left you yet.
2006-09-14 11:19:00 · answer #2 · answered by Viki H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear a condom because she might not believe in Abortion or she might of had an Abortion once before and it was so heartbreaking that she doesn't want to go through that again. And if you don't respect her and let her come around she might leave you for someone that will wear a condom. Theres always that risk of getting Pregnant.
2006-09-14 13:47:37 · answer #3 · answered by aberboychris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she had any sense she wouldn't mess with you at all! She probably doesn't want to put her body through the stress of an abortion. It can cause complications and she could not be able to have a baby in the future. If you really loved and cared about her you would respect the fact that she wants you to wear a condom.
2006-09-14 10:15:40 · answer #4 · answered by jessicaann29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you joking me? You're actually using abortion as a birth control method? If you have a problem wearing a condom, then you probably just have a problem. Think of what you're telling her -- "I don't want to wear a condom because sex doesn't feel good without it. Instead, you need to go have invasive surgery if you get pregnant. Don't worry about the pain and complications -- at least I'll enjoy our sex more!"
Either wear the party hat or don't have sex -- it's that simple. If you love her, you'll do it. If you don't love her, it's best to move on.
2006-09-14 10:13:11 · answer #5 · answered by CapnPen 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ready for me to be blunt? okay, good.
Grow up, you say abortion like its a walk in the park. Abortion is not, and never will be birth control, and thats what you think it is.
Either wear the condom, or ask her to get on the pill.
Honestly, I think she needs to kick you to the curb, I cannot believe you would even suggest that as a solution to a problem that is really easy to avoid.
you dont deserve to have sex with anyone if you arent willing to take the measures to protect yourself and her.
Are you even aware of what you are thinking? Because honestly, I do believe you are using her a sex toy, rather then someone you actually care about.
2006-09-14 10:23:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my advice, start wearing a condom. Because #1 condoms are cheaper and #2 Abortion is a cop out and is totally wrong in my eyes. Maybe you should just refrain from sex would be the best option.
2006-09-14 10:12:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should she take a chance with you? Your question reflects the zero amount of concern that you have for her!
She should get an operation if pregnant because YOU do not care! Too she should KILL the child that might give her, but do not want?
You are not a friend in the lest sense. And if she had any self respect she would cut your tired butt a lose in less than a heart beat!
It is with total lack of conscious that you would appeal to the world of sleaze, to support you against this Young lady that is correctly conscious about both health and social issues?
The only negative issue about her is her seemingly, willingness to allow you into her pantie! BIG MISTAKE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-14 10:27:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You as a man should wear the con_om. You need to get professional counseling, not your gf. Gf you need to find another man, because if someone is wanting to put you through an abortion, then you do not need him.
I would not even think about putting a lady through an abortion.
Good luck Gf
2006-09-14 17:02:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! How old are you, you must be like 17 or 18! That is complete BS. She wants you to wear a condom, not only not to get pregnant, but probably because she doesnt want an STD from you! Maybe she should get on B.C., just an idea?
2006-09-14 10:10:47 · answer #10 · answered by RRK7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats just sick. Do you realize the trauma it would be for a woman to have a abortion? Act like a man and take some responsibility, where the dang condom.
2006-09-14 10:09:35 · answer #11 · answered by momof2boys 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋