me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and know the sex is just boring what should i do
2006-09-14 10:12:09 · 28 answers · asked by hotpinkangel_9 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you mean now, and let him know
2006-09-14 10:13:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love this guy? If so, then let him know you aren't satisfied. I can't imagine a man that isn't willing to try new things in bed.
If you don't love him, but you're with just so you don't have to be alone, move on. It's probably not worth the effort to get him to liven it up.
2006-09-14 10:16:07 · answer #2 · answered by yossarius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is depressing. I feel bad for you. Maybe you are having too much sex. If you don't love him enough to stay with him even if sex isn't good then you should stop the relationship because it is going nowhere.
2006-09-14 10:15:13 · answer #3 · answered by jerryjames619 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him - if you care about one another then you have to communicate this information with him - its not that he doesn't satisfy you anymore it is you that is not satisfied with your sex life because i am sure that he hasn't changed the way that he performs - look in the mirror and ask yourself do you care about him and if so you need to sit down with him and tell him what it is that you would like to be different and what it is that you like
2006-09-14 10:16:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats why he is called a boy friend and not a husband boyfriends are easy to change tell him your needs and if he cant step up to the plate go shooping 4 a new one
2006-09-14 10:14:57 · answer #5 · answered by Msdeb gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Out with the old and in with the new. If he can't get the "job" done then someone else will. Just be sure to get rid of him before you find someone else.
2006-09-14 10:15:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to spice things up! Try sex toys, a game, role playing...Become more adventurous.
2006-09-14 10:14:17 · answer #7 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it and if he doesnt seem to care then break it off...sorry to say it but once you give it up...the guy loses all surprises lol ya feel but yeah with your next bf try to wait longer and you might get more....like...i proposal later in life
2006-09-14 10:15:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to talk to him about it and tell him what you need to enjoy it .its the only way to have a good sex life.
2006-09-14 10:18:59 · answer #9 · answered by droid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away from the relationship and don't get involved sexually again until you are married. Sex was meant for married people only, that is why you are unsatisfied.
2006-09-14 10:15:08 · answer #10 · answered by Shmootsy 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sex before Marriage can't be as good as after marriage.
Next time, wait!
Peace!
2006-09-14 10:14:07 · answer #11 · answered by C 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋