In terms of one minute they are ringing you and being really cool and the next minute they show a different side. I'm confused. Help.
2006-09-14 09:53:06 · 22 answers · asked by Mr Y! Answers 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They call you every night, and then suddenly they stop and acting all weird!
2006-09-14 09:56:35 · update #1
Also please rate your the best answers to help me. Thanks
2006-09-14 10:03:02 · update #2
i think we all know what we want and when we want it, but when the heart gets involved we freak out,
2006-09-14 09:59:03 · answer #1 · answered by trouble 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think men do it all the time- so it happens after a while that people cn become insensitive when they've been treated the same way by others... not by you ofcourse. But like with when everything just becomes normal- i met someone a few months ago- really nice guy- couldn't wait to see me- kept calling me, then all of a sudden he stopped calling and stopped asking me out. I'm pretty old fashioned in some ways- never ask a guy out for the evening etc- so i didn't bother with him because i know there are better people out there who would give me the attention i deserve.
Go get yourself someone who's worth your time
2006-09-14 17:41:14 · answer #2 · answered by antagonist 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes women get all confused too and they think they know what they want but they really dont. And we tend to analyze everything (at least I do) so we basically go through a lot of emotions which can come off as a "different side" Sometimes you just have to give women space when they act like that. That's just what we do.
2006-09-14 17:00:30 · answer #3 · answered by valentinegirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mixed signals show that the woman is not fully in love with you coz if they are then they will try by all means to win your attention.
When she falls in love with you she will not know everything about you hence she won't be real sure if she has found the right guy. Remember, you will not be her first boyfriend, so you need to sweep her off her feet through your behaviour towards her.She will be making comparisons with her previous boyfriend and you will also be making similar comparisons.All this will be through behaviour and they will be trying to see how you react to petty or serious issues.
Don't be confused because love is a gamble either you are for it or you are not.
2006-09-14 18:34:21 · answer #4 · answered by marizani 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OI men are masters of it to you know the man a love went distant on me didnt wanna meet up stopped showing emotion thenn after a few months dumped me...he rang me up still insisting we should still be friends but was like his old self in away playing songs that used to mean summat to us...fllirting a lil..talking bout things we ad done together,,even said he wanted to come see me...which made me think maybe he`s getting his feelings back..tthen he blanks me for a week and wen we do talk says loves gotta be a two way thing and basically stabbed me in the heart again how can i be friends when hes giving out mixed signals..its not only women...see a person who does`nt know what they want usually dont want wat they`ve got...if a was you id just not contact her let her contact u...dont put your life on hold for her though as you`ll be the one hurt if she does tell you she aint interested...cause if you start to come across as a stalker you`ll push her away even more...if your meant to be together u will be
2006-09-14 19:03:13 · answer #5 · answered by seeclearlynow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that is how girls want you to be. one minute they will be arogant put you down next upset at everything you say and then all over you like a rash this is all designed to keep you confused and on your toes. never ever waste your time trying to understand women it will only drive you to an early grave. just enjoy the good bits
2006-09-14 16:57:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The same reason you guys give mixed signals... we're either trying to confuse you on purpose or we are confused ourselves ...communication and honesty is all it takes, on both sides.
2006-09-14 16:59:32 · answer #7 · answered by Boo Boo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men are equally good at giving mixed signals. one day they tell you they dont want you and its all over. the next time you speak they call you hun or baby. whats that all about????
men and women are equally bad at deciding what they want from relationships.
2006-09-14 18:21:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they didn't they would be men. But really now. They often do it to see if you are paying attention to then, to see how serious you are about them, and so on and so forth. Your best bet is to just listen, I MEAN REALLY LISTEN and only answer in truths. Don't play the same game they do, or you'll be just as bad as them.
2006-09-14 16:59:46 · answer #9 · answered by sermed420 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
mostly because women dont want to look to keen most guys like to do the chasing so if you like her start ringing her and chasing her best of luck
2006-09-14 16:56:47 · answer #10 · answered by angel 36 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they're all mixed up. You got to take it when it come and forget about it when it's gone; until it comes again.
2006-09-14 16:59:09 · answer #11 · answered by kasar777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋