Singles & Dating - 13 September 2006

I'm in love with him..i fall in love with him 16 monnths ago..at first he said that he likes me but i knew that he wasn't..he played with me twice..he dated with another girls..he broke with his last girlfriend...1 month ago he asked for dating to my best friend..my friend said no..i really like him what can i do? but he liked me before..dont tell me to not think about him or forget him..just help me pleasee!i realy need your help

2006-09-13 03:10:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-13 03:10:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, I'm Irish, and I'm a barrister, it's pretty much the same as an attourney I guess. Anyway, I have been told that I'm the tall dark and handsome type, and that I'm funny etc., and before when I was younger I dated a lot and had a lot of girlfriends, but now my career is taking up all my time! What do I do?!

2006-09-13 03:09:45 · 12 answers · asked by irishcharmer84 2

wish for today...what will you ..
wish for??

2006-09-13 03:09:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

And if a skinny girl is flat chested do men still find her hot?
If men find her hot then why do most of the ....symbols have voluptuous curves and round derreire and tops.Are all men and women confused ...Apart from the fact that different pple have different likings...generally speaking those who are skinny want to have big breasts bcoz their boyfriends think so and those who are endowed want to be like twig...Isn't this confusing?

2006-09-13 03:08:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay..so me and my first love are talking again and I really love him sooo much..well he tells me he loves me too.I believe him because he's a really outspoken person..but anywayz he went almost a week without calling me and I don't understand why he waited so long..he talks about our future, but then he just doesn't call for like a week.. so does that mean he's lost interest? what do u guyz think..if this sounds stupid I'm sorry! Thanks for answers and suggestions!

2006-09-13 03:06:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok.. this is what a girl that i like replied to my email, askin how she felt about me,
well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later

ok, now shes 13 I'm 15. We've been friends since like I wuz 7. Now it is totally obvious, because she makes herself perfectly clear, that she wants nothing more than to be friends. I am respeceting that, and giving her space, we havent talked about it 4 3 weeks. My question is, does she like me at all, or is she scared, cuz she says she doesnt want to ruin a friendship??

Additional Details

3 hours ago
But, like a few months ago, it was completely obvious she liked me, I mean people thought we were dating, then she found out I liked her, and she reall backed off. And she told her mom, who she is really close to , that she is really scared, because she doesnt want to take the chance of ruining the friendship. But what should I do/ think:? Because, now she is like totally all over these other guys, like she used to be with me, and it rips my heart out. And please dont tell me I'm to young, I have like many girls, but none like her. I've been trying to let this go forever, but it is really really hard, because I really care for her, I would do anything in this world, anything to be with her, but I want her to be happy , and if shes not happy with me, thats fine. But what should i do?

Additional Details

5 hours ago
I mean she's never beenin a relationship, so she could be scared, will anything ever happen in the future, I mean I am respecting her wishes, and she knows that, We havent talked about it for a long time, could anything possibly happen in the future??

2006-09-13 03:05:50 · 6 answers · asked by how many 1

ok so my ex boyfriend broke up with me a couple months ago. then last week his current rebound or whatever she is yahoo messeges me saying shes young and has lots of goals and doesnt want to be with him or in a relationship and asks for my help to break up with him so she doesnt hurt him..meanwhile he doesnt believe anything i tell him about her and says hes in love i really dont want to see him hurt but i dont get this.

2006-09-13 03:05:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

First of all, I want you all to know that I love this man with all my heart. We got engaged in December last year, and obviously it was the best day of my life. But then a month later I found out that he has been going on to chatlines for about 3 months, and met a girl in that way, which he wanted to meet, but I caught it in time. We had a lot of fights then, and he tried very hard, and he swore to me, that he will never get involved in something like that again, and he will never hurt me like that again. Like all of you know, it's hard to just forget when you've been hurt like that. But it is going better! We still getting married in November! What would you do? Do you think i made a dumb choice? Can men really feel bad for what they did, and never do it again? Honestly now? i'm strong I can handle straight forward answers.

2006-09-13 03:03:35 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

1) Is going on a week trip with a person I really want to be with in the future, in an early stage of relationship, concidered not good?
Do you easily get bored with your partner after a long week together, especialy when you've only been together for 3 months?

2) Guys, do you think you'd like to take your girl with you to another country for a holiday, if she's the one who addressed of wanting to go with you? I found some people think it's a huge turn off when girls are wanting to follow you to your planned holiday.

We've been together for only 3 months yet, seeing eachother only in weekends since we live in different city, which is great to keep things fresh! Just don't want to mess up things too early...

2006-09-13 03:00:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

so feel i've tried just about anything....how and where can i find a good girl to go out with me? how would i pick them up? where should i go to meet them?

2006-09-13 03:00:39 · 6 answers · asked by mr_fury666 3

I do

2006-09-13 02:59:39 · 53 answers · asked by newboyodano 1

I'm a very caring person and i like to cook his meals, clean his house and take care of hs clothes and everything even supporting him in times of trials

2006-09-13 02:58:25 · 5 answers · asked by lovergirl 1

How do women prefer their man. With full pubes, trimmed, or shaved?

2006-09-13 02:57:32 · 13 answers · asked by Chemmers 2

I am lost please someone help me?

2006-09-13 02:57:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-13 02:52:51 · 5 answers · asked by coolguy 2

i did it to a boy then just walked away i think he was shocked but i dont think im a bad kisser

2006-09-13 02:49:23 · 22 answers · asked by vickiebeeeeeeeeeee 1

Will the women love me ...or loathe me?Will I be merely a novelty...or will my accent suggest the animal magnetism within?

2006-09-13 02:49:01 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Cmon ladies! What would you just love to get?

2006-09-13 02:48:24 · 6 answers · asked by joshdp5 1

He's known this chic since they were 7- She lives next door to his parents house (which he's moving home in 1 month) and he's really good friends with her dad...She's attractive etc. and he told me around 2 months ago that if she didn't have a bf he would want to date her..Well now he's claiming she's like a little sister because him and I are a little more serious about liking each other now but since I know how he really feels about her Im uncomfortable about them talking and hanging out alot which they do! She does have a bf but him and her are broken up right now- and last nite i got drunk and used his phone to text message her and she admitted that she is attracted to him and would maybe date him if her and her bf were totally over! Now this is something I dont want to deal with but I do really like this guy? I don't know what to do! He's not the cheater type but I can't really ask him to never talk to her again cuz hes known her for so long and she's really close to his family!

2006-09-13 02:46:53 · 15 answers · asked by BLoNdE22 1

I have noticed recently that mixed within the sites visited on my computer's history are a lot of porn websites. My boyfriend and I live together but it is my computer. I guess I am just offended that he feels he isn't being satisfied enough by me that he has to look at this kind of porn on a regular basis - and what does this mean for a relationship that is only 16 months old? I love him and outside of this I feel that he is very happy in our relationship - in fact, if I hadn't come across these sites I wouldn't think that there was anything wrong at all. Why wouldn't he just talk to me about it or want to look at it with me, etc... if it wasn't something that he is ashamed of or something that he feels he can't get from me. It makes me feel like I will never live up to his expectations and this is his outlet for my shortcoming. Any advice would be helpful. I plan on talking to him about it, I just wanted to see what other people thought before I approached him with it. Is it normal?

2006-09-13 02:46:15 · 23 answers · asked by Molly B 2

My bf claims that he doesn't do that but I found out once that he actually messaged one online friend whom I got to know recently.
He didin't told me about it until I asked him.
Although it was only a casual message, I got very upset and find that it is so difficult to trust him anymore.

What should I do?

2006-09-13 02:45:35 · 12 answers · asked by chocolate 1

Come on girls,be honest,it's only me!

2006-09-13 02:45:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

The summer before college (last summer) I worked asa veterinary technician. There is this community service organization that would get wild (feral) cats from town and bring them into our vet´s office and he would get them fixed, mark them (in case they got caught again), and release them again to keep the cat population of our town down. Occasionally, a cat would come in and she would be like two weeks pregnant, and she would already be producing milk. Well, while the cat was under anestisia, the other vet techs would always squeeze the nipple for the milk to squirt out. (I know, we´re immature). Well, I had never tried it before, so the girl was showing me how you have to get under the base of it and tug sideways. I did that (my mouth was open because I was talking to her), and a stream of it came shooting upwards and into my mouth. I don´t even remember what it tasted like cuz I was in total shock, but let´s just say from now on, I leave the feral cats alone after being operated on.

2006-09-13 02:42:30 · 17 answers · asked by Green-Eyed Gal 7

So I met this guy a few weeks ago, we've gotten super super close but we're not committed to each other. We just keep going on a couple of dates. The problem is he is off on his mission for his/my church for 2 years. I can't go with him, can't phone him, can't text or anything, Just write. For the whole 2 years. I do have strong feelings for him, but should I wait? I told him I wont, that I will dater other guys and if I'm single when he gets back we'll pick up from where we left off....but I'm thinking.....I don't really want to lose him.....what should I do?

2006-09-13 02:41:08 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

have you ever, being alittle short up for cash, maybe you needed to pay an important bill or something, maybe at least once in the past, sold your kitty for some money? just be honest, no one knows who you are in here

2006-09-13 02:41:00 · 14 answers · asked by Beaujock 1

When i get jealous i don't think or behave rationally and at the end of the day my right becomes wrong

2006-09-13 02:40:56 · 8 answers · asked by lovergirl 1

i have been seeing this guy for the last month and the sex is great but he acts so starnge he doesn't want anyone to know about us , he says he has strong feelings for me but hardly ever wants to spend time with me if we aren't haveing sex, then when i talk to him i allways feel like i am bothering him or like he is to busy for me. he says he misses me alot and thinks of me all the time and he doesn't want me to see other people he says i'm his . i'm not sure what is going on i told him last night i was fallig for him and he didn't say anything what should i do

2006-09-13 02:40:34 · 22 answers · asked by MARY M 1

I met a great guy last week and he is 25 and I am 33. He is very mature and has taught me a few things. He is a single dad and im a single mom the age thing is a problem with me not him. Ive never dated that young of a man. WE have alot in common and spend hours on the phone. I really like him though.What should I do? He says that Im passing up a total gentlemen if I let the age thing get in the way and he is also divorced like me. HELP!

2006-09-13 02:40:23 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I asked earlier on, how you feel about "weed" and lots of you said if I met my fiance smoking it, I should except it. But I did except it, untill I realized how badly it affects him. You can not communicate with him at all, he just looks at you. It really makes him brain dead. am I being unfair then, if i ask him to please stop. i'm pregnant as well, and don't want my child growing up with those things around it. Do you guys still feel the same now? You made me feel bad, the ones that said, maybe his smoking it to be able to live me and handle me, and that i'm the problem. You guys really got me thinking now. I feel like a real b****. Like I'm destroying his life!

2006-09-13 02:35:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous