I got over playing head games - I'm straight up with everyone I know - especially my man. With me, what you see is what you get. If I'm not happy, I tell him - I don't pout or whine or fart around hoping he'll notice what's wrong & assuming he will know exactly why I'm not happy. He's a MAN! they don't understand women & have to have everything spelled out for them, anyway. lol
Head games are senseless & immature - try to get away from them if possible - you'll be happier & so will your man.
2006-09-13 03:15:22
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answered by pumpkin 6
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Ladies usually play mind games cause deep down inside they feel inferior to men, but ladies you have to cut that out. We love you just the way you are.
2006-09-13 10:18:00
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answered by Anonymous
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Anyone that tells you that they don't play mind games is a big fat liar. We all do it. Wearing make-up is a mind game. You're trying to trick people into thinking you are more attractive than you really are. Push-up bras, hair dye, girdles, extensions, fake nails. All are untruths that we use to attract the opposite sex. I have also used reverse psychology on men. You know, pretend you aren't that into him, make him chase you. I'm also good at making sure that nothing is ever my fault. It may not be the most mature approach to relationships, but it works for me!
2006-09-13 10:28:07
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answered by CrazyJ 2
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i think to some degree we all play mind games. Its sort of a defense mechanism used to shiled what we truly feel. We think that if we can inquire information without spilling our guts then we have really accomplished something. But in essence we really only succeed in fooling ourselves and truly knowing the person whom we are with. If were playing games you better believe they are to. Innocent harmless playful games are just witty and attractive. But when we set out to deceive it can become very devastating. I dont denie that I played games with my man that I am currently with. It was my way to see if he was up to the challenge and if he could outwit me. As women we want strong men who challenges us in every way. But we also want someone who is honest. We cant be expected to find that if we ourselves are dishonest. The only games I can say I have truly played is the obvious hard to get because men want challenges too. Anything above that would be with my ex husband who I emotionally ripped apart, and am now suffering the Karma from that. Mind games are just merely emotional trails of ****, and your stuck cleaning up the mess along your journey of life.
2006-09-13 10:29:14
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answered by fryedaddy 3
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You have issues. Look up Dominatrix and sadism. You have a need to hurt people. Some poeple like this, most people destest it.
2006-09-13 10:26:16
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answered by campojoe 4
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Hm. I don't know. I think we women do this a lot without even realizing it. Manipulating that is.
2006-09-13 10:16:35
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answered by Anonymous
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When stupid whores play mind games, us guys just play a little game of our own called smack the skank.
2006-09-13 10:12:14
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answered by Anonymous
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Deception, lies & untruthfullness are all great female qualities. Don't lower yourself any further *****.
2006-09-13 10:15:28
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answered by bereftcat 4
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