He's known this chic since they were 7- She lives next door to his parents house (which he's moving home in 1 month) and he's really good friends with her dad...She's attractive etc. and he told me around 2 months ago that if she didn't have a bf he would want to date her..Well now he's claiming she's like a little sister because him and I are a little more serious about liking each other now but since I know how he really feels about her Im uncomfortable about them talking and hanging out alot which they do! She does have a bf but him and her are broken up right now- and last nite i got drunk and used his phone to text message her and she admitted that she is attracted to him and would maybe date him if her and her bf were totally over! Now this is something I dont want to deal with but I do really like this guy? I don't know what to do! He's not the cheater type but I can't really ask him to never talk to her again cuz hes known her for so long and she's really close to his family!
2006-09-13 02:46:53 · 15 answers · asked by BLoNdE22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Getting drunk isn't the answer, as a matter of fact, it makes things worse. You had no right to text message her. Your bf is the one with the committment to you, not her. She has nothing to do with it. She can't cheat on you. You're way too insecure
2006-09-13 02:50:28 · answer #1 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all seems like you do not trust him, and you need trust in a relationship to make it work, if he see's this and what you have done, he will know you do not trust him, and could possibly leave you, guys need to know there trusted all the time if he has done nothing wrong but tell you how he felt, there is nothing wrong with that he was open with you and you should be thankful, cause he could have not said a word to you and did something about it, then what would you have done, lets be seriouse here you do not trust him and if you show that you can kiss him good bye you might as well go up to this friend and say here you go have a good day, if your so insecure with yourself about him having a good friend since he was like 7 thats your problem deal with it, talk to some friends and ask how they deal with there mates best friends, maybe if you meet her and found out who she is, you never know you may comes friends as well then you all can hang out together and this way you hide your insecurity with him and her being together and he will not think you do not trust him at all.
2006-09-13 02:53:40 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are acting like a nut. They have been friends since they were 7. You say that you are interested in him so you two aren't even really dating yet you feel the need to "test" her by using his cell phone? Look at what you have done now. You have created a huge mess.
You need to step away from this relationship. The minute he finds out what you did it is going to blow up in your face.
Try not being so jealous next time and try to remember to stay within the boundaries (ex: not using his cell phone to send messages pretending to be him)
You will never have a rewarding, meaningful relationship if you act like this.
2006-09-13 02:50:29 · answer #3 · answered by jennypoo803 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 21:11:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if it takes your being drunk to see the truth then am sorry it was wrong of you to impersonate your bf and invade his privacy shame on you, if you trust him you would not of resort to that you have given them the gun to destroy your relationship be brave and bite the bullet, it is only reasonable that they have feelings for each other it's how deep the feelings are is your major problem and don't worry talk to your bf let him know that your insecure and please don't accuse him of anything that you haven't seen with your naked eyes and let him know what you did so that ghost in the closet won't come back to hunt you and remember that he is with you after all find comfort in that and
all the best to you guys :-)
2006-09-13 03:02:32 · answer #5 · answered by playful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put all of your cards on the table. Be true to all parties. Tell him that you know she likes him and that you like him too. You can tell him that whatever he chooses, you'll accept. In the end, whatever happens you know that you've chosen the most honest decision. If you get the guy or not, you know that you weren't dishonest and you made the best choice.
2006-09-13 02:51:59 · answer #6 · answered by ubiquitousmee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW... that is a hard one... You know they are going to go out when he gets home so don't stress yourself out over it... If you and him are meant to be then everything will be fine... You should tell him about the text message before he does though or you and your guy will be over...
2006-09-13 02:51:48 · answer #7 · answered by kdbnsc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make it clear from him -what's up........because its not necessary that what she feels exactly your bf thinks too! Be nice towards your bf and I hope everything will be alright.Make that gal aware that not to do koochee-koochee with your bf as he thinks her like a sis.
2006-09-13 02:53:59 · answer #8 · answered by MARY JANE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's life kid! In love there is always risk, so roll the dice or leave the table. You've got him so don't worry about their friendship. Would you want him telling you to dump your friend because he's a guy?
2006-09-13 02:50:16 · answer #9 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
okay sweetie. sounds like you need to go ahead and cut ties with him before you get hurt. if he openly admitted to you that he would date her if she didn't have a bf then that says something about his lack of feelings for you.
2006-09-13 02:49:47 · answer #10 · answered by Kevin H 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋