My bf claims that he doesn't do that but I found out once that he actually messaged one online friend whom I got to know recently.
He didin't told me about it until I asked him.
Although it was only a casual message, I got very upset and find that it is so difficult to trust him anymore.
What should I do?
2006-09-13 02:45:35 · 12 answers · asked by chocolate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave him. If he lied to you once, he'll lie to you again. You don't have a relationship if you don't have trust.
2006-09-13 02:47:28 · answer #1 · answered by bad_dog76 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I believe when you are in a relationship, both of you should still have your own time for your things like message others in friendsters or IM with your friends. Maybe you will disagree with me but I feel it is alright for not telling you afterall it is his personal life. Both of you should give each other some breathing space, if you try to control him too tight the relationship may not work out well for both of you. You have to be confidence in your relationship, otherwise your relationship won't last long. Do give yourself and your bf sometime to settle things out
2006-09-13 03:57:45 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am in a relationship and I use myspace. I only use it to keep in touch with friends who live far away and to hear from friends back from highschool and such. But as for trying to make chick friends, I wouldnt even think about crossing that line. If he is being secretive about it, thats just as bad as meeting someone in person without telling you. There is no reason for him to be trying to make chick friends. Maybe guy friends, but not ladies. It could just be harmless chatting to him, but you may not know the other person's intentions. If hes not telling you the truth about that, then Id be weary.
2006-09-13 02:51:10 · answer #3 · answered by green_wave49 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well Ger... making frez ard is juz normal... but mixing ard wif motives tt's another story... ur bf is indeed in e wrong as he lied to u however to haf a long stretch of relationship some qualities should b invested... Such as mutual trust n understanding... dis r e basic one if both of u dun develope it soon it will *** to e end... all e best to u... Gd luck...
2006-09-13 19:53:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha many relationships have been destroyed by My Space honestly, really if you're in a relationship you need to be very clear about your relationship status at the least to make sure your partner knows what your intentions are even if others still try to message you. Leave that My Space mess alone, both of you! lol.
2006-09-13 02:48:46 · answer #5 · answered by Jeanelle 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i recognize the way you sense! i have been by that & this is honestly confusing. this isn't a solutin. you need to truthfully examine with him. tell him what you recognize, the way you sense, what you've been doing and how you imagine you both can form this out! If he would not sound very prepared to form this difficulty out, then...babe, i'm sorry yet you need to imagine about looking a guy who advantages you! yet you need to attempt to advance verbal substitute - between the numerous causes relationships fail is bcs of lack of verbal substitute! i desire this can help! best of success!
2016-11-26 21:11:27 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think that it is wrong to message anyone as long as there isn't anything going on. You wouldn't want to give up friends, so I would think that if he gave up messaging, that would be like giving up a friend.
2006-09-13 03:01:11 · answer #7 · answered by a_n_cassell 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're being a little over sensitive.
As long as the e-mails remain "casual" and not flirtatious or sexual then leave him to it.
2006-09-13 02:48:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There just his friends...Unless he was a member of an illicit porno club...Give him a break, everyone deserves to have friends right? Have you stopped talking to certain people since becomming involved with him?
2006-09-13 02:48:05 · answer #9 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when i met my wife, i dropped my myspace right away. sounds like he is not being honest with you!!
2006-09-13 02:47:01 · answer #10 · answered by Kevin H 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋