i have been seeing this guy for the last month and the sex is great but he acts so starnge he doesn't want anyone to know about us , he says he has strong feelings for me but hardly ever wants to spend time with me if we aren't haveing sex, then when i talk to him i allways feel like i am bothering him or like he is to busy for me. he says he misses me alot and thinks of me all the time and he doesn't want me to see other people he says i'm his . i'm not sure what is going on i told him last night i was fallig for him and he didn't say anything what should i do
2006-09-13 02:40:34 · 22 answers · asked by MARY M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hun, I am so sorry to say this to you or anybody...but your his "Booty Call"! Believe me I know.
Men only do that when they want to keep there options open or just want sex, either way it still leads to you being a booty call and you don't deserve that, move on and find a guy who's not useless... unless you just want sex too..?
2006-09-13 02:42:48 · answer #1 · answered by Charmed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am really bothered by the comments "Your His" Get your act together girl, anyone who claims they own someone isn't worth knowing. This guy sounds like he has someone else (maybe even a wife) thats probably why he doesn't want you to know anything. My advice either enjoy the sex (short term) or just dump him and take control of your life girl. You will end up losing your independence with this one.
Good Luck
2006-09-13 02:55:24 · answer #2 · answered by oooooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he's already involved with someone else (or several other people). That's why you must keep it quiet and can't spend time with you. Plus when you call and he sounds annoyed it's cuz the other girl is right there and he's trying to play it off like you like him and won't stop chasing him (like a cover up to save his *ss). So he's cheating on you (I can almost guarantee that) and he is using you for sex and sex alone. He knows that if he keeps tellling you what you want to hear then you'll keep giving it up. So you have to decide what you're going to do about it.
2006-09-13 02:48:14 · answer #3 · answered by T.G. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is married, or has a girlfriend. Sounds like he is getting from you exactly what he wants, and that he is possessive. And you are being used. Don't use sex as a bait, are you that lonely or insecure? What is going to make it special when you do hook up with the right guy?
This guy sure isn't it.
2006-09-13 02:45:57 · answer #4 · answered by David S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your the side kick as sad as it is. He has another girl, that everyone knows about hence why your the secret. He seems interested in you only when sex is available so maybe you should stop being so easy?
2006-09-13 02:43:37 · answer #5 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men have an expression. Riding a moped is like being with a fat woman. Both are fun to ride until your friends see you on one. Get the hint?
2006-09-13 02:43:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awe honey, don't you know when you're being used for a piece of *ss? move on before you believe he 'owns' you...you CAN find a good man that wants to spend time with you out in the world showing you off!!!! even us fat ugly one find that...you will too. don't waste another second of your life with this pig!
2006-09-13 02:47:58 · answer #7 · answered by bigmammarush 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Un fall for him. If it seems that you're bothering him all the time, and he wants nothing more than sex from you, seems to me, you answered your own question. Good luck.
2006-09-13 02:49:36 · answer #8 · answered by Steve R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do girls ask a question that the answer is right in front of them...you're just kidding, right? Cause you're not that stupid to let a guy use you. We might think we need them and they know this so they use it to their advantage.
2006-09-13 02:50:31 · answer #9 · answered by Peaches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its time to move on. He don't seem to want you for other then sex. Dump him and find better.
2006-09-13 02:43:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋