Okay..so me and my first love are talking again and I really love him sooo much..well he tells me he loves me too.I believe him because he's a really outspoken person..but anywayz he went almost a week without calling me and I don't understand why he waited so long..he talks about our future, but then he just doesn't call for like a week.. so does that mean he's lost interest? what do u guyz think..if this sounds stupid I'm sorry! Thanks for answers and suggestions!
2006-09-13 03:06:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry to tell you this, but it sounds like there is someone else that he is interested in as well. If I like a girl I don't go a week without calling her. He is probably keeping you around as his back-up plan. Sorry.
2006-09-13 03:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by Drunk365 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i really thought that this person cared about me and then he wouldn't call for a week i think there is something up with that. I would come out and ask Him what his problem is and where has he been. If he is planning a future with you then he shouldn't get mad at you asking. I have been married 13 years and I want to know where he is. It's called respect and if he doesn't respect you enough to answer you then he might not be worth it. What happens after you all get married and he tries this stuff again. Keep your eyes wide open i think there is more to him than you think.
2006-09-13 10:15:53 · answer #2 · answered by cassandra b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem with my other ex boyfriend we just broke up. Here to find out that he did the same things to me. He went a week without calling me and his friends all told me the reason he did that was because he liked someone else. Yes, I know he talks about your future we did the same things. Truthfully we have been broken up now for a week or two and I still love him. Guys wait for you to call them also. They don't like to use the phone is there excuses for not calling you or they were busy . But just ask him why he didn't.
2006-09-13 10:11:15 · answer #3 · answered by ♥I~love~my~Fiance♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like maybe on occasion with this guy, he gets scared of the reality of your relationship. Cold feet so to speak. Take it slow. And ask him out right, don't beat around the bush. Good luck.
2006-09-13 10:10:38 · answer #4 · answered by smile4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt neccessarily mean he lost ineterst he just doesnt wanna see too desparate and he doesnt wanna b a bother if he cals too much then the relationship could end cuz like if he caled u a lot u would get tired of him and look for someone new......the best relationships r that give the other peson some space know what i mean??
2006-09-13 10:11:04 · answer #5 · answered by Ivona R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he isnt payng u attention for a day a week or whatever belive me he is giving or tryng to give attebtion else where he might indeed love you -- but if he is young he is prob pursuing other tale
2006-09-13 10:10:57 · answer #6 · answered by steve_n_okc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should call him. Why does he have to call you first?
2006-09-13 10:11:37 · answer #7 · answered by Josie31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best think to do is to call him and ask him what happened.
2006-09-13 10:09:40 · answer #8 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best person to ask this question is him..... communication is one of the keys of a healthy relationship.....
2006-09-13 10:21:09 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah, he must 've been busy
2006-09-13 10:11:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋