Ok.. this is what a girl that i like replied to my email, askin how she felt about me,
well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later
ok, now shes 13 I'm 15. We've been friends since like I wuz 7. Now it is totally obvious, because she makes herself perfectly clear, that she wants nothing more than to be friends. I am respeceting that, and giving her space, we havent talked about it 4 3 weeks. My question is, does she like me at all, or is she scared, cuz she says she doesnt want to ruin a friendship??
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3 hours ago
But, like a few months ago, it was completely obvious she liked me, I mean people thought we were dating, then she found out I liked her, and she reall backed off. And she told her mom, who she is really close to , that she is really scared, because she doesnt want to take the chance of ruining the friendship. But what should I do/ think:? Because, now she is like totally all over these other guys, like she used to be with me, and it rips my heart out. And please dont tell me I'm to young, I have like many girls, but none like her. I've been trying to let this go forever, but it is really really hard, because I really care for her, I would do anything in this world, anything to be with her, but I want her to be happy , and if shes not happy with me, thats fine. But what should i do?
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5 hours ago
I mean she's never beenin a relationship, so she could be scared, will anything ever happen in the future, I mean I am respecting her wishes, and she knows that, We havent talked about it for a long time, could anything possibly happen in the future??
2006-09-13 03:05:50 · 6 answers · asked by how many 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you're still young. enjoy life!
2006-09-13 03:12:28 · answer #1 · answered by majikah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her and tell her if she's scared you dont have to rush into anything but make it clear that she is hurting you and you need her to be truthful about what she wants. LOts of girls her age are exactly the same and get nervous when they realise that the person likes them back. If you really want to make something with her then i wish you luck! To go through all this for her must mean she's worth it. Think long and hard about any question she might ask to make sure you have the perfect answer. If it looks like she aint gonna ruin a friendship she probly come around! Good Luck!
2006-09-13 10:18:50 · answer #2 · answered by lucystott87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what I can tell is that in her letter she said you guys have always been good friends and it should stay like that and I think you should listen to her. I think that she is really scared and also she has always thought of you guys together as just friends, eventually maybe in the later future she might feel the same way as you, but dont push it now, give her time.
2006-09-13 10:17:00 · answer #3 · answered by babejules2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all she's only 13. Maybe she's just not ready for anything more than friends. Don't push her. Continue being friends and as your friendship grows she may change her mind. The best relationships start out as friendships.
2006-09-13 10:11:25 · answer #4 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit tryin to sound like you know what you're talkin about. You dont have the faintest clue as to what is going on. Go play with your GI Joe and wait till your 17 to play more games and ask stupid questions
2006-09-13 10:13:14 · answer #5 · answered by captcruzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you both have plenty of time continue to be her friend and remember if it is meant to be it will be
2006-09-13 10:11:13 · answer #6 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋