Singles & Dating - 6 July 2006

Ok - I am finally with the most amazing man. But I tend to have a pattern with relationships -- when I fall for someone, I forget about me. My self-esteem is so tied to what THEY think, THEY feel, etc...and at no fault of theirs, do I put all my self-worth into our relationship. When I am single, I am very confident, strong, etc...but maybe it is the fear of being left or not good enough that makes me focus sooo much on the relationship at hand. Is this normal? How do I balance this? This man is so important to me and does NOT force me to focus only on him or anything. He is supportive and loving but I feel my insecurities grow the closer we get. How do I RELAX and truly just ENJOY our relationship without overthinking EVERYYYYTHING?!! lol. HELP

2006-07-06 03:48:17 · 7 answers · asked by Iluvme2 1

because there is a possibility that you might fall for him ...

2006-07-06 03:45:18 · 39 answers · asked by johanna may g 1

my boyfriend has a my space and he put our pic that we took together and put it as his profile pic and his friends left comments and the comments weren't nice and it made me upset one of his friends said why do you have your arm around a horses *** so I'm mad

2006-07-06 03:45:10 · 5 answers · asked by Ashely w 2

i slept with a guy on new years eve really bad really stupid but i had not had sex for 1 year was n the verge of having a nervous breakdown had been severely bullied at work? I think he knows i dont normally do that type of think bevcasue it was not amazing at all in fact a bit uncomfortable ithink we were botha bit lonely and seeking comfort it does happen right? He was really in to me my work got the better of me i got really stressed out cant explain felt like everyone was against me strange but true...i have tried to apologise he wont have it yet when we are out he keeps on starring at me and keeping an eye on me to see if i am with anyone else what does this mean i am really atracted to him? But surely if he was that in to me he would make a move back ...men are the hunters arent they? initially on new years he was frightened to come up to me...he said i scarred him well if thats the truth why apprach me...please can you help me diffuse a very confused situation.

2006-07-06 03:45:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is there a time limit to asking them out or is it just wrong? Does it depend how long the relationship has been over?

2006-07-06 03:43:31 · 18 answers · asked by Juicy Sweet 1

2006-07-06 03:40:56 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-06 03:40:25 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am going to NJ to visit a guy, but everybody keeps telling me why isn't he coming to Florida. Am I making a huge mistake?

I kinda bought the ticket... I leave Friday at 7:40pm. I am staying at my uncle's house in the Bronx. I have seen pictures, we do talk on the phone, and he's sent me letters. Just today I received a letter and a CD full of romantic songs. I'm so confused.


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2006-07-06 03:40:15 · 12 answers · asked by Leila 1

knowing fully well that the answer would still be "YES"

2006-07-06 03:39:49 · 10 answers · asked by wakeup247_m 2

2006-07-06 03:39:22 · 6 answers · asked by caron c 1

how old would u allow your daughter to date someone man older than she is......

2006-07-06 03:38:14 · 11 answers · asked by Bill C 1

What does a guy truly mean when they say "Let start of as friends first and see what happens?"

2006-07-06 03:36:59 · 27 answers · asked by nina 1

Say i had a good start, but didnt know how to act at the time (now i am much more enlightened). eventually i decreased the attraction level to the point where friendship was the only option.. so i told her not to call me. so why did she txt me asking how i was doing and say "i guess i'll see you when i see you"? btw i dont live in the same town anymore, but still relatively close

2006-07-06 03:35:53 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-06 03:35:38 · 41 answers · asked by wonderin 1

Ive spotted an Italian lovely , and im dumbstruck!help me!

2006-07-06 03:34:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

be wrong for him to use ESCORT CALL GIRLS FOR SEX.

2006-07-06 03:33:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

There are a couple of things that i'd like to tell my bf but i'm afraid that they might sound a little sappy. What's your opinion.

2006-07-06 03:30:44 · 20 answers · asked by divaintraing 2

2006-07-06 03:30:37 · 13 answers · asked by Megan 1

2006-07-06 03:29:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Whats the first thing you look for in a girl??

2006-07-06 03:27:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I live in Bville. Am 30,but look 20. Never had a gf.My e-mail is im1poet@yahoo.com if anyone can help.

2006-07-06 03:26:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

What makes your nipples hard

2006-07-06 03:26:11 · 11 answers · asked by Banker 2

Ok so next week friday would be a month this guy and I have been talking via online... I feel that we are compatible and that we should take it to the next level...via communicating on the phone... Kille part is that another guy who I started talkign to online at the same time as guy number one has already said we shoudl chit chat on the phone... Why won't guy Number 1 say the samething... Maybe he's not that into me... The last time he emailed me he said that he's to shy to call and he has to muster up the courage to call me and that he doesn't want to mess anything up... I read the book "He's just not that into you"
and from what I gather with guy number one is that maybe he isn't (Based on not wanting to call me) but he does email me alot.

Do you think guy number two is moving pretty fast?

I really like guy number one and I don't want to scare him away but should I just put my cards on the table and let him know?

2006-07-06 03:25:37 · 9 answers · asked by nina 1

The reason I am asking is because I am dating an older guy and he seems to be the one, I am taking it slow because I have been hurt in the past. But his daughter is a daddy's girl, so I am trying not to pass judgement on this man, so what advise would you give to a deseperately seeking to find true love woman. And by the way she is about 25 years old.

2006-07-06 03:22:47 · 18 answers · asked by peaches 2

2006-07-06 03:22:30 · 6 answers · asked by Charles C 1

2006-07-06 03:21:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have a 1 yr old daughter. I just found a hotel receipt in his pocket ( I obviously was not in attendance to the hotel when he went, I was out of town). I have always suspected him of cheating, but now it is confirmed and I know it is over and I plan on moving out by the end of the month (he doesn't know I found the receipt yet). How do I accept that our child will not have us both there now. I think I was just hanging around for her. He is the best father (just a lousy boyfriend). I am crushed. I think I may be more embarassed than hurt. What do I do?

2006-07-06 03:20:43 · 15 answers · asked by Diamonds_4Ever 3

2006-07-06 03:20:05 · 5 answers · asked by rayd 2

2006-07-06 03:18:57 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous

A relationship with a married person.

My answer is no!!

2006-07-06 03:17:29 · 25 answers · asked by Judith 4