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Ok so next week friday would be a month this guy and I have been talking via online... I feel that we are compatible and that we should take it to the next level...via communicating on the phone... Kille part is that another guy who I started talkign to online at the same time as guy number one has already said we shoudl chit chat on the phone... Why won't guy Number 1 say the samething... Maybe he's not that into me... The last time he emailed me he said that he's to shy to call and he has to muster up the courage to call me and that he doesn't want to mess anything up... I read the book "He's just not that into you"
and from what I gather with guy number one is that maybe he isn't (Based on not wanting to call me) but he does email me alot.

Do you think guy number two is moving pretty fast?

I really like guy number one and I don't want to scare him away but should I just put my cards on the table and let him know?

2006-07-06 03:25:37 · 9 answers · asked by nina 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

9 answers

guy#1- could really be nervous about calling you it's way different then chatting on line, guy#2- isn't moving too fast he's more relaxed about the whole meeting people on line thing.
I have a similar situation except guy A- doesn't want to chat on line he prefers talking on the phone where as guy B- doesn't mind either way, he says whatever is more comfortable to me.
If you really like guy#1 then ask him if he would like to talk on the phone and get his # and call him, but remember he already told u that he's shy so the phone conversation might not go as smooth as u would like it. But hang in there and be patient! Good Luck

2006-07-06 03:36:06 · answer #1 · answered by browneyes517@verizon.net 3 · 0 1

Talk to whoever you want on the phone and get to know these guys a little more. If guy #1 is "too shy" to talk on the phone, it might not be that he's not that into you (by the way, I love that book! It changed my life!) but that perhaps he has something to hide like a wife or Lord knows what. Any guy you meet online who after much correspondence still does not want to talk on the phone and hear your voice sounds like one to stay away from. If you want guy #1 to take it to the next level yet he won't and you started talking to guy #2 around the same time, I don't think it's too soon. Keep your options open and you'll know what to do when the time comes. Good luck!

2006-07-06 03:32:52 · answer #2 · answered by SuperJenn 4 · 0 0

Let #1 know that you would be interested in talking on the phone, but don't make him feel like you are pressuring him. If he tells you he's not comfortable with it yet, let it be. It doesn't mean that he's not interested in doing that eventually, but internet relationships can be kind of scary, so he may be shy about it. Maybe give him your number and tell him you would love to talk, but leave it up to him to decide when he'd like to call. Don't get his number, so he knows that it's completely his decision.

2006-07-06 03:29:31 · answer #3 · answered by lizwatson109 4 · 0 0

inspite of the actuality that i in my opinion imagine U2's first 2 releases, Boy and October, are their best, they obviously reached yet another factor and yet another target market with Joshua Tree. I also imagine that become their very last good album. The Replacements easily reached yet another factor with "enable that is", yet once back, it become fantastically a lot downhill from then on. i'd also say that each and each and every one in all Johnny money's American Recordings albums were representative of a factor that not even I, a lifelong fan, knew he had left interior the tank. the classic by using which all different examples of this are measured will be "darkish facet of the Moon."

2016-10-14 04:28:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

maybe guy number one thinks becus the two of u communicate via email its not necessary to call, moreoever he's already told u that he's shy so maybe u should give him time to muster courage if he doesnt i think u should let him know how u feel about him.

2006-07-06 03:37:17 · answer #5 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0 0

when you know something is right, you dont shy from taking it. if guy #1 was worth all the trouble, youd be talking right now. my gf and i met online and i was shy to pick up the phone, but i managed the guts just to talk to her like my friend and ive been hers for months now. if he wants it so bad he will take it.

2006-07-06 03:29:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Get off the computer and go meet someone. Develop some real social skills, so when you do meet the one person you'll stay with, you actually have something real to say. Turn off the computer and go outside!

2006-07-06 03:28:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i met someone on the internet and actually went on a date with him, he was okay and very nicebut not what i expected, at all! so just make sure he is what he says he is!! AND BE CAREFUL!!!

2006-07-06 03:28:44 · answer #8 · answered by Mz. Tanning Bed Junkie! 4 · 0 0

i don't know about that whole internet dating scene

2006-07-06 03:29:49 · answer #9 · answered by riki_muz 2 · 0 0

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