Other - Family & Relationships - 23 October 2007

I am still not fine with the chatting. I caught him creating a profile and emailing random girls. It still says in his profile in a relationship. He said that he wants to chat with girls just for fun. He never plans to meet up with these girls. He just wants one on one action. I offered him that I would let him go because I think he wants to be single. But he said that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. He asked to give him time to get the internet chatting out of his system. His tactic is to gain the trust of other girls and make "friends" with them... and then that's when he would talk sex with them. But that's all. He gave me all his accounts and passwords. He is open about it and gave me permission to look at what they talk about. What should I do? Is there such a guy who are really like that? I am not sure if he is telling the truth about him just want to have fun with other girls. I am stupid to hold on?

2007-10-23 09:51:27 · 12 answers · asked by confused 1

What does a man want in a girlfriend? Say you already have the girl - do you want her to be sweet and attentive? Play hard to get? Be funny and entertaining, or quiet? Always be available to you or independent and out with her friends all the time?

Thanks:-)

2007-10-23 09:45:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

We didn't talke for two weeks after and I didn't know what to do. We got in a huge fight/silence treatment and it just can't get resolved. Its tough because sometimes she comes over to the house to party with everyone or I see her around campus but she seriously wants nothing to do with me. I think she felt bad, but I felt even worse. Any advice would make a big difference.

2007-10-23 08:59:03 · 5 answers · asked by California Jack 1

My daughter was friends with this boy since kindergarden. Then we moved to Canada, and out of nowhere he started calling her everyday. I didn't put too much into it- they both are after all only 11 yrs old. Then I checked her email(I do this regularly mostly to see what her dad , my ex- is writting to her) I saw all those emails back and forth with the boy, each one ending with I love you,Me too,and most disturbingly- I want to make out with you!! My daughter telling a boy she wants to make out?? What does she mean? How do I find out without pushing her away from me(she usually shares her crushes with me, but nothing about this one and I don't know how to proceed? Plus- she will see this boy when she goes to visit her dad,and I'm freaking out, cause in one of the mails the boy writes"I have a hiding place in my backyard" (to make out that is)
I know crushes are normal and they will fade, but to teach my daughter to deal with this properly I need to start acting now! HELP!!!

2007-10-23 08:50:44 · 9 answers · asked by gsdmania.com 2

It has looked like I can't have kids for years. So I told him I do not want to mess up any chance I have at having kids by taking birthcontroll. I told him if he wanted to be safe (for birthconrol, we have both been tested and are clean) to use a condom.

Long story short we had sex with out a condom and now he only talks to me to see if I got tested yet. This is after 6 months of dating. I understand being worried but what the heck?

2007-10-23 08:42:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

These guys I work with are always trying to touch my breast and butt. I was going out with the new guy who used to work at my job for about a week. I only had sex with him three times. The other guys never payed me any attention until I had sex with the new guy. I've asked them to stop because I don't want to look like the company sl*t. But they still keep bothering me. My friend suggested for to have sex with them so that they leave me alone. Should I have sex with them or at least give them oral? They won't stop!

2007-10-23 08:41:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

The guy i used to like last year has been showing me more attentions than usual for the past two days.He seems to like teasing me & keeps saying things like "I want to play with your mind" (not straightforwardly,but in a round-abt way).Today as I was leaving the same room he was in,I overheard one of his friends say "too bad A,she's leaving".He even suggested that he thinks that I deserve to be in the prefects' list instead of my best friend(who's really good at that stuff).

I am just confused as to what he wants from me after all this time.Is he just playing with me or does he really want to get together?

Thanks everyone.


p.s. I DID ask him out last year & he told me that he would have said yes,if not for the fact he wasnt looking for a relationship just then.so,i kind of gave up on him after that

2007-10-23 08:25:15 · 2 answers · asked by warm_glossy_girl 1

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2007-10-23 08:07:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-23 08:05:06 · 5 answers · asked by JEFFREY L 1

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On Saturday, my bf and I got into a huge fight that involved us screaming at each other outside (he's 24, I'm 23). Long story short, someone called campus police to quiet us down, and he broke up with me the next morning. He said that he still loved me and wants to remain friends. Well, last night, I received an e-mail from him saying, "I don't want to talk this week. We are not going to remain friends. I would appreciate it if you would leave me alone, and I promise to do the same." This is very hurtful coming from the guy who last week was asking me to tell him what kind of engagement ring I want (we've been dating for over a year). At any rate, I haven't tried to contact him or talk to him since Sunday.

Do you think he'll ever talk to me again? Do you think we'll ever get back together?

We have broken up once before over a similar incident (big fight, he dumped me), but I got an e-mail from him wanting me back over the summer. What do you think?

2007-10-23 08:00:06 · 18 answers · asked by skichamonix515 3

so, it's my first year of college and I'm having some roommate trouble. She seems well-meaning, but she's SO condescending and self-righteous. She didn't drink before college & ever since she found out that I have a past of mild drug use she acts like she's better & more responsible then me. She calls me "hon" which I for one find to be very condescending & she uses these annoying nicknames that I hate. She talks on the phone really loud with her mom or sister when I'm in the room. She makes really tactless comments, like the other day she was like "Oh my god, hon, you can she your veins right under your skin on your feet". in front of everyone. She also thinks she acts as some kind of maternal figure to me, she actually said "Oh my god, I'm so like a mom for you" She even started washing my pillowcase. it seems nice, sure, but I NEVER asked her to do that. I can do my own freakin' laundry. UGH! What should I do?

2007-10-23 07:54:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you constantly have to repeat yourselves to family or have the sense that people are tuning you out?

Have you uttered the phrase "I told you..." about a million times?

2007-10-23 07:29:39 · 3 answers · asked by germaine_87313 7

this guy keeps making fun of my grades, but i get GOOD GRADES, he just has his mom double check and rewrite everything that goes wrong. but i cant seem to get this guy to stop making fun of how he's better than me, because i refuse to answer when put on the spot in class. ((i only do this because i use a higher vocabulary than my class can handle)) IVE EVEN HAD A CHANCE TO SKIP GRADES!

2007-10-23 07:28:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-23 07:05:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

When my family was at dinner at my grandparents yesterday, my aunt asked me what college I wanted to go to and I said I wasn't going to college but I was moving to NY to try my chances on Broadway and everyone just looked at me like I was nuts and started talking about how hard it was and really making me mad. I mean if this is my dream then why shouldn't I go for it instead of wasting time in some college? It's doesn't seem right to me. Besides, I'm just in 11th grade so why is everyone getting so worked up now

2007-10-23 06:20:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

my fiance has been trying for awhile for me to have an orgasm, it just doesnt work, does anyone have good ideas to try and have one

2007-10-23 05:36:25 · 10 answers · asked by texas_tec_chick 4

when we go out we gets lots of stares and it's taking a toll on our relationship. he is thinkikg of breaking up and just being regular friends. please help! what can i say to him to make him stay with me?

2007-10-23 05:17:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do I recognise it?

I've been going out with this guy, for nearly 2 years, but it's a part time relationship because of long distance...so, at the moment, I see he still tries to be on his "best behaviour" with me. We're not living together, yet, but he wants to in future.

So I need to know...what are the signs? What are they, exactly, because I am confused? I don't know if it's him or me.

This emotional/mind playing game thing that he does...it is subtle...for now. But how do I recognise the signs now? Before it's too late.

2007-10-23 05:11:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last night I went over to his house. He was joking around calling himself my dater friend. I was like what is that? Then he said "what do you want to call me?" Was he trying to have the relationship talk with me? He calls everyday and there are only a few days we don't see each other during the week because he has night classes. I have already met his parents

2007-10-23 04:36:44 · 6 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3

I mean do you feel like "your all that" or do you just feel like your better than anyone else, etc. Just curious, cause I don't feel that way very much, but sometimes....I thought about this after I watched the Movie "Little Miss Sunshine" and how she was just so cute and everybody else was all made up and fake looking, especially for little kids. I looked at my daughter and told her she was beautiful just the way she is.

2007-10-23 04:26:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Everyone said mean nasty things because Brittany wasn't flawless looking this year. My body isn't much better so how can I keep people from insulting my body and me?

2007-10-23 03:12:49 · 5 answers · asked by Luxecashmere 1

i have been with this guy for 5 years we have a 2 yr old son and he still continues to cheat on me with his ex.i'm ready to leave him but i want some advice.why do men cheat?is there something wrong with him?or me?i dont understand.i'm crushed and confused!

2007-10-23 02:52:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-23 02:46:53 · 3 answers · asked by sanam a 1

I have to see my ex husband for 2 hours - 4 hours a month at the most as of right now since he doesn't call to visit any other times. He has supervised visits and i supervise him because the court order we had isn't working so we did a mutual agreement at mc donalds and i supervise him and bring a friend of mine.....I get so sick when i have to see him though but i do it for the kids. He has NO problem with our agreement he signed it i signed it weve been doing this for a year now...

The only thing is we didnt notify the court but I heard that you dont have to if you agreed to something. That you only go to court when you DONT AGREE on things.

2007-10-23 02:07:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 20 years old going to a college living at home. I am the daughter of divorced parents who raised me in the church.
When I was 15 I got more serious about God shortly after an incident with my mom's old roomate that unfortunately left me quite a bit less innocent. I do NOT like talking to my mom about my personal life, nevermind my sex life. I try not to have a sex life, and am a self proclaimed christian buthave messed up along the way. Yesterday when my stepdad was looking at my car he apparently found a piece of trash ... it was a slip that confirmed my pregnancy test was negative. A guy I was seeing for a while while not sharing him with my family yet became my ex and we basically had sex.

I am not talking to this guy any more since I feel he makes it harder for me to be obedient to God. But when my mom called me on this (stepdad never fails to convict me) i said I was not pregnant and she said if I was sure we'd talk about it later. I feel violated and vulnerable.

2007-10-23 01:27:26 · 14 answers · asked by sojourning.sarah 2

its been a year now since i live a different life from today. i thought it was a different life,it looks lik it but it doesn feel lik it. i chose this life. but its hard to live the life u choose. i look over my shoulder,n he is not there anymore lik he use to.

2007-10-23 00:54:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous