its been a year now since i live a different life from today. i thought it was a different life,it looks lik it but it doesn feel lik it. i chose this life. but its hard to live the life u choose. i look over my shoulder,n he is not there anymore lik he use to.
2007-10-23 00:54:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sometimes you have to leave something behind in order to go forward. A child leaves a bicycle behind when he gets a car, and a person leaves behind school, Jr. High School, High school, and then sometimes even college in order to get out into the world. Each of these things have their own good memories but we find as we leave them behind that there are better things ahead although sometimes it may look dark as we are going through the transition. It can look scary for a person just out of high school to look for that first job but once a person is working in that job they would never want to go back. you are going through one of those dark periods now but there is an end to the darkness and you just have to feel your way through it. find a group of friends and it will be easier to make it through, perhaps find something you enjoy and do that, or make new friends, and you may find that talking to someone, a counselor or even just a friend will make the darkness pass faster. You mention that "he" is not there like he used to be but remember that abused women - not to say that you were abused - often do not leave that man behind so they stay in the darkness and are beaten or even killed rather than do those things to bring them into the light again - move on and find someone else.
You made a choice so rethink why you made the choice and the good things that will happen in the future because of your choice, and wait for the time when somewhere you will find someone in the future who will be better for you and to you than what you left behind.
Talk to someone if you feel you need to, perhaps get a good physical examination, take daily vitamins so that you don;t get run down - one reason that you could feel this way - and remember that we must have the dark of night in order to have the dawn of the next day of your life where things can and often do get much better. Good Luck to you and I hope your new day is near!!
2007-10-23 01:49:52 · answer #1 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to lose and miss a life is hard
but you do chose how you want your life to be
having someone there takes away the person you are
you have to make time to find out who you are and what you really want your life to be
dwelling on the passed will block your way to the future
we all have something that was good in our life and have lost this.
the only way to move forward is to jump back in to the light
and begin your future
you know how to do this don't be scared
but the longer you stay in your passed the dark will get darker
be positive thing will go your way
2007-10-23 08:09:44 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, i feel for you.
But i have a very important suggestion.
Go to your doctor, get yourself checked out, and describe how you're feeling.
Because there is a good chance you are clinically depressed...
I'm talking from experience, and what you described sounds like this is a definite possibility.
If it is, you can get help and feel that happiness again.
And if the doctor doesnt think so, and you dont want to get a second opinion, just try and surround yourself with lots of people, get out a lot even if you dont feel like it, eat healthy, exercise, and as weird as it sounds, you will start feeling better anyway!
Best of luck.
2007-10-23 08:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to wander around in the dark until you figure out where the light switch is.
Only you can make yourself happy. But you actually have to make the choice to stop being a victim of yourself and be happy with what you have.
2007-10-23 07:58:11 · answer #4 · answered by Barkditch 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u are depressed i can almost feel ur saddness, ur gonna be ok trust me.... i feel darkness creep up on me once in a while, dont look back at the darkness, look ahead at the light ahead of u. new things will come, keep ur head up ok, if ya need someone im here for ya!!!!!!! u may not know me, but i hear what ur sayen ok
2007-10-23 07:58:34 · answer #5 · answered by reba 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you regret the life you choose any chance you get back your other. with the he in it.
2007-10-23 08:10:57 · answer #6 · answered by terri e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u turn emo...
2007-10-23 07:56:48 · answer #7 · answered by elliott!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋